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His Dudeness
All Business

Shut the fuck up, Donny!!
2793 Posts
4/10
Posted - Dec 3 2011 : 11:15AM
WardqueenJanine
Member

914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Dec 3 2011 : 11:53AM
^^
Ditto
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Dec 3 2011 : 9:06PM
Because someone needed a term that described being brutally honest and "brutal honesty" just fit right in there.
I didn't say they were. But for cynicism, I guess that depends on how you define it. At any rate, I didn't find anything I said overly bitter or cynical. Maybe it was the way you read it? What is wrong with telling someone if they have to ask how to get laid, they might have bigger problems than a little online advice can fix?
So anyway. There are a lot of things I'm really bitter and cynical about. In fact, I guess you could say I'm bitter and cynical about everything. I'm not happy unless I can find the bad in something. That's just me. But sex is really on the low end of my cynical side.
I'm the counterbalance to the overly optimistic crowds that you will get when you ask any given question. Sometimes things really do suck as bad as they seem to be. Some guys are not going to have a lot of sex with women. That's just life. I'm not bitter about it. I'm just honest about it. If this guy is (say) 20 years old and he's still a virgin, the glass is not half full. I'm not gonna lie to the dude. There's something wrong.
Edited by - randomprecision on 12/3/2011 9:16:46 PM
JohnW
Senior Member

1351 Posts
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Posted - Dec 4 2011 : 5:54AM
Hardly. I must admit I've not yet all of his posts in detail, but there's not something "wrong" only because one hasn't gotten much action at 20 (or even 25, 30).
There could be something wrong, but there is also something wrong with many people who have gotten much action at 20 but will not get much more as they age and fail to mature and fail to attract with anything else than their appearance or not even that anymore.
The average guy does not get "much" action. In that sense you might be correct. He will have a couple more partners than his wife during his lifetime, but that's all. Hopefully he will be happy with his wife. That is if he gets married (or manages to stay in a LTR). Not all guys do. So yes, in that sense you have a point.
 
Bob All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

5516 Posts
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Posted - Dec 6 2011 : 1:49AM
This is a ridiculous, even bizarre statement. But enough said for me on this thread.
rmillar
Member

8 Posts
12/11
Posted - Dec 10 2011 : 4:48PM
Make sure you read this, I really want to help you!
1. Find a girl you're comfortable with! If she knows you're a virgin and she doesn't care, then go for it. Or, just believe in yourself that you're not a virgin and learn on the go! If you take this route, remember to be gentle and passionate with anything you do. Good chemistry and communication is VITAL to your success.
2. Don't worry about your age. Everyone is different and loses their virginity at a different point. Do not compare yourself to standards set by society, it will drag you down.
3. Change your user-name. Seriously. It makes it seem like you pity yourself for being a virgin, something that will only make you lose confidence. Boost your self-esteem, dude.
EDIT: I don't recommend the escort route. I've never tried one but it gives me shivers to think of eating an escort's pussy. I don't care how clean or regulated that industry might be, lol. Just my personal perference, don't mind me.
Edited by - rmillar on 12/10/2011 4:50:58 PM
Jedi Master Bates
Deactivated User

383 Posts
9/11
Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 8:15PM
Dude, dont obsess over it. You simply start by inserting your penis into her vagina. Don't worry about being the ulimate dick slammer. Just pay attention and enjoy.
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