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SueR
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Under a hill of books
262 Posts
12/02
Posted - Jul 17 2003 : 12:02AM
Raise your hand if you've gotten wet at the sight of one of the following:

--a wedding ring
--Manolo Blahnicks
--an erect cock
--a sportscar
--the letters "D" and "R" in front of a suitor's name on his business card
--a clean house (none of the cleaning done by you)
--Ben and Jerry's
--a new boyfriend getting along with your kids
--a Beatle, a Brady, a Backstreet Boy or any other teen idol of your particular generation
--stock dividends
--Colin Farrell

-lunacy-
Senior Member

1081 Posts
4/00
Posted - Jul 17 2003 : 7:00PM
Sorry, none of the above, but I can add to the list:

a man in jeans and nothing else
someone fresh from the shower
a girl in just bobby socks and panties
belly button rings
a man's nicely manicured hands
a vibe in my hubbies hand
a bottle of cheap wine

Arethusa
Member

Enjoying Sweden
99 Posts
8/02
Posted - Jul 17 2003 : 8:19PM
Amen on the Blahniks, the sports car and Colin Farrell.

Also -

Well-toned shoulders (Brad Pitt has some nice ones)
A big, red A on a 10 page paper of my creation
Guys who play with my... dogs.
The mere sight of a hot tub
Rose petals

SueR
Member

Under a hill of books
262 Posts
12/02
Posted - Sep 2 2003 : 3:37AM
RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Sep 2 2003 : 4:25AM
If women respond equally well to either sex, why do women in general tend to alienate and divorce their male partner when he shows signs of a bisexual nature? Why do men tend to embrace this in their female partner and carry her off to a swing party?
 
YogaGrrl
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757 Posts
12/01
Posted - Sep 2 2003 : 9:43AM
LOL at this quote from one of the researchers: "It would have been scientifically preferable to use actual people as our sexual stimuli, but this was obviously impermissible."

Seriously, one of the things I question about this study is that its subjects consisted of a group of 29 female university students. That doesn't strike me as a very big representative sample. Especially given their age--college can be a time of great experimentation for women, and lesbian experiences at school are common enough to possibly be considered cliche. It's also not clear to me whether the researchers controlled for previous porn watching experience; if this group of relatively young women hadn't seen as much porn as their male counterparts, it's possible that they would've been more aroused by whatever happened to be up on the screen. I know almost everything excited me in the beginning, and now I'm picky.

Still, those are some interesting links, Sue, and I'm glad you posted them. As a woman, I can report that I do in fact get visually excited by (some) porn.

SueR
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Under a hill of books
262 Posts
12/02
Posted - Sep 4 2003 : 3:23AM
Did the subjects know they're going to watch porn? If they did, did the study have only likers of porn?
BustdownGal
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539 Posts
7/06
Posted - Mar 23 2007 : 12:14PM
bumped for seedless

It's a myth that women don't get as aroused by visual sexual stimuli as men. In fact, the link above that still works suggests that women even get aroused by porn outside of their sexual orientation more than men do.

Edited by - BustdownGal on 3/23/2007 12:27:54 PM

cobalt60
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2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Mar 23 2007 : 1:15PM
They just don't necessarily get aroused by the same visual sexual stimuli as men.

Edited by - cobalt60 on 3/23/2007 3:38:37 PM

Robbie
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Posted - Mar 23 2007 : 1:16PM
Kimi Lixx
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2012 Posts
6/01
Posted - Mar 23 2007 : 2:38PM
Nothing on SueR's list does much for me.

There are other things that have been known to, but not usually more than once or twice. I would seem to have a limited capacity for visual stimuli. I think it might be more of a novelty factor for me, and once I've been there and done that, it doesn't trip my trigger ever again.

Boobies would be the exception to this. I love to see boobies. Any boobies, all boobies. It isn't even always sexual, I just love seeing them. I never get tired of tits.

melpster
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582 Posts
5/05
Posted - Mar 23 2007 : 3:35PM
Nothing on SueR's list turns me on either.

But I love looking at men's hands. I don't care what they're doing when I'm looking at them. I just love men's hands. I love picturing them on me, and then imagining how they feel on me. Then I love imagining how I must feel to them. I guess it's a combo visual-cerebral thing for me overall.

katsirk
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Crush on Greg....mmm
812 Posts
7/06
Posted - Mar 27 2007 : 9:31PM
Nice melpster, me too. BTW, do you ever get drawn to just one of his fingers? I also like men's forearms, yum. Broad shoulders also do it for me.

melpster
Member

582 Posts
5/05
Posted - Mar 28 2007 : 7:26AM
Oh I love fingers as well. Something about the hands and fingers on a man to me are just as individually expressive as the face and eyes. Arms and shoulders are wonderful for when I'm looking for strength and comfort. But hands to me are like a medium of communication. I know it's corny, but it's like that Walt Whitman poem about the boy who becomes everything he touches. I look at a man's hands and imagine where they've been and what they've been doing throughout his life. And then I imagine them traveling all over my body...

BustdownGal
Member

539 Posts
7/06
Posted - Mar 28 2007 : 7:00PM
Looks like they do, cobalt. We've got 1 vote for boobies and 2 vote for hands and 1 vote from me for being turned on by the sight of a hard dick. 1 from the old posters for jeans. 1 for men naked and wet. 1 for girls in bobby sox and panties. 2 for shoulders. 1 (or maybe 5 considering the website we're all on) for porn.
 
caroline-NL
Member

543 Posts
3/07
Posted - Mar 30 2007 : 9:09AM
I am aroused by porn, but I am bi-sexual, not hetereosexual.
Mostly I am aroused by the women in porn, not by the males.
Most of the males, especially in US porn, are not my type of men. I prefer normal and friendly men, not the "loud-mouth" and muscle sports power type of men I so often see in US porn movies.

Many lesbians watch porn, but only few hetereo-sexual women. I think this is because most movies center around the women. I cant understand the feminist critics, that women are degraded to sex objects, this critic is only justified for bad porn movies. But in almost all hetereosexual porn movies, the men are degraded to sex objects. Look at the average porn movie and count, how many seconds you see the male face vs. the face of the women.

Most women like to watch good looking man to have sex with other women, but they dont like to watch only a penis in action.

Savoy All-Star Supporter
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Sucker for Sinners
1844 Posts
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Posted - Mar 31 2007 : 3:23AM
+ a whole bunch
GreenKnight
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38 Posts
4/07
Posted - Apr 3 2007 : 11:06PM
forget the D and R, how about the letters K N I G H T, let the floods begin
Gabriella Cuntez
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Get Some Head In The Game
55 Posts
12/08
Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 2:19AM
right on
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
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Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 4:51AM
Almost any reason for arousal is good -- unless that reason is underage.
RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 11:30AM
I promise you that nobody wants to see me in jeans and nothing else.
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