I was wondering what you forumers think of this. Anyone think it's weird or something to be ashamed of? if so why?
Does anyone know any statistics on age and proportion of that population who's had sex? Or as people age, I'm assuming the vast majority has had sex at some point. Maybe 99.9% by age 40?
Is there any other forum people here who are also virgins?
Join the club. I'm 35. I have you beat by a few years.
There was a thread a while ago in this forum about virginity. Some pretty good discussion there. You might want to check it out.
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You gonna pull them pistols or whistle dixie? 238 Posts 12/03
Posted - Jun 5 2004 : 2:18AM
For me, remaining a virgin was unthinkable once I hit puberty. I couldn't wait to get some pussy. It's hard for me to relate but if it's your choice, more power to ya. If not, and you get laid, you'll probably kick yourself for missing all those years. 8)
Sorry. My aim was not to be offensive. Just to be real.
Anyway, unless you plan on being a virgin the rest of your life, or waiting until marriage, then I would highly recommend you take your ass down to one of the legal brothels in Nevada and lose that v-card. I'm sure the ladies over there will be very very accepting of a virgin and try to make your first time a good experience. And there's nothing wrong with paying for it..most men do, in one form or another.
Nto at all weird, and in many ways something to be greatly admired. My wife and I were both virgins when we married (I think I was 24 and she 25). Althoguh we saw many couples dealing just fine with sex, we also saw it screw up many relationships with friends. In college there was enough stress without relationships, and so many people just used sex as a quick fix for any problem they ran into. They ended up either fighting or fucking constantly, and we didn't want to run that route. We figured by waiting we'd appreciate the sex more, appreciate each other more, and have a much more solid foundation to build a lifetime together. So far, it's worked darn good.
When man invented fire, he didn’t say, 'hey, let’s cook', he said, 'great, now we can see naked bottoms in the dark.' - Coupling
Not weird, just uncommon. Statistics? All anyone can do is make educated guesses. People lie. You're old enough to know that .
Ashamed of? No. It happens when it happens, or it doesn't. There are a lot more important things than sex.
I wouldn't suggest rushing into your first opportunity to lose your virginity, either, just because you can. Sex without love is masturbation, no matter how many people are involved.
Sex is overrated: messy, complicated and potentially hazardous to your health. Get a Fleshlight and a new DVD. I will say this, though: it would be worth it to pay for really good head.
Maybe "practice" with a prostitute could help you.
I was pretty drunk on my first fuck, otherwise I would have been nervous as hell (I was 17). Being 28 and still a virgin would most certainly raise the nervousness because the girl wouldn't expect a 28 year-old to be a virgin.
Maybe that could be your problem, that you don't dare to get into a sexual relationship.
If you get some hookers, you will be much more relaxed afterwards in terms of sex.
Only time I would buy a girl flowers is if she was in the hospital 455 Posts 1/04
Posted - Jun 15 2004 : 10:57AM
the older i get the more i realize one of the only things i look forward to is pussy. you can't fight millions of years of evolution you really have to work at suppressing your sexual desires as long as you have...is it worth it...i don't know...
A word of warning about those Nevada brothels. I've been to the ones east of Reno and have never ever seen a pretty girl in any of them. So don't get your hopes up too high. Just trying to prepare you from some heartbreak. Breaking your cherry with an unpretty girl can result in permanent feelings of inferiority. It might feel like rape. Comprendo?
Try taking some girls out and make a pass at every one of them. Eventually one will let you. Be persistent and don't be discouraged. Remember, Babe Ruth never made a homerun every time he went to bat.
there's no shame in being a 28 year old virgin, yet for me, i do find that abit strange. aslong as you're happy with that fact, i can't see the point of rushing out and losing your virginity.