I am a gay guy who has been on the receiving end of a lot of big cocks over the years. I openly admit to being a "size queen" and being fisted was on my "bucket list". A close female friend was more than happy to do the "deed", I figured women often having smaller hands would make first time easier. She knew what she was doing in regards to trimmed nails etc. We found getting her hand inside me was easier than I thought, she took her time and it was a great sexual experience ending with me having an intense orgasm. My question is, my tailbone was sore for a week or so afterward. Anyone else out there encountered the same?
Can't answer your question - but I do find it intruiging that you call yourself a gay guy but are happy let a woman fist you to orgasm. :)
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Posted - May 22 2012 : 7:10PM
Ouch...since you had fist up your ass, perhaps the size of a good sized apple, you'd expect some pain...be thoughtful of wearing a diaper in old age though...
^ That smacks of ignorance right there. Rectal muscles tighten right back up very easily. In fact, if one enjoys anal play and anal sex, it's best to stay in practice so you don't cause yourself any harm. As long as you don't damage the sphincter no diapers will be necessary. Sore tail is normal, just be more careful next time. Try some different positions that don't have you on your back and if you strt to feel pressure on your tail maybe ask your partner to adjust their hand.
SSG...wanna bet..?? as a retired 31 year street cop in a city with a huge gay community, I've been in many a gay houshold on disturbances or natural DOA's where an elder gentleman was wearing a diaper...when I was younger and asked the first man I saw with one why, he told me...Life's experience is grander than books, m'lady...
Well back in my younger days when I was working for surgeons we had just as many straight people that did stupid things to themselves as well as gays. Some of them requiring colostomy bags. I worked there for four years. NONE of it was caused by fisting. I'm not saying injuries from fisting are non-existant. I'm saying they are HIGHLY exaggerated. Some tips for safer fisting. Use laytex or nitril exam gloves. Even a hang nail or callous can be uncomfortable to your partner and cause abrasions to the rectal lining. Use a high quality silicone lube. NEVER OIL-BASED! Gradually work your way up with different sized dildos or plugs. It's not about getting there all at once. Reserve the right to stop, use a safe word or tap out. Keep your ass clean. I'm not an enema fan but when it comes to fisting cleaner is better. Avoid using alcohol, drugs or desensitizers(such as Anal Ease). If you're under the influence or numb you will be less likely to feel anything when something is wrong.
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Posted - May 26 2012 : 10:07AM
SSG...sort of weird that you called me ignorant when in both your replies to me, you semi-agreed with the point I was making. I have seen a lot of weird sexual shit with the work I did. Human perversion has no boundaries. I once made a DOA where a young man ( late 20's or so) died when engaged in auto-asphyxiation masturbation ( when that was all the rage). He died not from accidental hanging, but by crushing his balls. He slipped off the chest of draws he was standing on and landed full force onto the edge of the top. He crushed his nut sack, which filled with blood to the size of a cantaloupe, at least. He died of shock, and perhaps a clot, according to the M.E. I was once a check by on a sick call with the paramedics when some guy broke a blood vessel in his cock when his GF was on top riding him. The cock swelled to such proportions it was incredible. The head itself was about the size of a medium orange, all purple,blackish and shiny. The ER staff had to call some federal medical hotline to find out how to treat this poor guy. His screams still stay with me, that poor bastard. I enjoy this forum the best on this site. It allows those of us with some life experience and some sexual years under our belt to sort of help out the newcomers and less informed. I always considered you one the informed. You always have good advice, opinions, and observations.
You were talking about fisting causing people to wear diapers. It doesn't work like that. People can be injured from sexual acts. It happens. But the fisting diaper thing is almost urban legend status kinda like that chick that everyone went to high school with that supposedly got a hot dog stuck in her pussy. In fact, I cannot find one reference that is not religiously motivated to substantiate the claim that anal sex, anal play or anal fisting would cause long term damage. I did find this on Wiki....Shoving a corn cob up your ass (I have seen this) a wooden spoon (seen that too) or a champagne bottle (I know right) can cause damage. But if you knew how fisting was actually done (besides watching it in porn flicks) you would understand why I am skeptical.
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Posted - May 26 2012 : 3:45PM
SSG: over the years I have come across 3 confirmed gay men with diapers. The first time one had them on. I thought he had a cancer or something. I needed to search him due to the possibility of a weapon being secluded. When I asked him what the deal was with the diapers, he said "too much sex". When I responded "no shit" we but broke out in laughter ( my response was just an honest off the top of the head remark). It also broke the ice, so to speak. He told me his muslec control was not where it should be, and he chose this option verses having an accident and for sanitary reasons. The second 2 times I saw a box of adult diapers once in the bathroom, once in the corner of the bedroom. I aked one guy, why the diapers, and he stated he wore them at night when he slept. I responded 'you shit your pants...??' and he said he leaks at times, especilly if his stomach is unruly.. Of course these men's assholes were damaged somewhere, somehow. I'm not saying that fisting is the culprit ( in these cases), but overall forcing something as large as a man's fist into a hole that is designed to push out cannot be healthy over an extended period of time. Hopefully the original poster does it correctly and enjoys his experience. Myself. I'll stick with a fingertip inserted once in a while if the woman is so inclined, while getting head.
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Posted - May 22 2012 : 9:53AM