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highheat
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 8:26AM
it's a basic question...how do i go longer during sex? is there a trick, certain kinds of sensitive condoms to use, or what? i've been with a number of girls but seem to get no further than foreplay, then it just shoots off.
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Tastes so good...
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 8:46AM
Hvae you tried Kagel exercises? Contract the muscles in your penis like you do when you if you'd want to stop pissing in mid stream. Hold it for 3 - 5 seconds and then release. Repeeat. It won't work over night, but it should allow you some better control over blowing your load. Wither that, or you're with some AMAZING women.
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 10:04AM
okay i'm not a guy so i may not be the best one to answer this. but try to control your mind. don't think about how great it feels and how great it's going to feel. for something else to focus on just think pleasing your woman
-lunacy-
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 11:43AM
I am also -not a man-
I think the men of ADVD can respond better than myself. lol
But, I did want to say Welcome none the less.
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Oneloa
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 11:58AM
As I'm sure you know... thinking of baseball or riding a bike uphill doesn't work. I think we all tried that at first. I read an article years ago that said that us guys mistrain our bodies at puberty. Rather than masturbating for a long period of time and prolonging the pleasure, we hurry the act for fear of getting caught. Now you have to retrain the body to respond properly. The article went into a several week training period that talked about how to retrain your body. Basically, it was to find your point of no return place. In a nutshell... it said to masturbate daily. Just before you hit that point of no return, stop for 10 seconds, then continue until you almost reach that point again, stop for 10 seconds. Repeat for 6 times then let yourself finish. The article said to continue this for several days. It also mentioned to start the process with a dry hand, then work your way into lubrication, etc. The author said to refrain from any other type of sex during this training period or all results will be lost. Obviously, the whole point of this is to learn and understand your body.
I'm sure this is more information than you want, but I thought it was super interesting. I wish someone had told us guys this at 12, so we could've properly trained ourselves before Prom night!
 
Drew Black
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 1:43PM
You can also choose to masturbate so frequently that your body is drained of its desire to orgasm. This has the added bonus of desensitizing the penis to the point that you can go for hours.
Viagra is also another alternative. I tried that stuff once and I was hard for hours. I don't recommend it though. You can fuck like rabbit until you're exhausted and yet you still aren't even close to busting the proverbial nut. It also gave me an intense headache about 30 minutes after the sex.
Drew Black
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 1:49PM
After posting that last one I remembered another situation in which can delay an orgasm for guys. I like to call it 'beer dick.' (Some call it wiskey dick.) There's a point that you reach when consuming alchohol that desensitizes you just enough to be able to maintain an erection and enjoy sex but not so much that you aren't able to get it up. For me at 220 lbs. this used to be at about the 6 - 8 beer point depending on the brand of beer. (Genesee or Coors Light was about 8 beers. Labaat's Blue was 6.)
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 5:22PM
Disclaimer: Drew's unhealthy suggestions are not necessarily the opinions of Adult DVD Talk
professorwolf
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 7:12PM
Sex, like chord changes in music, consists of tension and release. You are releasing as a result of accumulated tension. Concentrate on keeping all your muscles (except one!) relaxed, particularly those in your buttocks and abdomen. Stay relaxed, keep from tensing those muscles. Some positions are better than others for this. Experiment. Practice. Don't give up.
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Jul 4 2000 : 7:18PM
Oneloa's suggestions are more likely than not the healthiest.
and here cums another UnHealthy suggestion.
You could get yourself a Cock Ring or safer still a cock belt. You don't need a prescription for them either.
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Darkmage
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Posted - Jul 5 2000 : 1:08PM
Actually, I second Oneloa's recommendation. Masturbate. A lot. Work on prolonging the experience, don't try and get it over with as fast as possible.
You don't have to wear yourself out, but just make it part of your nightly routine. Easier to get motivated to masturbate than to do those situps I keep telling myself I'm going to do...
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Posted - Jul 5 2000 : 2:25PM
masturbation is great exercise too!
highheat
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Posted - Jul 5 2000 : 8:21PM
stephdunn, i bet you like it when guys masterbate!!!!!
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Posted - Jul 5 2000 : 8:58PM
highheat - who are you? do you know me?
why yes i do
Pablo
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Posted - Jul 6 2000 : 8:37AM
Oneloa is dead on here. When I was in college (many, many years ago) I decided to better my staying power so I took a class in human sexuality and they had a textbook which discussed ways to better control yourself. It was a combination of kegel exercises (as described above) and the techniques Oneloa suggested. Believe me, there are far worse exercises out there, let me see, 50 push ups or 30 minutes of masturbation - ah hell, hand cramp here I come!
 
DigitalDave
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Posted - Jul 21 2000 : 8:20AM
Drew Black,
Down in the south we call that 'drunk dick'.
I knew a girl once who had a boyfriend that had the premature ejaculative problem. She would make him jack-off three times a day. He had to do it in her presence, I think that helped him mentally with her being around he became more relaxed and could withstand a longer period of time. I don't have this problem but I do occasionally slip on a cock-ring so I can last longer. Lots of luck!!
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