I need some 'slut' ideas.... Last month while my wife and I were doing it doggy style, I pulled her hair and called her a fuck slut and she absolutely went nuts. (Ok, mild stuff for some but our first time.) I want to set up a slut night with her next month and I'm looking for ideas from this forum. We are a purely monogamous couple and won't deviate from that so no gang bangs, 3somes, 4somes, swapping, etc. Any suggestions for making my wife a slut for a hot night of passion?
You could start with something like these IOU cards - you'll probably get new ideas just reading the ones they've already made up. I should warn you, there's a few things you shouldn't say to your wife on "slut night", no matter how "slutty" she's being. I'm not going to warn you what they actually are, though, because I had to find out the hard way, too, and I'm hoping for funny stories from you later on.
Great suggestion about the clothes! Just be sure to get things that flatter her rather than accentuate any body parts that your wife is insecure about. She'll be more comfortable letting go if she doesn't feel fat or embarrassed. Of course, shame can be hot, too, but someday she'll get jaded to what a perv you are. But as a bonus - by the time that happens, she'll be able to do the proverbial golf ball / garden hose trick.
I'd love to help you out but that's a really personal kind of thing. I'd really not like to advise you something that would cause problems. Best advice might be to just ask her what she'd like or what she enjoys.
The trouble with RP's advice is that she may not know what she likes until you show her.
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Uncle Fester Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 26 2007 : 2:31PM
While you are sticking it to her, tell her that you are going to take her to a swing club/party. Make up something a fantasy about leaving her to get a few drinks and while you are gone another couple approaches her and invites her into a cabana. By the time you get back with the drinks, she's riding the guy in RC. You then jump into the pile etc.
Yeah, peeing on her and I always like putting her panties on her head, or in her mouth while doing it. Peeing is a good acceptable option. Especially if you are restricted from multiple partners. That'd be hot if that's what you're going for. What else... you can stick a dildo or two in her and then do her in the ass. I could keep running with ideas and advice... but I think it's true that only you know how to make your wife feel like a "slut". We can only hazzard guesses.
Where'd you learn those new tricks? Damn, I shouldn't start that talk But Life is one big Question when you're staring at the clock And the answer's always waiting at the liquor store 40 oz. to Freedom so I take that walk
hasn't all of the serious stuff been said? ok, well: toys. safe rope play. different positions. s&m. domination. elaborate outfits and make-up. chains, chokers, crops, candles. there, done, now can i be a nuisance?
What do you mean "now"? Duane? Duane. You know, ultimately, you don't need anybody to tell you what to do - you just need to fuckin' DO IT. Just DO IT, dammiT!
Basically...many women like the idea of being out of control and being with a dangerous man without the (decidedly) inconvenient reality of actually being out of control and being with a dangerous man. Many women also keep these fantasies to themselves...for whatever reason. She probably fantasized about you doing something like that for ages before it happened and that's why she reacted so strongly to it. Unfortunately, it's gonna be a guessing game, probably. Having a "slut night" might sound hot in concept but in reality, it might be a bit too scripted. It's likely that the spontaneity of the moment was one of the key factors in her getting so hot over it. If you take that away, it may not have the same effect. On the other hand, you could easily overdo it and she may be more than a bit displeased with you. Tough decision.
if you have a chair that freely rotates (lazy susan style), stand behind her and occasionally spin her around (slowly) back and forth between hard pounding and oral facials anal... maybe you're not ready for a dildo+you dp followed by ATM, but some good analingus is a nice way to start down that road
Role playing would be the way to go. Couples that play together usually stay together. You and her need to take on the persona of somebody else. She could be a hooker, you could act like a John, or vise versa. Buy costumes or rent them. Go to Hot Topic at the mall, and get some fetish wear for her. Take her to a movie, and make sure she's not wearing panties. That way you can finger her through the whole movie. Get 100 dollar singels, and pay her to strip for you, and also pay her for sex acts. And talk nasty to her. After it's all over just go back to being your normal selves. And the secret is lingerie, lingerie. Buy her some good Thigh Hi stockings and a garter belt. And that's all she needs. Maybe some nice pumps, and you're all set. Try it.
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Clam Digger Deactivated User
Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05
tell she's been a slut and "punish" her with a rimming, an ass fucking and a spanking while you're pounding away. make her tell you how much she wants it in the ass..
Buy a dildo with a suction cup base and stick it to the wall, low counter top and make her ride it while she gives you a Blow Job. Then turn her around and have her suck the dildo while you give it to her from behind. Switch these positions several times and see where else it may lead.
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