Just a general question here,I read an interview with Melody(Max?)recently and she mentioned as many others have on occasion something to the effect of "I need it at least 6 times a day."And of course I often hear of couples saying they do it 3 or more times a day.
My question is HOW?6 times a day?Once in the morning before work,once before dinner,one post dinner,one before bed if you can manage,that's 4.Who has time to fuck all day?Wouldn't you be raw with all that fucking?
Let's say I'm "inexperienced",so I've never had that long term relationship where people always talk about how they can't keep their hands off each other in the first few months or so.How do you kids do it?
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Posted - Apr 29 2003 : 12:47AM
You dont do it just 1 time and than you persue other daily life duty, you know: When I was still married we would easily do it 3 times before we got up, 3 times before we fell asleep and some times during the day.
Now, since I have to organize sex a bit more, I dont usually get my 6-9 fucks like than per day. Sure there are days, I order an escort twice and go out afterwards in the evening 8this normally leading in a one-night-stand or a 1-3 fucks in a clubs corridor or dark room at least), but usually I am down to 2-3 fucks per day now. The rest is just wanking.
HOW? Just do it! Crucial in a long-lasting relationship is to keep the sex interesting and be open, of course. To do so I also booked escort girls than, but far less than now.
With my current girlfriend, we usually have sex once or twice a day - and thats if I'm lucky and she's in the mood. I've said this before and I'll say it again: men may control the world but women control the men.
I have to second Asmodeus on this one. 1-2 per day with my wife if the mood/month is right. And thats sessions, not quickies. Between work and household it's morning, evening if not too tired. It may sound lame when compared to other sex lives, but quality is always better than quantity.
I thought this thread might be "how many times a day do we jerk off?" ...but oops, I guess this is the SEX thread. I haven't had sex twice in one day since before married life (I'm 33 now, so that was "many moons ago!") Hell, sex doesn't happen twice in one WEEK! (Though I do remember one time when I masturbated and had sex in the same day. Wow. What a day! My little weiner can't handle more.)
We average at least 6 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Even twice a day sometimes too (morning and night) And yes, I totally agree about quality over quantity anytime! I'm just happy that we are still going at it after all these years!
Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before. (Mae West)
When it comes to official sex, my wife and I are more on the plain with HeyNow... hehe. We're lucky if it's once or twice a week.
When it comes to good long cuddle sessions though, we do that at least twice a day. I find cuddling and talking much more interesting and fulfilling than sex actually. Not knocking sex, mind you... :) It has it's place! We just have different priorities (and unusual schedules).
On the average, about 2 or 3 times a week, but it's all over the map. It's usually dependent on her mood and schedules. Sometimes in the morning on a weekend, or twice a day, or three days in a row. Sometimes at noon if I go home for lunch. Sometimes a week or more goes by. Sometimes we make a whole evening of it. Or in the middle of the night to the wee hours of the morning.
Before kids it was usually everyday. That was a long time ago, as we're coming up on our eighteenth anniversary. For a number of years we lost the spark and it dropped to once or twice a month (thank goodness we're past that.)
We had that happen too, unfortunately (dropping to once or twice a month)...luckily we are past that too. We are coming up on our 25th anniversary next month and we are spending more time in the bedroom (and other places too) than we ever have.
Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before. (Mae West)
My wife and I are back into cuddling, hugging, and passionate kissing -- but no "SEX" -- as a way of re-establishing our intimacy. And it's WONDERFUL! I feel much more peaceful, whole, and loved, as does Ms.Bob, I think.
Certainly not to knock SEX, both my heads are hoping that that, too, will return. But most good things in life seem to take time.
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Posted - May 16 2003 : 2:25PM
I dont get that! Why depressing?
Its fun! We were still very young and wanton then. Plus my ex-wife was/still is sort of nymphomanic. At 23 I am a bit slower now, but still do have quite some appetite. Depends what is available and how you feel about your sexuality, I guess.
Depressing to me would be neither to have the right person to do it with nor to have the means to order girls to fuck.
