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coolkevin
Member

18 Posts
9/11
Posted - Sep 17 2011 : 12:52AM
To put crudely: a site with individuals interested in finding sex primarily
I'm not looking for relationships or dates or whatever, I'm just interested in finding mature local individuals to spend some nights with. Oh and by mature I don't mean old, I just mean mentally mature that they can deal with a strictly sexual encounter, no strings attached.
Are there any legitimate websites like this out there?
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

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8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 1:53PM
Facebook should serve as a warning. These sites are poison.
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 8:40PM
I belong to Fetlife. It's kinda like Facebook only for fetish. Some of the groups do allow for personal ads and they do post events an activities going on in certain areas.
I was told by a couple people I should join to check out information on certain types of fetishes.
I've already found groups to join even though my tastes are pretty boring compared to many of the others listed.
Of course any time you join something like that you need to be careful.
dogzcatcher All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

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1551 Posts
5/09
Posted - Sep 18 2011 : 9:13PM
+ 1 Sexual predators lurk for men too. If you are seeking quanity over quality, rent call girls. If you decide to settle down someday, marry a woman you meet in a church, not in a bar.
coolkevin
Member

18 Posts
9/11
Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 1:22PM
I don't use facebook myself, so I can't tell why it's poison. The reason I don't use it is because I choose to be alone emotionally.
I'm looking for a site with local individuals that are available physically. And though I'm not too kinky myself, of course I'm aware of scams and perverts and phishers and all sorts of malware and malpersona online, so care is a necessity.
It's just that even care is useless when there's no legitimate website to consider.
 
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Sep 20 2011 : 8:09PM
Well I can tell ya that on Fetlife there are groups for your area. You also can get notifications for events. Are they safe? I have no idea because I've perosnally never been to any meets or events in my area for my particular fetish or sexual interests.
However, if say for example my spanking group was having a party, I'd get an invite. Also if I wanted to find someone to spank or spank me some groups do allow "personal ad" type posts or threads.
I have met a couple people from there but not for sex. It was simply because they had befriended me,corosponded with me, got to "know" me. They knew they would be in my area and stopped to meet with me for lunch or see the shop.
It's always been a good experience but like I said, I didn't meet them to have sex with them even though it was through Fetlife.
Breeze
Member

One Smokin Hot Chic
532 Posts
11/08
Posted - Sep 24 2011 : 11:09PM
Do you mention ADT on your fetlife account?
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Sep 25 2011 : 11:31AM
You know, come to think of it I don't think I have. Should I?
I do try to keep my anonymity over there a little more. So I do not mention Adam & Eve and I do not post pics of my at work or in uniform (if you can call t-shirt and jeans a uniform).



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