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Draxxx
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Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 10:01AM
We sometimes hear stories of pornstars breaking up because of "cheating" but I think it's interesting how they define "cheating" because some of them obiviously have different rules than most ordinary couples.
It seems that every couple has their own unique set of rules to their relationship. For example I remember Shy Love once saying she can have sex with whoever she wants as long as she films it. It seems like as long as it's being filmed it falls under "working" and that makes it okay for her guy. I would have to imagine it's tough on a guy being married to or dating a porngirl who goes out and regularly has sex she admits she enjoys with other guys and while some of their spouses aren't allowed to do the same. The same would apply to women married to male pornstars.
I kinda understand if a pornstar's spouse banged another person without telling their spouse it would be considered "cheating" by normal standards but for a pornstar and people with them don't they have to take on the attitude of "It didn't mean anything...it was just sex."? A pornstar more than anyone should be able to seperate love from sex and not get upset if their partner haves sex with someone they're sexually attracted to and know/understand that it's just sex and nothing else.
Dan
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Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 10:08AM
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Cheating is any kind of breaking the letter and/or the spirit of an agreement. But what this agreement is varies from one couple to another.
People are free to make any kind of agreement they want with each other. But once they make their agreement, then they need to stick by it. Or else it's cheating.
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Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 10:34AM
Fucking someone for pleasure out of set and doing this hidden might be considered cheating
Draxxx
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Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 8:09PM
^ So as long as it isn't done behind the other's back it's okay. That part I can understand but it still must be frustrating being in that kind of relationship. For any pornstar to be able to do what they do they have to adapt the "It's only sex" attitude but it kinda seems awkward to tell your spouse that only applies to me but not you. Yes, it's their job but they still get pleasure from it (at least sometimes I hope) and if sex isn't as important as love in the relationship then having sex with others outside of work shouldn't be that big a deal.
Porn has had some couples with interesting situations...
Ryan and Kelly Madison have sex with others together and sometimes Ryan or Kelly by themselves with a girl but Kelly to my knowledge doesn't have sex with any man other than Ryan. I often wonder if that's her choice.
For a time Tera only had sex with her husband Spyder Jones or other women. Spyder could have a threesome with Tera and another girl but he couldn't penetrate the other girl. After a while they both were having sex with other people on film but that was after the relationship was failing according to Jones. Then Jones hooks up with Lupe Fuentes and stops her from having sex with any other guys but him (from what I can tell).
As I mentioned before Shy Love once said she could have sex with anyone she wanted as long as she filmed it.I'm drawing a blank right now but i know there have beens some couples where the girl banged lots of different guys but the husband could only work with the wife. Porn seems to have a few cuckold couples in it also where the husband likes to see his wife get banged.
I've also heard some porn girls say some girls have to be careful about saying too much good stuff about any of the guys in porn because their spouse gets jealous and won't let her shoot with them again. And the same goes for women I think Dyanna Lauren says that's why she won't say who's her fav guy to work with. I'm thinking that's why so many girls claim to not have an orgasm while shooting. So they don't make their guy jealous.
It all seems like a complicated life to live.



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