Thank you, everyone who didn't lie to me about sex.

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Now I just feel an amazing sense of relief.

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It's probably something specific to you, not to the general male populace here in America.

Then again, I'm not a sexologist, psychologist, or psychiatrist.

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You should be cautious about soliciting medical advice (physical or mental) over the Internet, especially in an anonymous forum such as ADT.
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Good luck.

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At least on the Internet, there will probably be someone out there that will answer yes or no to the question "Does anyone out there to [insert activity]?" whether the activity is abnormal or not.

If a hundred people read the thread, two people says, "yes, that happens to me", one says "no", and three others post without responding, does that make it normal? No, because the survey methodology is defective.

It's one thing to ask something like "Do you like Camaros?" It's something else to ask about mental health conditions.

But then again, the Internet is full of silly health questions and survey responses. The 'net is a very, very dangerous place to get health questions answered, even just to satisfy your curiosity.

Good luck anyhow.

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My current sexual partner seems to be experiencing some extremely powerful orgasms. While it did gratify me when she mentioned her current orgasms are the strongest she's ever had, it concerns me that lately she cries while having these exceptionally powerful orgasms.

She maintains that she is not sad and that it is just a (new0 function of her new orgasms, and I've noticed her trying to hide that she is, in fact, doing this.

Has anyone else ever had the same thing happen to them? How do you think I should respond to this?

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JAG, i know a lot of women who have cried after/with orgasm, myself included.

i have to say that i completely disagree with cv on soliciting other people's experiences on the web. without internet message boards i never would have diagnosed a medical condition i have (that ten years of different doctors didn't diagnose) without reading about other women experiencing the same thing. yes, my internet diagnosis has been confirmed by a specialist (now there was a waste of a few thousand dollars.)

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Generally speaking, I think the old adage, "The person who diagnoses himself has an idiot for a doctor" still holds largely true.

You have to be very, very careful of where you solicit medical advice from the Internet. If you select your sources very cautious, cross reference and check various findings, yes, it could result in a self-diagnosis that is accurate.

However, that's not what happens in 99% of all Internet health queries.

Oh well, caveat emptor for all those who solicit medical advice online.

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Yes driven, many people, due to their upbringing are uncomfortable with their sexuality and yes, these feelings can linger throughout their lives. This condition is almost always touched on by every single sexuality textbook.

Sex counseling may help you rid yourself of these negative thoughts. There are many books that are supposed to help people develop a sex-positive attitude, but for some folks, a professional's intervention may be necessary.

I will leave my original responses intact since I still believe that self-diagnosis of medical conditions (physical or mental) is very dangerous.

Good luck.

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Thanks for the input, Steph. I'm happy to hear about your positive experience seeking other people's experiences. I agree that any gathering of a large group of people from different areas,sects, religion, etc. should be an excellent source with which to solicit views, opinions, experiences, etc.

Steph, I never expected such a response....can you perhaps explain a little, I'm still unsure of what to do or how to feel about the situation and it bothers me to see her cry...

Edited by - jagnla on 12/18/2004 3:18:19 PM

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EVERYBODY masturbates (except those that lie about not masturbating... or who, sadly, can no longer do it any longer).
So, while I won't dare use the word "normal" here and risk getting flamed, let's just say it is typical human behavior. Take it from someone who's probably a lot older than you... masturbating never hurt anyone :)

And, speaking solely for myself, why shouldn't a lonely socially-inept freak like me enjoy jacking-off and getting some sort of sexual release that I'm never going to get otherwise?

Bottom line: don't beat-up on yourself for beating-off.
Enjoy :)

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I agree with Steph about the power of the net regarding sharing of personal stories that can lead to realisations in your own life and sure, if they are medically related you need to follow up appropriately.

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I dont feel bad...just dirty ::Wink::

xoxo
kinzie
www.klubkinzie.com

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Has anyone else experienced this?

Edited by - Len Nicodemo on 4/21/2006 11:29:06 AM

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Now, on to the thread topic at hand. I masturbate very frequently. I'm not guilty about it. I enjoy my body from head to toe. That said, I do all I can to maximize my pleasure during masturbatory sessions. Why feel guilty about something that is so natural, so pleasurable? It's a natural phenonomen.
Period.

If I couldn't masturbate, I'd go insane.

Edited by - Icetrance28 on 4/20/2006 10:51:36 PM

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The only time I feel true guilt now is when I masturbate rather than have sex with my husband. Sometimes I just want to "scratch the itch" and not be bothered with the whole production of reciprocal sex. I can knock out a satisfying orgasm in under 5 minutes if left alone. If I wake him, it's a much longer affair requiring much more physical, mental and emotional effort on my part. At those times, I usually sneak into another room with BOB, quickly bring myself to climax, then return to his company. This is when I feel guilty, because I could have included him, but I didn't want to.

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All this, and Carpal Tunnel too!

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Edited by - Len Nicodemo on 5/1/2006 5:24:59 PM

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This is normal! So dont be too concerned :)

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Just remember sex is ment ro be fun and not to feel bad after. Enjoy sex and if you finish early whip out thse sex toys lol.

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But my interest in sex decreases by a little amount. Things like "this cum is so messy" when I would normally just have loved to play with it and keep stroking etc... And I haven't been offered a cum-kiss by a girl, but I would imagine that could be a problem too... Continuing to have slow sex after getting my breath back is no problem though...

Guess it varies, luckily I just get this minor decrease in sexual interest.

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