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All Forums > Sex Talk > Sex Talk Forum Page 51 > I've lost my sex drive
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jibstar
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132 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 29 2003 : 2:08PM
i'm 23 years old, a and a couple of months ago I was able to have sex with my partner sometimes every couple of days, even once/twice a day at times.
Now I don't think I've had a full hard-on for about 2 months now. I can go throghout the day without being obsessed with sex. Also I can watch ny porn vids and not get an erection, which has not happened to me before. And my partner thinks i'm cheating on her.

Is this normal for libildo to decrease at this age?

lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 29 2003 : 2:57PM
No, it's not.

That doesn't mean you need to get all alarmed about it, it may fall within a normal spread of human experience. But it would be best to find out why. If there were no traumatic events just preceding this (a death in the family, losing your job, something stressful or anxiety-provoking like that), you might need to rule out medical problems like diabetes or multiple sclerosis.

There is a good book on libido discussed on this thread.

Here is a page on erectile dysfunction.

lindi
Senior Member

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3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 29 2003 : 3:02PM
I want to add that I know several young guys who have lost sexual function due to drugs for depression, schizophrenia, high blood pressure, etc. If you are on any drugs, call the doctor or the pharmacy and ask if this is a possible side effect. It is usually possible to change to a different drug, or else to use Viagra or Caverject for an erection as needed.
slightly_deviant
Member

40 Posts
12/03
Posted - Dec 30 2003 : 4:26AM
Every winter I get nailed by S.A.D. (My office doesn't have a window, I get to work before sunrise and leave work after sunset, in the winter. No daylight for 6 months.) I got tired of feeling like crap for half of every year, talked to my doctor about it, and he gives me an antidepressant every winter now.

It usually turns me into "Mr. All-Night-Long", since it stops me from climaxing at all, but once in awhile it stops me from getting it up at all. The first time that happened, he suggested Yohimbe (an herb, you can get it at the mall), which was amazing sexually, but made me feel like I was having a heart attack. The second time he gave me some free Viagra samples. That's some good stuff.

My advice would be, if you're not feeling "right", talk to your doctor about it. Don't be embarrassed, he's heard it a thousand times. (Hell, I'd bet a hundred bucks he's got a little Viagra at home for himself.)




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