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| Bobcat Senior Member  1490 Posts 2/08 |  Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 6:40AMThis is something that I don't think guys would ever sit around and discuss in person, so I have no idea if other people feel the same as I do! After sex, I feel completely different to how I feel after masturbating. Maturbation doesn't depress me, it just leaves me feeling a little less stressed but emotionally fairly neutral. After sex, I am nearly always on a massive high, it can last for hours or even days, I feel very calm and happy and the world seems a great place. I tend to daydream about the session and replay parts of it in my mind. Small details stay with me (even years after), like how sexy my partners butt looked in her lace panties, how wet her pussy felt or the noise she made when she came. I'd be interested to hear if other people feel like this, or even if you don't. [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 11:13AM [Link] |
| ADT44 Member 876 Posts 7/09 | Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 1:48PM It makes no difference to me. I have had lots of gf's, one night stands or so-called "fuck buddies" or so-called friends w/ benifits or whatever you call them. Does this mean I have never really loved a woman, yea, it probably and sadly does. But then again, I'm not that old yet, so I have all the time in the world. I think bobcat needs to get out more and/or get laid more w/ girls with whom you don't have intentions to get into a relationship with.Then you won't think much of sex any longer or at least not in the sense like you described. Or are you HAPPILY married? In which case all that you said probably makes sense.... [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 30 2010 : 8:01AM And of course, to me, sex is really all about me. Not the other person. It's really just not even fair to go into something like that unless you can be sure the other person really understands that. I had a couple of partners who swore they weren't looking for any kind of serious relationship when we met. I kept going back to them because good, clean sex partners who will respect your limits/privacy/etc are hard to find. And sure enough, eventually they got attached and wanted more. So really. When you're just wanting to please yourself, why shouldn't you? I've given into impulses and had sex with complete strangers. I can't say it wasn't enjoyable at the time but afterward, the worry about disease would set in. I will probably never have sex with a person again. It just isn't worth it to me. Masturbation takes care of all of my needs (Which are diminishing with age, anyway). As far as emotionally? I've always been more of a loner. Edited by - randomprecision on 7/30/2010 8:03:10 AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jul 30 2010 : 10:03AM As for watching porn, my main focus is how much I'd want to fuck the girl, for real. If I gave up on sex, I'd give up on porn too. Porn doesn't compare on any level for me, no matter how much porn I watch, I'm still amazed at how beautiful I find a real naked women. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jul 30 2010 : 11:06AM [Link] |
Jonny Jay  Outlier Moderator 5990 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Jul 30 2010 : 1:20PM [Link] |
| smurftrapper Member 124 Posts 9/09 | Posted - Aug 10 2010 : 6:17PM Masturbation leaves me feeling relaxed. Sex with a partner usually leaves me exhausted, but very blissful! Porn does not play a role in my sex life. I have had lucid memories of sexual encounters with several women that have basically short circuited everything for several seconds to the point that I could have had an orgasm with little or no stimulation other than the memory! Not recommended while driving, or using power tools, or heavy machinery. It's all fun and games until someone gets an ear poked out! [Link] |
| Jonny Jay Outlier Moderator 5990 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Aug 10 2010 : 6:40PM [Link] |
| lunacyagain Member Somewhere between Heaven & Hell 33 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Aug 31 2010 : 8:35PM Sex with Saki gives me an endorphin high and a sense of peace and calm. [Link] |
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