Got into a discussion with someone about this the other day. How long does your usual sex session last? INCLUDING foreplay and kissing. Also, would be interesting to find out how long the people have been together.
For example, my girl and I have been together for 8 years now and our sessions usually only last 30 min or so. When we first started they were close to and beyond an hour. But, now days there's other things that have to be done.
BTW: searched for this topic, but kept getting an error message.
My man and I have been together 12+ years. The length of our play sessions varies quite a bit, from 10 minutes to an hour. (After this many years, variety is essential to keep sex interesting for us.) I would say 35–40 minutes is roughly our average, however.
Usually around an hour to an hour and twenty minutes. Quite a bit longer if we are dancing or bathing or whatever. We've been together 23 and a half years. ----------------------------------------------------------
Wow, together that long and still an hour or more? BTW: I know a guy who's close to 70 who still pressures his wife to have sex almost every night. In one way I hope I'm like that in another way I try to avoid picturing a 70 year old guy going at it.
Also, no offense intended to any 70 year olds in here.
My last girlfriend really liked sex, so I was able to enjoy it. With her I would go anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours. I lost my virginity in a 3 hour session even! I'd say if the girl is into sex and lasting long, then I go for an hour or more at least, just depends.
ken2 - it hasn't always been an hour or more. We have a lot more free time now. In our thirties, the demands of our jobs and stuff kept the average session to more like 30 or 40 minutes. And sometimes, just to find time at all, it was smart for me to work myself up while he was in the shower, and call him back to bed for a quickie. Things just change a lot over the years, due to circumstances.
I'm not sure, since my ongoing "free agent" status doesn't allow for real averages. With my last steady accomplice, I'd say the entire time from start to finish was a little more than an hour. But I've also tended to encourage 2-3 hour sessions with time for reignition and "water breaks." I'm pretty comfortable with a couple of hours. But I'm more into comfort than speed.
I feel like a slow poke, my lover and I usually take about an hour and a half at least. Course we are kinky and much of that time is spent with rope toys etc.
And then at least 15 minutes of snuggling afterward, or it just dosen't feel complete. Who says guys just want to get off and leave?
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Posted - Jan 14 2003 : 11:44AM
Lately I´ve only been able to pay for one hour, but usually I can stay up for 3+ hours.
when I'm with a man, i can last for hours, like six or eight, straight, but if im with a woman, 10 minutes tops.BUT,each time after a woman,i always crave for something to be inside,like a finger, nothing huge but somethnig...
Well, my honey and I have been together for 5 1/2 years, most of the time we go about an hour. Recently we had our first quicky, 10 minutes, I am so proud of him.
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Posted - Jan 19 2003 : 8:56PM
from first kiss to end of snuggling, it's anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hours. an average is really difficult to guess because of the baby, we often go a lot shorter than we'd like. Before the baby, our average (total) was usually over an hour, but a lot of time longer if we brought in dancing or bondage stuff.
It varies tremendously: Solo, anywhere from ten minutes to an hour; One-on-one, typically thirty minutes to an hour & a half; Menage a trois, usually an hour to two hours or more. (And one of my two successful orgies (8 guys) lasted almost 40 hours!)
GaySatyr: "It varies tremendously: Solo, anywhere from ten minutes to an hour; One- on-one, typically thirty minutes to an hour & a half; Menage a trois, usually an hour to two hours or more. (And one of my two successful orgies (8 guys) lasted almost 40 hours!) "
Was that the one with the Marines in the seedy motel room? You crack me up guy!
For me, it really varies, but I tend to like hot quickies. Maybe that's because my ex used to keep going and going and going.... I think the longest was 12 hours, that's too damn long if you ask me.
i've never had an orgy! i have done 2 different guys on the same day (one in the morning and one at night)...
but i'm usually about an hour. i don't know how girls can stand being fucked for longer than an hour. don't you start to chaff? i mean, as many as you girls say you shave your pussies, something has to give!
The 12 hours was the longest time, but it wasn't all screwing and included some breaks and porn watching etc, lol. Still, it was way too much for me. He was like the insatiable male version of Debi Diamond, and much of that time I just spent doing damage control.