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UCpanther
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20 Posts
1/05
Posted - Jan 24 2005 : 5:00PM
I’ve been in a few MFM threesomes. I never get a hard-on unless there is a woman there. I’ve never had a fantasy about a man. So I’m pretty much sure I’m 100% straight.

But in every threesome the girl has rubbed our cocks together while giving us both a nice long blowjob. And with a few girls we’ve done double anal.
I recently found out there is a term for the pleasure that comes from two cocks rubbing up against each other. The term is frottage.
It feels really good (the warm moist hole/mouth of the girl tight around the extra heat from the other hard dick) but I wonder if it makes me somewhat bisexual? I don’t have any interest in any other kind of sexual contact with a male. And if the girl wasn’t there I’d lose all interest.

Frottage is really common now in porn that is marketed as straight. Sloppy seconds and mouth-filled-with-other-guys-cum blowjobs are also very popular. Not to mention shemales.

Does this mean straight porn is actually somewhat bisexual? (as opposed to full-on bisexual: "gay sex plus a girl")

p.s. when I was a teenager I did get blowjobs from a gay kid who had a crush on me. It’s true what they say that boys much give better head than girls but it bothered me that I had to close my eyes and imagine he was a beautiful girl. It didn’t seem fair on him so I ended it. I’m not homophobic at all but I’ve noticed most young guys who really like double anal / gangbangs are suspiciously homophobic.

licker
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1141 Posts
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Posted - Jan 24 2005 : 7:09PM
I think when you start to get into distinctions that fine, it becomes pointless to try to hang labels on yourself.

Some guys will lose wood if another bloke gets within three feet of them. You are obviously not part of that group, and it makes you open to more experiences.

Just relax and enjoy.

Endless Loop
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1129 Posts
8/04
Posted - Jan 24 2005 : 10:18PM
Yeah, I'd agree with licker, and add,
that is ofcourse if your seeking additional perspective from one of those blokes who prefer the 3' margin, and staying well within the confines of his own yard, that your concerns do however, appear to be valid ones.
The view from here suggests, you've apparently climbed atop the backyard fence, to either curiously survey the neighbors property line, or to precariously begin questioning it..
boss_hog
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maryland
266 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jan 24 2005 : 10:20PM
Uh.. Main man is getting head from dudes. I think that speaks for itself
Endless Loop
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Posted - Jan 24 2005 : 11:07PM
hmmm, point well made.

either curiously survey the neighbors property line, precariously begin questioning it, or to best determine a viable point of entry.

 
Guy Capo
DVSX

100 Posts
7/03
Posted - Jan 25 2005 : 6:34PM
I thought "frottage" was the act of making sexually suggestive contact with an unsuspecting or unwilling participant. Such as the guy who rubs his package against the thighs of the girl he's crammed next to on a crowded bus...or the dude who brushes his dick against the ass of an unsuspecting person tying their shoe in a busy airport. Can someone clarify?

I just don't want to mistake "swordfighting" with true "frottage", if there's a legitimate difference.

UCpanther
Member

20 Posts
1/05
Posted - Jan 25 2005 : 8:36PM
In my textbook that is referred to as "Frotteurism".

Licker,
I'm a student in a human sexuality course so I kind of have to give it some thought.

I was just thinking about the differences between bisexual porn and the increasing emphasis on double-dick contact we see in straight porn. I just wondered whether it was fair to categorise this as not "full on bisexual" but as "somewhat bisexual" (because the guys are not going down on each other but at the same time they are clearly not at all avoiding very intimate contact with cocks and other guys cum)

licker
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1141 Posts
8/03
Posted - Jan 25 2005 : 9:09PM
In that case, perhaps it needs to be viewed as part of a larger phenomenon. I have noticed in this forum that a large number of male viewers of hetero porn are literally obsessed with penises. They carry on in great detail about cumshots, facials, creampies, bukkake, guys licking cum, swallowing, cum dodging and so on. They analyse at great length (no pun intended ), scenes in which female sexuality and even female sex organs play no part at all.

In spite of this, they are often highly offended at any suggestion that they might be attracted to men. (The whole "is it gay?" debate.) Whatever this phenomenon is, the desire to see (or experience?) two penises rubbing together might be linked to it.

Does anything of this nature appear in the textbooks for your human sexuality course?

BTW, I also, have heard the word "frottage" used in a completely different sense. It was used as a name for simulated sex or "dry humping" performed by a couple when fully clothed.

lindi
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3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Jan 25 2005 : 10:15PM
Frottage refers to rubbing against someone (as opposed to insertion or sucking, etc.).

Here's a previous thread with more info about it.

Loraine
Senior Member

1559 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jan 26 2005 : 1:08AM
More on frottage and frotteurism here
MASAMUNE
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1452 Posts
12/04
Posted - Jan 26 2005 : 1:40AM
everybody is a bit bisexual
even homophobes, they just deny it the most, but subconsciously they wish it

when it comes down to the wire, if you love sex then it works both ways and all ways.

of course you can like women much more than men, or vice versa but there is a lingering taste for the other, perhaps invisible a lot of times

adultdvdguy
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New York
14 Posts
7/04
Posted - Jan 26 2005 : 4:39PM

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