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Shawny
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Posted - Mar 25 2002 : 8:54AM
I've seen plenty of movies that have anal sex, and I've got nothing against it, but I can't see how it's safe.

In 1 of the movies I have a guy fucks this girl up the arse, then puts his dick straight in her mouth, surely this isn't healthy?

Are there special lubes which make it safer???

P-Knuckle
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Posted - Mar 25 2002 : 4:20PM
I got a urinary tract infection from fucking a woman in the a. Its not the safest, healthiest thang (this whole assfuckn sport) and I could of contracted Hepatitis or Aids also (I am comin up clean for these so I guess thats groovy.) Luckily cipro (that antibiotic for Anthrax) cleared up my urinary infection in a jiffy. Just one more thing to worry about in the real world...Women can get these easier, so I read on the internet, but its also a danger for men. Fecal matter matters! Oh, and I have noticed in Ass Worship 2 a part where Jules Jordan flicks a strange piece o' something from Aurora Snows ass; she probably had like 20 enemas; it still does not make it nontoxic or safe. Shit happens.
dumblonde
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Posted - Mar 25 2002 : 6:10PM
Welcome Shawny!

Good questions, and I think P-Knuckle pretty well covered it. I'll just post some information and pics. I personally wouldn't do ass to mouth, but then that's mostly just done in porn.

E. coli are bacteria that normally live in the intestines of humans and animals. Several are known to produce toxins that can cause diarrhea. One particular E. coli strain called 0157:H7 can cause severe diarrhea and kidney damage.

-lunacy-
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Posted - Mar 25 2002 : 7:28PM
Welcome Shawney

I have to agree, I have the same thoughts when I see things like ass to mouth. It makes me shudder.

Anal is never completely safe, but condoms, careful hygiene and some common sense can reduce the risk of infections drastically.

Planet Sex
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Posted - Mar 26 2002 : 7:02AM
There´s no such thing as 100% safe sex or a totally hygienic relation. Even kisses can kill, so I guess we just have to relax and enjoy the ride.
 
female porn fan
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Posted - Mar 26 2002 : 1:28PM
Well, don't forget that the "average" porn scene takes about two hours to film. We see the edited version of the scene. So, it is possible that the guy washed his dick off after the anal scene before he put it in her mouth.
I'd probably direct this question to Tricia to see what she has to say on the matter.
P-Knuckle
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Posted - Mar 26 2002 : 3:12PM
Most ass to mouth scenes are just that, straight ass to mouth without any edits. No washing, no quick wipe, just straight fecal yum yum. As for relaxing and enjoying the ride, its hard to do that when peeing feels like your dick is on fire; I would imagine a woman with a urinary infectiion would feel quite awful also (this can happens from 'ass to pussy,' which is not a common practice on film, or wiping the wrong direction.) The danger of ass to mouth I guess would be Ecoli poisoning, which doesn't sound like a day in the park.

The more I contemplate my sexual appetites; the more I realize why a 'realdoll' makes more sense.

YogaGrrl
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Posted - Mar 26 2002 : 11:57PM
When I wrote a review for Lex the Impaler, I tried to track down specific, reliable information evaluating the potential health risks of A2M. I met with only limited success. Click on this link and scroll down to "YogaGrrl's motherly advice" to read what I found. In that movie, at least, there are no cutaway shots between the anal and oral sex, and it's quite evident that the A2M is not simulated.
mooseboy84
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Posted - Apr 5 2002 : 5:20AM
i see anal to mouth in tons of movies. hell, its in every roco movie thats hes in with 2 girls. i asked my friend the same question. how can it be possible, also, how can you go from ass to pussy since women can get infections that way easily too. i would never want to want to suck a dick if i was a woman and a man just pulled it out of some chicks ass.
Hardware All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Apr 10 2002 : 9:32PM
I've discussed A2M with friends that work in a hospital so I can tell you, it ain't safe. Period. Oral infections do happen and they ain't pretty. Can you get away with it? Sure, just like you can get away with running across the freeway at rush-hour.

Also, that ass-to-pussy-to-ass stuff? Great way to give the girl a yeast infection, at the least. I'm sure she'll thank you for it, and as P-Knuckle noted, she may return the favor.

In answer to the question whether enemas reduce the risk, that depends on what she ate in the last 24 hours. Do we really want to go there?

In answer to the question whether there are special lubes that make it safer, the problem is you NEED that bacteria in your intestine or you can't digest your food. If your special lube kills the bacteria you can be in as much trouble as ingesting the bacteria orally.

So, if you want to have anal sex DO use a condom and DON'T put it anywhere else (and be careful removing of disposing of it too, think of it like radioactive material).

Hardware

"Remember crew..you're only where you think you are!" the Pagfeek Papers

PS - If you're still not convinced maybe you should find out how many people die of bacterial infections every year.

kicker_f1
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USA
436 Posts
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Posted - Mar 5 2005 : 9:23AM
So whats the conclusion on this? If anal sex is so dangerous then why do we see so much anal sex w/o condom in porn movies?

Pondering real hard....

asseater
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1/05
Posted - Mar 5 2005 : 9:59AM
i'm not sure i understand some of these posts. obviously you should use a condom to protect against HIV, but are you saying anal isnt safe without a condom even in a long term relationship where both partners have been tested?
GaySatyr
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Posted - Mar 5 2005 : 10:22AM
Anal sex is not "safe" without a condom under any conditions.

That said, IF the couple are in an exclusive, long-term relationship; and IF they are careful about hygiene both before and after the act -- in other words, no ATM and get out of bed & wash afterwards -- the risks are reduced. Just be aware that there are still risks. "Safer" does not mean "safe" -- it means safer than unsafe.

~ GaySatyr (ABB)

Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Mar 5 2005 : 1:54PM
In a long term relationship where both partners have been tested for what? For viral Hepatitis (all 3 or 4 strains?) and HIV, you say? Good for you and your partner, you won't catch viral Hepatitis and HIV - how about everything else?

What Gaysatyr and p-knuckle and everyone else is pointing out to you is that there are other types of infections you can catch from anal play. You can't "test" for e.coli - pretty much everyone has some e.coli, you can't "test" for yeast - pretty much everyone has some yeast. Those organisms are part of our natural flora and fauna that help us digest food and resist toxins and other icky stuff in our gut. They don't do good things outside of the gut, though. So you should use a condom to protect yourself and your partner from fecal matter contamination.

Is this real in porn? Yes, it is. No, nobody is sneaking in during a quick edit to wipe off the bottoms or the penis or whatever. Is it risky? Yes. Do the performers know it's risky? Most of them have a clue, some don't. Why do they do it? Because they are paid and they are willing to accept the risk as part of their job.

MASAMUNE
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Posted - Mar 6 2005 : 3:28AM
If you fuck the said ass a bit with a vibrator first it helps clean it too. Enema, then pre-fucking with a toy, and it is pretty safe that way.
 
asseater
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Posted - Mar 6 2005 : 7:45AM
replying to kimi,

me and my partner have been tested for HIV and other common STDs, but probably not hepatitis.

regarding hepatitis, as far as i am aware hep A is only passed on orally. hep B and hep C can both be passed on through vaginal sex as well as anal sex. with e-coli, most strains are only passed on orally. some strains might cause a urinary tract infection but that should be easily treatable and not too serious. as for yeast infections, i would think its just as likely passed on through vaginal sex.

i'm not trying to disagree with you here, i'm just asking for more information/clarification. i have had anal hundreds of times with various partners and have never been aware that it is particularly dangerous other than the increased risk of HIV. i know it is possible to contract a urinary tract infection, but would have thought that wouldnt be too serious. also i always piss and wash afterwards to reduce the risk of this.

Sir Noel Plum
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Posted - Mar 6 2005 : 11:08AM

Safe is such a rubbish word really. Doctors and medical boffins seem hell bent in stopping us doing anything that might knock half an hour off our life expectancy. Quality and enjoyment of life don't seem to matter anymore: all that is important is that we are wrapped in as much cotton wool as possible. Better to live, or so is the prevailing ethos nowadays, through 90 years of tedious risk avoidance than 89 years of actually enjoying life.

Sure there will always be a risk not using a condom; it will never be 100% safe. You want to be 100% safe: tough shit. Best bet is to go and live like a hermit, even the celibate catch infections off other people so why not go and live as far away from other people as possible if that is your goal.

Seriously though, I reckon I must have fucked my now ex-gf anally w/o a condom over 200 times. Never had an infection. She sucked me off on most of those occasions. She never had an infection. Lucky? Maybe so, but you ask some pompous prick of a doctor (most of them) and they'll wax lyrical preaching fire and brimstone for anyone undertaking such things. Doctors are just so full of shit, they just reiterate they same stuff regardless and label everything as dangerous just to cover themselves. Not so long ago your doctor would have warned you that anal sex was a surefire way to permanent anal incontinence (some doctors probably still do. Take steroids? Your doctor will undoubtedly tell you that you'll struggle to make 40 - all the bodybuilders making 40 on 100 times your dose won't make your doctor flinch from her position one jot. Why? Because doctor knows best because doctor has read it in a book and because doctors deal in statistics and if those statistics show even a fractional increase in incidence they will tell you the risk is too great. A few years ago on the advice of the chief medical officer the British Govt banned T-bone steaks because there was a risk of between 5 and 50 million to one that you could get cjd from it. If that level of risk warrants a ban I think some people need to reappraise the way they view medical advice.

SNP.

MASAMUNE
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Posted - Mar 6 2005 : 6:43PM
SNP,

did your girl have enemas before anal sex?

asseater
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28 Posts
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Posted - Mar 6 2005 : 6:58PM
without wishing to take this thread off topic, this is not really true SNP.
Sir Noel Plum
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1001 Posts
2/03
Posted - Mar 7 2005 : 6:27AM
Which part isn't true?? Beef on bone

Edited by - Sir Noel Plum on 3/7/2005 4:19:52 PM

Sir Noel Plum
Senior Studmuffin

1001 Posts
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Posted - Mar 7 2005 : 6:27AM
{quote]SNP,

did your girl have enemas before anal sex?[/quote]

No.

SNP.

Edited by - Sir Noel Plum on 3/7/2005 6:29:14 AM

asseater
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28 Posts
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Posted - Mar 7 2005 : 3:53PM
your statement that:

"the British Govt banned T-bone steaks because there was a risk of between 5 and 50 million to one that you could get cjd from it."

is not really true.

the british government denied that human CJD was related to BSE for years and years despite a large amount of scientific evidence to the contrary.

when they eventually accepted the evidence, they banned beef on the bone because they didnt know how dangerous it was and thought they should stop people eating it until they could find out.

we still no very little about CJD. there is some strong evidence that the disease can have an extremely long incubation period (up to 20 years), and hence it is almost immpossible to quantify the risk posed by potentially infected meat. in the circumstances a temporary ban on any products potentially likely to be a source of infection was an appropriate course of action.

no body knows the chance of infection, thats the point. to suggest that there could be a 1 in 50 chance of infection seems unlikely since the population of the UK is about 60 million and over one thousand people have died from the disease already. given that the incubation period could be very long and that the number of new cases each year is still increasing years after BSE was erradicated from british livestock, it is still possible that CJD in this country could kill hundreds of thousands.

anyway like i said i dont want to take this thread off topic, i think we should go back to talking about anal sex its much more fun.

Sir Noel Plum
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1001 Posts
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Posted - Mar 7 2005 : 4:34PM
Very easy for you to say when you've just granted yourself the last word

At the very time the ban was introduced the press were freely quoting this statistic. Don't make out that the quantification of the risk came later because it didn't. I also think you are deliberately muddying the waters. The risk of beef on the bone was deemed so small due to the combined risks of the infected cattle in the food chain and prions then being present in the actual cuts as sold. The real worry was never beef on the bone but spinal cords, brains and god alone knows what else being used.#
The govt made the ban to be seen to be doing something about the problem - the ban made no sense at the time and looking back on it time has altered nothing.

Anyway, as you say, lets get back to the anal stuff.

SNP.

PS Masamune, to elaborate on my earlier answer, she never had enemas but, and there is no pretty way to dress this up, it would be fair to say that over the years we spent together her bowel movements were generally very solid and I suspect that this accounts for why she always seemed, visibly at least, clean inside - very rarely did anything ever come out tinged brown.

lindi
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Posted - Jan 16 2008 : 10:33PM
More discussion here.
RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
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Posted - Jan 17 2008 : 11:03AM
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I don't know about the lube question. I would think that anything that kills bacteria wouldn't just target harmful bacteria but would kill bacteria indiscriminately. And some of it is quite necessary for a healthy bowel.
As far as how safe ass to mouth is? I guess it depends. It's not the safest thing in the world but as long as the ass in question isn't diseased, the worst thing that's probably gonna happen from ass to mouth is you might need a course of antibiotics. I've done ass to mouth plenty of times and never gotten sick. Some people do but it generally isn't anything life threatening or anything. It's kind of the equivalent of taking a dump, wiping your ass and not washing. You never died from that. Right?
Ass to pussy can be a little more serious because the female urethra is pretty short and bacteria doesn't have to go far to cause a bladder infection. Men can get UTIs from anal but it usually isn't too serious. The most dangerous thing about anal is that the anal skin is thin and delicate and tears easily, creating a rather direct path to the bloodstream. So it's very important that people who engage in anal be free of serious STDs.
 
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jan 17 2008 : 11:25AM
Additionally, I don't know of any kind of sex that's "safe". Safer is the best you can do. If you know your partner and you've both been tested for everything that you can actually be tested for, you're pretty safe. If you use condoms and dental dams and so forth, you're even safer. If there's no contact of any body fluids (this includes kissing), you're safer still. If you wear a haz mat suit, you'll be about as safe as you can get but you won't be having sex and you probably won't be having any fun.
Condoms can and do break. Sex is risky. If you don't get sick, somebody might get pregnant. Know the risks. Many people know the risks and take them. Some get sick, some don't.



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