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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:26:47 PM

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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:27:06 PM

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You might chose one, that has the right amount of 'sluttiness' that you want and then one evening put it in for both of you to watch. You could make comments as the movie progress 'Hey, I like that', or some such.

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Though wow, I have to say, chilexi, you have to be one of the only women I know who likes her dirty talk that direct! More power to you.

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If you'd love him to "talk dirty" to you, I'd suggest you "talk dirty" to him -- both to model the kind of talk you'd like and also to give him implicit permission to try it out with you.

So maybe the next time you're giving him a blowjob, you could look directly into his eyes with a lustful smile and say, "Your cock tastes soooo good. I love being your cock-sucking bitch! How does your dick feel in my mouth?" Or, the next time he's fucking your pussy, you could say, "Stretch my pussy with your fat cock. Tell me I'm your horny little slut. Fuck me like the cock-hungry slut that I am." Or the next time he's pounding your ass, you might plead, "Oh yeah, plow my ass! Tell me how good my tight ass feels! Make me taste my ass on your cock, baby!"

It might require a little bit of practice and patience on your part to bring him around to being more verbal in bed, but I doubt it. If you get nowhere with him, feel free to give me a call anytime.

Good luck!

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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:27:30 PM

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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:28:25 PM

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And you know, I was always wondering about your avatar, Heaven. Can't see the full bod so well, but from what I can see, VERY nice.

Now, to continue this thread in an interesting and on-topic direction..I'm curious, do a lot of people do real dirty talk during sex? I'm not talking about "Ooh, you're so good." More like what's been mentioned in this thread.

Maybe I ought to introduce some more with my partner..hrmm..

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I love it.

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Do you have your own porn stash that you watch and offer to share with your man? Does porn visually stimulate you to the point of arousal and masturbation. That is what it does to most men. He may be embarrassed about it. If you were watching it with him, would you like it if he showed you how much it aroused him?

The reason that men watch porn is because they are so visually stimulated. The reason that they hide porn from their woman is they don't think she will approve. The reason that they won't watch it with their woman is that they won't be able to masturbate and get off on it.

Why does a woman get pissed off at her husband and say, "I can't believe you would watch porn by yourself and masturbate? I would never do that to you."

As for watching porn together and dirty talking, yes we have a good time with it. "You like to fuck me? You like to fuck me hard?" She slaps me on the ass and pulls my hair. "Yeah I like to fuck you hard." I say, "You want to watch me cum? Were do you want my cum?" She tells me, "I want you to cum on my ass, shoot it all over me."

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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:28:53 PM

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Hrmm..sounds like you two have a bit of an incongruity in your "inner freak" levels...Hopefully he'll "Come around" (or should that be "cum around"?)to your way of thinking shortly, it'd be a shame to have a problem over something like that. I think you might have luck though. My current SO and I had/have such an incongruity, but I'm pulling her over to the dark side.

And hey, if it can work on a nice girl, surely it can work on a nice guy, ne?

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I'm not one to start quoting rules and the like but I feel i should point out that your avatar is over 27 times larger than the 5K limit that is asked on this forum. This is rather like me driving down the local motorway at around 1900mph!!!

That is not to say your avatar is not a good one, just that for those on dial-up accounts it is rather a large download.

SNP.

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Edited by - chilexi22 on 8/26/2003 1:29:08 PM

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Do you two live together? If so how recently? I think it is relatively common for guys to get kind of freaked out by being with someone every day, especially when they first start living with someone. He may be watching porn alone as a means to have some alone time. I've heard several women complain about catching their boyfriends jacking off in the middle of the night or when she isn't supposed to be home, and it always boils down to just wanting some time by themselves. There is also something very sexy about creating fantasies in your head, and masturbating to them, before trying them out. Sometimes the idea is better than the act.

The other topic of your post, about how willing, and even desirous you are of having some nasty sex might be a completely separate issue for him. For example, does he like to watch dirty porn? If not than he would probably have some issues with performing some of these dirtier things in the bedroom. If he does watch the nasty stuff but seems hesitant to do these things with you that could be because he feels these acts would be demeaning to you, or because he is a bit shy or reserved about letting you know how "sick" he really is, or maybe he just enjoys watching things he would never do.

Anyways you sound like a nice catch and I don't know what you can do about being with someone if they aren't willing to act out your sexual fantasies with you.

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