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| CummingLinguist All-Star Member 5908 Posts 11/11 | I've observed that some of my younger friends have important relationships with people they've never met face-to-face. But in all of these cases, they play video games together, and actually talk to each other. (One married couple I know courted while playing a video game.) To me the core issue isn't whether you've met, talked or whatever. Relationships are reciprocal: I am my father's son, my brother's brother, and my friends' friend. If Keisha considers him a fan, then he is a fan. If they both consider the other a friend, then they are friends.I wouldn't toss around the word "stalker." First of all it's hurtful. Moreover, the rise of mass culture has created an unnatural set of relationships, in which one party to the relationship is almost completely unaware of the other individuals in the relationship. I have strong feelings for people I have never met. I get angry at politicians– real live anger at people I have never met in real life. If I were to meet Dick Cheney, and do what comes naturally, namely expressing my anger, the secret service would likely consider me a threat, and would act to protect him. Of course, I would never do this. For one, I naturally hold Cheney in contempt, and never want to have any kind of relationship with him whatsoever. This means we will probably never meet. So while I would avoid all contact with Dick Cheney, I might just show up at a DVD signing or strip club just to meet Keisha. But then what? We have a very unnatural relationship. She would know that I jerk off to her, and I would know that she doesn't even know my name. If I were to do the natural thing, and ask her if I could buy her dinner, she would (rightly) consider it stalkerish. (Imagine going up to a girl you met in a real setting, and saying, "I jerked off while looking at your Facebook pictures last night. Can I buy you dinner?") The PornStar-Fan relationship is doubly unnatural. Sexual relationships stir strong emotions (lust is just as strong an emotion as anger), and sexual relationships are naturally intimate. If someone were to have strong sexual feelings towards another person, and NOT want to get to know that person better, then we would rightly say that the first person has intimacy issues. Bumblaster is one step above attachment disorder, IMO. But I don't judge him my brothers. We are all perverts. The art of living is finding the middle way between two extremes. Pursuing stars with too much fervor is extreme; the opposite extreme is not giving a damn about people who you relate to sexually. Edited by - cumminglinguist on 7/1/2014 7:45:52 AM |
| bumblaster Senior Member 4882 Posts 4/12 | Because that's what I'm getting from your text. But back to the subject at hand, I have found that Keisha after a tepid start to her career has really stepped up her game and her blowjob (particularly her deepthroat) skills are of the chart. |
| CummingLinguist All-Star Member 5908 Posts 11/11 | I was speaking to an emotional experience that I think is common. As David Duchovy said, I don't think porn stars know how weirdly important they are in people's lives. It's clear that you don't have the same experience. You stated it very strongly, saying that you "don't give a damn" about another human being– in fact about a woman who you think about while engaging in sexual acts. Like I said, I don't judge, but this is just the opposite extreme from someone who pursues friendships with porn stars. |
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