I think that women don't hate sex so much as they hate men. They use sex to get a man's money. Men hate women, too. What man would rather spend a weekend with his wife than with his male friends? Men want women for sex and that's all. Generally, everyone hates everyone and is trying to get their money.
Some do. Most don't.No. Why do guys who have little or no money get laid?Some do. Most don't.Me. And a lot of guys that I know. Of course, if the wife's plans included shopping at the mall or cleaning the attic, I'd rather hang out with the guys. But there are a bunch of activities (not only sexual) that I really enjoy doing with my wife more than my guy friends such as: watching movies, riding our bikes, playing golf, going to the beach, and cooking dinner.No. If you really believe this, you need to find a good woman.If you really believe this, you'll probably never find a good woman.
That's a really cynical and pessismistic view regarding interpersonal relationships you have there. Yeah, from this and your previous posts, you certainly seem to be trying hard to rationalize your inexperience and/or lack of success with women (or maybe people in general?). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rationalization_(making_excuses) Also, the fable of The Fox and the Grapes applies as well... "Driven by hunger, a fox tried to reach some grapes hanging high on the vine but was unable to, although he leaped with all his strength. As he went away, the fox remarked, 'Oh, you aren't even ripe yet! I don't need any sour grapes." Also, for someone who is 46 and never has been on a date with a woman and who does not even know how to meet women, I'm wondering how you know so much about women? I infer that you are getting relationship advice only from guys who are equally frustrated and/or inexperienced with women as you are. I know I'm being harsh, and I'm (kind of) sorry for that. I'm just trying to open your eyes to the irrationality of your opinion and attitute towards women. Hopefully that will improve your perspective towards them as well as the world. Edited by - ilst on 1/19/2011 8:10:19 AM
This is entertaining.I don't think most women hate men or sex.That is highly debatable. Many women I date make more than me. I don't use them for their money, we are just on the same page that neither one of us want money from each other or assistance, I am happy with my income and they are happy with their income, neither of us want to share it with each other.Hmmm, I am not married, but.... have been twice... I don't have the urge to spend weekends with my male buddies over my wife when I was married. I did have urges to spend it with female friends which might explain why I have two ex wives. But NO, I don't hate women.I am not sure about that, I like women for companionship, laughing with, having fun with and hanging out with. Women are alright in my book.What does sex talk have to do with money? Why all the hate?
I'm pretty sure I don't hate men. I don't want anyone's money - I don't even want my own. My guy has no guy friends other than his co-workers, and he only sees them at work. He cheerfully spends evenings and weekends with me, unless I go somewhere to do something without him. My guy has a much lower sex drive than I do - I'm reasonably certain he doesn't want me just for sex. Right this second I can't actually think of a single person I hate, and I did mention I don't want anyone's money?
I have apparently had alot more success than the OP. I've dated (And screwed) alot of women. And been in several long term relationships. I think I just have bad taste though. Because if I were to go solely based on my experience, I'd have to agree with the OP. I see other people who seem to have better luck with finding a good SO though.
Wow, this thread is sad and depressing. What a waste! Too many guys here missing out on the real joys and pleasures of life. If anyone thinks spending time enjoying the pleasures of a woman has anything to do with '(And screwed) alot of women' they are sadly mistaken. Wake up guys! You're missing out on a huge part of life. Get some help because you're not getting there on your own. Recognize you have some blind spots and get help seeing them......let someone help you find a whole big wonderful world of women!
^Thank you Rod for saying that so resoundingly. My wife and I are at an age where sex is a minor piece of our relationship (not that we were ever a blazing barn, but the parts now are really old!). But, she is the one person I want to be with. She is my best friend. She is the one who loves and understands me. Given the choice between spending my day with her or with any other friends, I always pick her first. If you view sex as the principal reason for being with a woman, you are missing the best part. Look harder.
Maybe true for you experiences but don't paint everyone with that brush. When my ex husband and I split up I told him to take whatever he wanted. I would have rather seen one of us enjoying something that fighting over it. Like Kimi, I don't even want my own money (well maybe a little). I feel responsible to help anyone who might be worse off than me. I dontate to my Church as well as other philanthropic organizations. And men wanted women solely for sex? I don't see that either.
^ Just to clarify, you are responding to the OP with that first part? I guess while I'm here I will weigh in. I have never dated men for money. My mum did not marry my dad for money, they both work hard and always have, and I myself have consistently had a job since age 14. The only time I wasn't working for my own money, was a year abroad studying. I make quite a lot less than my partner, and I pay 50% of everything because I would be uncomfortable doing otherwise (if I can't afford to live in this house, then I should move into an affordable one; if I can't afford to have cable, then I should cancel it). That doesn't mean he doesn't pay for things for me sometimes, nor I for him. We both respect each other, love each other, pay our own way, and adore each others' company.
No. I disagree. I posted about this awhile back. I think what it actually is is that women just don't GENERALLY like "perverted" sex. Or if they do, they are extremely unlikely to broadcast the fact that they like it. Why? Because they don't have to. If a woman loves perverted sex, she can simply sit back and let men come to her (which they obviously will and do). She will find out soon enough which men are into perverted sex and precisely what they're into. If a woman broadcasts things like "I'm really into getting fucked in the ass and eating cum" the outcome is pretty obvious.... 1. She gets called a "stupid slut" by a bunch of stupid morons who love her when she gives them what they want but then they ridicule her for exactly the same thing. 2. She attracts a more desirable man if she doesn't even mention sex and pretends to be barely interested in it at all. She can still get the kind of sex she wants without dealing with people who don't respect her because she likes sex. Now again, it's entirely possible that you will run into women who hate BOTH sex and men. I happen to believe misandry is just as common as misogyny. It's tempting to just automatically assume a woman must hate sex or men to be so contrary but I think it's also often the wrong assumption. Things are rarely as simple as they seem. Anyone who watches enough porn knows there are women who very much do love sex (though I wouldn't even think of saying all female porn stars do).
On another thread, the op wrote:Ntmlgst, there's nothing wrong with being solitary, but beware of drawing all these conclusions about women, based on no contact with them.