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myuser
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 10:44AM
This weekend was the first time my wife and I watched an adult film together. We really enjoyed it but would have enjoyed it much more if the film was better. We're looking for a website we can subscribe to that focuses on the content we're looking for. Here is what we're after:
-- mac friendly - ideally h.264 downloads, but other non windows media downloads are also ok (hopefully they would just work not require quicktime codec plugins)
-- quicktime, html 5, or flash streaming is great as an addition to downloads or as a last resort but downloads are preferred
-- very attractive people (both men and women)
-- no excessively fake, plastic women.
-- nicely shaped natural breasts are best (much more attractive, much huger turn on than huge badly shaped fake ones)
-- high quality production values (and at least DVD quality video, but ideally HD)
-- beautiful set (nice tropical location, fancy house, etc)
-- vignette style - a simple set up to motivate the desire for sex and create passion
-- or an actual story, but only if the story and acting are very good and not lame like most features
-- loosely tied together vignettes like in Hidden Obsessions work really well and give a flow to the scenes so they aren't randomly sequenced while not suffering from awful acting and a bad attempt at a real story
-- passion, eroticism, sensuality, desire - the people seem very into what they're doing and are really, really enjoying it
-- the softcore I've seen seems to do a much better job here than hardcore but we'd like something one or two steps more explicit (basically showing oral and vaginal but nothing beyond that -- anal, dp, etc -- and minimal cumshots or visible cum, especially facials)
-- this should include a nice progression from foreplay to sex, not just diving in immediately
-- the idea here is more realism, less acting during the sex - make us believe they would do it this way just for fun
-- not all hard and fast pumping - mix up the pace... slow passionate grinding is usually the largest turn on, especially when the woman is on top (especially when the woman is visibly in ecstasy)
-- no extended genital close ups, preferably none at all (I learned that they turn the wife off) but a few very brief ones are probably ok
-- some of the reality kings stuff has a real sense of excitement, urgency, and pleasure in the actors which is great, but I don't think my wife would like it because of the set ups involved so something with that kind of excitement with a different vignette style setup would be good...
-- sounds of real pleasure - no fake moaning and groaning and music should not drown out the sounds of the actors
-- relatively tame sexually - no anal / dp / facial, etc
-- nothing rough or dark or aggressive or degrading
-- no extended finishing sequences with the guy cumming on the woman in a degrading manner
-- generally positive, happy, fun, pleasurable, passionate sex
-- she seemed to be ok with occasional girl / girl or threesome but this should not be the main focus
-- balance of wide angle / big picture with some closer up shots
-- not softcore either though - we both like to see actual penetration and oral, etc
We're looking for a site that is pretty much exclusively focused on this kind of stuff. I showed my wife a few sites last night and they didn't fly. videobox.com and videosz.com immediately turned her off because while they might have some of this content they also have lots of explicit images that are huge turn offs to her. She doesn't want to see that stuff even while browsing for a film to watch and doesn't really want to see the titles of that stuff either.
I also showed her wicked.com, vivid.com, and digitalplayground.com. She liked wicked.com the best and we watched many of the trailers. The problem with Wicked is that the acting looks really, really bad in most of the trailers, most of the guys are not very good looking, and the sex didn't look particularly passionate.
Does a site like this exist? I hope so and I hope you can point me to it. If it doesn't, can you help me figure out how to find the right stuff to watch without encountering all the turnoffs of other genres (even the titles are turnoffs for us not to mention the images). Digital is best as we prefer to watch on the computer (our best screens are computer screens and the laptop can go in the bedroom or on vacation).
If a site with actual content does not exist maybe you can point me to a review site that reviews films using roughly our criteria with links to order them. That would help us find the right titles without encountering our turn offs.
Specific titles might help if we can't find a site aggregating this content, but we'd rather have a one stop shop to just sign up for the site and have access to a selection of films fitting our taste. Quality (in terms of our taste / the above criteria) is far more important than quantity, but hopefully there would be fresh content to keep us going for quite a while so we can watch a new film every week or so...
Thanks for your help!!!
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 10:57AM
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 11:18AM
^ I have heard great things about vivthomas.com also.
That's a shame your wife didn't like the acting in the Wicked features - it's usually quite good, in my opinion.
Also, I'm not acquainted with websites too much, but there are a few Adam & Eve flicks that might be suitable - not sure how their website works, but worth checking out perhaps?
Finally, www.hotmoviesforher.com would be a neat way for her to peruse different titles, and feel like she is being spoken to as a woman, by other women. They do reviews of the movies, all written by women. I should note that this site still has diverse product though, so there may be imagery/language your wife doesn't like.
myuser
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 11:21AM
Thanks for the tip grover!
That site looks like it might be pretty close to what I'm looking for. It seems to be very heavily weighted towards focusing on pics of women, girl / girl, etc though. I'm not sure how my wife would like that. I might show it to her and see though.
Also, the videos in the members area are lower quality and I saw a review that says they are just clips (each scene is chopped up into clips). We might have to buy from their shop to get the high quality videos from them. Ideally we could find a site with high quality full-length films available to download from the members area so we don't have to buy individual films. That way we won't end up spending money on something without knowing if we're going to like it or not...
myuser
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 11:31AM
Thanks for the tips! My wife has high standards even for Hollywood movies so I don't think any adult films stand a chance int he acting department for her, although Jessica Drake did seem to be pretty good. She just didn't have much support. The best trailer we watched on the Wicked site seemed to be Housewives of Amber Lane 2. That one seemed to have a bit better acting than the others.
I checked out hotmoviesforher.com but it's not very Mac friendly and we're on Macs. It also had too much content she's just not going to go for (as you suspected). It would be best if we could avoid the category list including many of the offensive (to her) sounding categories and the titles of films in those categories.
So far vivthomas.com is the closest I've seen but I'm not sure how she'll react to that one. I'm still hoping someone else will have another idea...
 
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 11:43AM
Okay. How about Marc Dorcel's movies? dorcel.com?
myuser
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 4:05PM
Hmm. Thanks for the tip, but that doesn't look like what I had in mind.
A couple other examples that might be close to what I'm after are Candida Royalle Eyes of Desire or the new New Sensations Romance series. Both seem to be a little bit in the right direction but have too much plot and I remember some anal at least in Eyes of Desire which is a no go. Also, the actors are not as attractive as we would like (super fit bodies are very much desired).
myuser
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Posted - May 23 2010 : 4:53PM
Has anyone ever been a member of http://www.thecouplespleasuredome.com/? This site looks like it might be what we want but it's hard to tell as it doesn't offer much info without joining. How is the selection? Does it really eliminate potentially offensive titles (especially anal and cumshots)? Are the actors attractive? How is the video quality?
If any members of it could reply I would really appreciate it!
Thanks!
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Posted - May 24 2010 : 10:09AM
Hmm. You might try Sweet Sinner. It's b/g, their films have narrative, but not much of it, and it's written/directed by a woman - the acting isn't great, but the men tend to be attractive (women too) and there have been no plastic-looking people in my experience. A lot of the performers tend to be a little older too - no 18-year olds. The sex might be a bit too much for her, but it didn't sound like she was totally against a good passionate scene. Worth trying I think.
Honestly, I'm not sure if a film exists that fulfills all the criteria - the beautiful locations are rare, due to budget, so the most beautiful locations tend to be really nice back yards (as in Elegant Angel). When I read the bit about locations, I immediately thought of Eden, and Rawhide (I think these are both Adam & Eve), but these do have some performers on the more plastic end of the spectrum. Not too bad though, and it's shot nicely.
I have seen a lot of Wicked features - some aren't good, and obviously had little budget, but others are really fun and sexy. You could try their vignettes/all sex lines, or if you're looking for a feature, try anything by Stormy Daniels.
Depending on what your wife finds attractive, you also might want to try older movies - they have more plot, but the sex tends to feel more sensuous and, in my opinion, the performers are much more attractive in a natural and passionate way. Depends on what your wife finds attractive. You can also find vignette films from this era.
myuser
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Posted - May 25 2010 : 1:06AM
Thanks Gore Gore Girl.
Can you recommend vignettes from Wicked and some older titles? The older ones sound like they might be about right. How old are they? 80s and 90s or older than that?
Some of the criteria I listed were things that I would like / would be ideal, but things like the beautiful scenery are not strictly necessary. I was thinking especially of the Island Fever and Ibiza Sex Party series here. But certainly this is probably the least important criteria as long as the set is not dumpy looking...
I just learned that the film we watched on Friday was done by Playgirl. It was ok, but the actors weren't that attractive and, there was no set up for the scenes at all, and the music was too loud with no real audio from the actors and some bad fake overdubs. If these flaws were corrected it would have been perfect. So it seems like Playgirl style without those flaws might be just right for us if anyone is producing things like that...
repoko94
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Posted - May 25 2010 : 2:49AM
You might try Digital Desire: http://www.digitaldesire.com/
I'm not sure how great they are on plot, but the videos are usually pretty tame and "glamorous".
You could also try the various production company sites like Vivid.com, Wicked.com, and DigitalPlayground.com. All three of them allow you to stream most of their movies.
myuser
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Posted - May 25 2010 : 5:48PM
Do they have sex videos on Digital Desire? It looks like all solo girl erotica. It looks high class but I don't see any couples on the public preview site...
repoko94
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Posted - May 27 2010 : 2:29AM
They do have hardcore boy/girl videos, but, now that I double check, it looks like they only have around 15 hardcore videos on the site right now. I seem to remember them having a bit more in the past.
The majority of the site is solo stuff, though.
Edited by - repoko94 on 5/27/2010 2:29:54 AM
myuser
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Posted - May 28 2010 : 1:39PM
Ok, I've pretty much given up on the idea of finding a site that only has this kind of content. Any suggestions for specific titles would be really helpful. I think we're going to have to just look for specific titles. I'd still like to find titles that will work for us with no editing if possible.
arun yothin
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Posted - Jun 1 2010 : 11:21PM
I've never seen anything from the site, but maybe check out Cinema Erotique. It seems like they meet most of the things you are looking for. The site address is: http://www.cinemaerotique.com/home.html
I just got Erika Lust's "Life, Love, Lust" DVD and it is well shot with a lot of passion as well as nice setups for the sex. There are no come shots and no genital close ups. There is a lot of editing, but it was filmed to be that way so it's not like it was one camera filming with the boring parts cut out. Here's the official website with a trailer: http://www.lifelovelust.com/
Erika Lust also has another DVD called "Five Hot Stories for Her." The official site with pics and a trailer: http://www.five-hot-stories-for-her.com/
If you want another look at her work, her short "Handcuffs" can be downloaded for free here: http://www.lustcinema.com/video/Handcuffs/
(The video is given by Lust for free. This is not a link to an illegal download.)



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