PornBoy
Deactivated User
642 Posts
2/00
|  Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 8:55PMBefore I had a girlfriend I didn't meet a lot of available women. Right after I got a girlfriend its like every woman I met was available and interested in me. Whats the deal with that are women only attracted to guys with girlfriends.  [Link] |
ICEFLOE5948
Member
147 Posts
12/02
| Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 9:19PM
I have noticed this too in the past and came to the conclusion that it's a mixture of 2 phenomenons. The first being that something that's owned by someone or something that someone is attracted to always makes it more attractive to you. The second seem to rely more on reason. It is that knowing that a certain person is engaged kind of pre-aprove him as a good mate. I'm not very good to explain those theories of mine in english, I hope it makes sense. :/  [Link] |
lindi
Senior Member
12345
3205 Posts
9/02
| Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 9:34PM
Yeah, it's not just women. Men do it too. My dog doesn't even want to chew her toy unless we grab it and try to keep it away from her. If there is dried corn out in the yard and one jay finds it, all the other jays come down to see what she's got that's so good. [Link] |
Manetho71
Member
185 Posts
9/02
| Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 10:02PM
In addition to the very valid points listed above, I would also add that your level of confidence might go up if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, and the opposite sex often finds confidence to be very attractive.[Link] |
Chillin
Member
San Diego
208 Posts
9/01
| Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 10:24PM
I guess it's similar to that old agage, "You have to have money in order to make money"..Chillin.. [Link] |
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nudity
Deactivated User
168 Posts
9/02
| Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 11:33PM
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floraman
Member
Germany
224 Posts
8/03
| Posted - Sep 22 2003 : 6:06AM
Grasshopper - there's an ancient Chinese proverb which say:"Women are like buses: you can wait for ages for one to come along, then two or three will all arrive at the same time". [Link] |
Ishamael1
Member
New Zealand
81 Posts
12/02
| Posted - Sep 22 2003 : 7:13AM
Well... if your getting some, then its natural for your bodies pheromone levels to increase, therefore the natural aphrodesiac attracts the opposite sex to you.FYI male sweat contains a significant amount of pheromones so I am told... Lindi, wanna smell my armpit? lol [Link] |
lindi
Senior Member
12345
3205 Posts
9/02
| Posted - Sep 22 2003 : 12:03PM
Will you fly me to New Zealand to do that? I LOVE the Bay of Islands.[Link] |
Ishamael1
Member
New Zealand
81 Posts
12/02
| Posted - Sep 23 2003 : 1:09AM
Only if you bring your DVD collection lol[Link] |
-lunacy-
Senior Member
1081 Posts
4/00
| Posted - Sep 23 2003 : 3:03PM
I think it's the "not looking vibe"You know how when you're really wanting to be in a relationship or get laid and you seem to be wearing a sign visible only to those people your interested in that says "run, run away!" Maybe there's a change in the brain chemicals, like perhaps oxcitocin (spelling) and that causes a change to the phermones? Like I know. Just my half baked theroy. [Link] |
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger
2046 Posts
2/03
| Posted - Sep 23 2003 : 3:07PM
What do we want most? That which we can not have.[Link] |
assluvr69
Member
133 Posts
3/03
| Posted - Sep 25 2003 : 10:28PM
I guess guys and women are different. When I see a girl with a boyfriend I don't find her more to be "coveted". On the contrary, I assume a pessimistic attitude and imagine all the "issues" they must be fighting over. It's when I see single girls that they seem to say "I'm the jackpot, come get me if you're interested."[Link] |
EagleSpirit
Member
Somewhere Doing Something Stupid
439 Posts
7/03
| Posted - Dec 9 2003 : 11:31PM
I see a lot of people in relationships for the wrong reason's. I myself never actively seek pussy, maybe thats what makes me unique. One time I almost kicked myself in the ass. A girl basicly threw herself at me and wanted me to come over. She had children and wanted me to come over on specific times. When she had a weekend off to herself she invited me over but I refused because I had to spend the weekend riding my motorcycle to no particular place. If I would have went over that weekend my whole life could have changed and I wouldn't be where I am today. Now she probably wouldn't be where she was today if I had gone over for the weekend. As it turns out we have both done well as far as work goes, and as far as our lives go. But if I would have went over there we'd still be fuckin!! Not that that's a bad thing.[Link] |
T.L.Tycoon
Member
416 Posts
12/03
| Posted - Dec 26 2003 : 7:26AM
Once Again;Allow T.L.Tycoon to drop a little Game on the Lame;and put a little Pimp in the Simps! Porn Boy is right on the money with this observation;and it's a topic worthy of Dysecting! Personally,It seems like the Prettier the girl I F*** in the Ass; Another one hears about it;and knocks on Tycoons door to get her fill too! This does not make me special however;because this is a phenomenon that has gone on for years with many of Men. Now,I think with the Boyfriend and Girlfriend issue; the reason girls are abundant when you have somebody;is because they see you as having Validated yourself as a Man already. This is especially true for the younger less mature Females.You know! the gorgeous delectables 18-25;that are enamered with all the attention they;but dont realize it will all come to an instant holt later in life. It could also apply to the older female generation;but they are less applicable and willing to compete; primarly because a Woman begins to realize she is less of a commodity by age 25. Not saying that they are not attractive and cant be social; but they must come to grips knowing that there are 1000's of younger,better looking females that have replaced them on the Social Meat Market. When you have somebody;This shows them that,"Okay! This guy aint no dork because he already has a girl that looks as good as me or better even." Also let us not forget that the Ladies love to compete and out do eachother all the time. Human Nature loves the chase factor;and this is a facet of a female chase!! Jealousy amoungst Females is a very very real thing;and that is why some girls dont keep other girls as friends. I know this is a very bad example;but have you ever seen that dating show on T.V. called ELIMIDATE? It's where 5 girls compete for the same guy on a date;and the guy ultimately chooses one at the very end. The Cat fighting you see insue;is a microcosim and good symnosis on how the ladies Compete in real life. When a girl know's you have a Girlfriend; SOME (not all) might swing your way just to see how you will respond and what you will do! Dont think,just because they flirt with you,that ALL are into you,or even interested in you. Some just want to see how you respond to there advances. This is also a test to see where your experience lays;and if you got a little game to you. However, most of the time they do it,because it validates them in there own personal way for whatever reason; just as us Men have many ways to Validate us. Lastly,Never count out the good ol FEMALE INTUITION. When a guy is out there really doing it;I mean fucking on a regular basis;whether it be with his girlfriend or with many girls ;a woman sinces and picks up on that. You could be getting musterd at the Fuckin Grocery Store for heaven sake;and a female will notice it as you stand in line. You wont have to say anything,and look normal;an they will still see it in you. Maybe it's your swagger,maybe it's your demenor ;and maybe if your not clean ;she can smell the sex on you if you did not bath ? But really, it's an AURA or Vibe a man gives off that they just pick up on ;saying that your either taken or you get alot of trim trim. It is also an important point to never loose sight of the fact that it's human nature to (Want what you either cant have or what somebody else has.) In all,there are many Factors which contribute to such a topic;however you can rest assured that my Factors are key ones. Ill let you be the judge on how to handle this matter when confronted with this delimma again.[Link] |
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slightly_deviant
Member
40 Posts
12/03
| Posted - Dec 30 2003 : 4:42AM
This one's very simple.Women, as a rule, are attracted to confident men. Women, as a rule, are repulsed by desparate men. When you're 6 months into a dry spell, you're desparate, and women sense that. It's probably subconscious (or maybe we give off a scent), but they sense that "this guy's trying just a bit TOO hard." When you've got someone, and you're happy and secure in that relationship, confidence is simply a natural side effect. Why wouldn't you be confident? You're gettin' some when you get home, who cares what these chicks think? You can say what you're thinking, speak your mind, and be yourself. So what if this girl doesn't like you? There's one at home that does. The real trick is to do the same thing when you're single.
Edited by - slightly_deviant on 12/30/2003 4:44:11 AM
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Posted - Sep 21 2003 : 8:55PM