Verbosity is not proof of veracity, Dan. If you say that the sun zig-zags across the heavens, I do not feel obliged to provide an explanation to prove you are spouting nonsense. Experience alone suffices, and it is obvious that experience is what you lack. Were I convinced that everybody who reads this board is well aware of that fact then I would simply ignore you and your fantasies. However, the possibility exists that somebody might actually be influence by you, and the thought of that poor schmuck making a complete ass of himself in bed, not to mention what the object if his misguided affections would have to endure, compels me to respond. As the old saying goes, Dan, the map is not the territory. The simple truth is that sex is best when it involves mutual exploration. In other words, if you want to make love to a woman then you have to pay attention to her, not to some fucking manual, never mind clueless Internet experts. You have to learn the territory that is that one, unique individual. Have a nice day.
^ You might be right about sex being best the way you say it is, when people are having sex for their own personal pleasure. But sex done for show in front of an audience is very different from having sex for personal pleasure. Because the audience cannot see or feel the pleasure of the people having sex. The audience can only look at various signs that are consistent with sexual pleasure and get the impression that the pleasure is there. Making good porn is all about creating visible signs of pleasure that cannot be faked and that the audience will believe.
Of course it is, and if your remarks made it clear that you were discussing your personal preferences in regards to performances in porn then nobody would demur. Unfortunately, you tend to make statements which read more like attempts at defining absolute truths. Making good porn is all about creating visible signs of pleasure that cannot be faked and that the audience will believe. Do you truly not see the inherent contradiction in that statement? Oh, well. There are few visible signs of sexual pleasure that cannot be faked, and it is very rare indeed when I see such a sign in pornography. That's okay though, because my expectations don't exceed the ability of the medium to deliver.
