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| xExcel Member 71 Posts 3/07 |  Posted - Jan 2 2008 : 9:09PMHi, My girlfriend is interested in possibly having anal sex and has done some research on the internet on the topic, as have I. We know all about lots of lube, using one, then two fingers at first, going slowing, etc, etc. However, my girlfriend is terrifed that she is going to get ripped up (and neither of us want that). I want her to feel comfortable about the whole process and to have fun and enjoy it. Although I saw few reviews for some instructional videos, I was thinking about Tristan Taormino's Expect Guide to Anal Sex, but I was wanting to get some opinions and "real world" experience from people. Thanks [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Jan 2 2008 : 10:05PM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jan 3 2008 : 3:02AM Another good thing would be to get a small and medium silicone butt plug, and start with the little one, soap it up in the shower and just gently insert for a moment whenever you are in the shower. Your girlfriend could do that, as well. Both of you. Then you will both be relaxed and have a good sense of what is involved. It will help you to have a good sense of how to work up to things, get relaxed, go slow, not go too deep at first, nor too fast. You will not tear her up, because you will have a good feel for it, and she will let you know if things get too intense. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jan 3 2008 : 3:03AM [Link] |
| studioline Member 303 Posts 8/07 | Posted - Jan 3 2008 : 10:02PM [Link] |
| mgavin Member Anal is My Thing 820 Posts 3/05 | Posted - Jan 4 2008 : 12:43PM [Link] |
| xExcel Member 71 Posts 3/07 | Posted - Jan 7 2008 : 8:13PM Yeah, I'm in no hurry for this to happen and I've read enough to know that when it does happen I have to go slow and gentle (esp when starting out). Another stumbling block we've encountered before (and I forgot to mention) is when I try figuring her ass either with my finger or toy, she sometimes freaks out because she says it feel like she's going to the bathroom. I don't know, sounds like a fantasy that may just never happen for me, but that's okay. [Link] |
| below_me Member An entire generation of men spoiled by a few kinky pornstars. You know who you are!! 655 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Jan 8 2008 : 12:09PM [Link] |
| jackthetreacleeater Senior Member Shame on you! 2003 Posts 10/06 | Posted - Jan 9 2008 : 7:32PM That's the only trouble with anal and me. I just cum to quickly, on a couple of occasions I've shot my load all over her butt cheeks before I've got anywhere near her hole! She is very tight and I just get too excited. Nothing says romance like anal sex. [Link] |
| Lala Member What a splendid head, yet no brain. 29 Posts 1/08 | Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 6:40PM You need to be patient with her, get her very excited and play around with your fingers, or a toy. It’s a weird feeling; she needs to get passed that first. You need to realize that it’s not just a physical thing. Psychological as well. It worked for me. It was my xmas gift for him. Some 8 years ago. And it still feels weird, to this day. So... patience!! [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 7:15PM |
| Lala Member What a splendid head, yet no brain. 29 Posts 1/08 | Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 7:26PM I am a giver, you see. We were away in a hotel. They were singing Christmas carols at the door. [o\|] I had tears in my eyes as it hurt like hell. But I didnt let him see. How good am I? Not to mention that I bought him a jumper and socks too!!!  [Link] |
| Asmodeus Lord of Lust az-mo-day-us 6338 Posts 10/01 | Posted - Jan 13 2008 : 7:50PM Edited by - Asmodeus on 1/14/2008 6:41:27 AM [Link] |
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