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Captain Jack  All-Star Member 5092 Posts 12/09 |  Posted - May 1 2014 : 6:41PM[Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 1 2014 : 7:16PM 1. Re: bottoming - I need someone who is as good with a strap-on as I am, and both butch and hot. My ideal butch is skinny, pretty, the sort of girl who could have been a model if she cared about fitting the script. I meet them very rarely. I'm not at all submissive, I'm very sexually aggressive, but if I really like a girl I'll let her fuck me into the ground. I'll wear her out and leave her breathless. I like showing her something that I don't show other people. You know, this "how many boys would die to get what you're getting" moment. It's a roleplay thing. I'm neither femme nor butch. I'm an actress. A lot of people don't understand this. They have this really unenlightened view of sex. They are stuck in the box. It's like when people think men are gay because they like getting butt-fucked by women...they like that because they like power exchange and they have a prostate and they like doing something that's dirty, or whatever. A dildo isn't a penis. It's a dildo. The reason I don't want to fuck men isn't because my vagina is scared of penetration - it's because I don't like the way men smell, and their bodies don't make me hot, and their energy doesn't turn me on, and I'm just not attracted to them. A friend of mine has a response to this kind of thinking, the "why don't you like dick if you like dildos?"..."You like vaginas, right? Sheep have vaginas." I don't know Syd well. I think I kissed her once. She's cute. I'd have to have the right chemistry with her and I don't know if I do. I just don't believe in doing things half-way. I want everything I do to be as good as it can be. 2. Re: aggressive scenes - thanks for checking out Family Chronicles. There are some pretty hard scenes on my site LilyCade.com, mostly strap-on based stuff. I've got a lot of hard pounding strap-on scenes, like my anal scene with Larkin Love or the "cop" scenes on there. I'd also recommend you check out "Lesbian Lock-Up". Both my scenes are me as a prison guard being very dominant with other women. I fuck Nikki Darling on a dumpster, put my tie clip on her tit, and when it falls off make her pick it up with her mouth. Then I DP Lotus Lain with Nina Hartley. Somewhere, there's a super hardcore scene with me and Lucky Starr where I just destroy her, make her lick spit off the ground, all that stuff - I have no idea where to find it, but it's probably my roughest true "Domme" scene. If someone could find that for me, that would be great. I'm not really a fetish performer as much as I am a sex performer. I love rough sex and intense sex and dirty stuff. I'm more of a pervert than a kinkster if that makes sense. 3. Producers to watch: I watch soooooo much porn in the editing room, I don't have a lot of motivation to watch porn. I also don't masturbate. But I do like to keep up with what other people are doing, to at least be aware of what's going on. I think the Elegant Angel features, like Wasteland, were innovative. I think Mason and Dana Vespoli are both good. I really like the stuff that femme-life.com has been doing with an without me, just neat, weird, kinky stuff with fun stories. Edited by - lily_cade on 5/1/2014 7:17:49 PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 1 2014 : 7:23PM    [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 2 2014 : 2:34AM I appreciate how you explained everything! [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 2 2014 : 6:59AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 2 2014 : 11:11AM Also, I've been blogging a lot more lately. You guys can check out my blog at LilyCade.com/blog [Link] |
| Lezlover Member 527 Posts 9/12 | Posted - May 2 2014 : 9:23PM [Link] |
| JackSparrow Deactivated User 7235 Posts 7/11 | Posted - May 3 2014 : 1:16AM Edited by - jacksparrow on 5/5/2014 1:04:47 AM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 3 2014 : 2:01AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 4 2014 : 4:38PM [Link] |
| LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05 | Posted - May 4 2014 : 5:22PM Why nobody asks to Manuel Ferrara or Mandingo to bottom in gay movies for example? Or even to top for that matter What you asked has the very same sense , more so because she's a dominant who tops her partners usually [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 4 2014 : 5:56PM I'm a top. I run scenes. Even when I'm being femme and soft and the sex is gentle, I am the one who makes the position changes happen, who sets the tone and pace of the scene. My energy is the driving force in the vast majority of scenes I'm in. Plus I do a lot of strap-on work and I'm known for that. As a genuinely lesbian top, I'm somewhere in between a male and female performer in the ways that I'm utilized - I'm less the main attraction in a lot of my scenes. I'm there to showcase my scene partner and put her through her paces. Sometimes I stay fully clothed in a uniform or something. It's my sexual energy that I'm hired for, not just my body. I'm never the innocent. It's never my first time. I'm as gay (probably gayer) than you are straight. I feel about sex with a man the way most straight men do: ew, gross, no. [Link] |
| joachim Senior Member 03 12 15 16 18 04 07 13 18 2285 Posts 1/09 | Posted - May 4 2014 : 6:06PM [Link] |
| JackSparrow Deactivated User 7235 Posts 7/11 | Posted - May 5 2014 : 12:59AM But also is not necessary for the other dude here to straight attack.Everyones taste is different ,accept other people wishes,if i would rant in any thread where i read i want a girl see blowbang,gangbang trillion guys or i want Adriano here and there.I had no time for other stuff in life. So back to the great g/g performer Lily Cade. As i ask have you ever done a scene with Riley Reid ? Edited by - jacksparrow on 5/5/2014 1:00:58 AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 5 2014 : 6:22PM I haven't worked with Riley, although I would love to. [Link] |
| Steve Smith Senior Member 2669 Posts 11/11 | Posted - May 5 2014 : 10:47PM [Link] |
| LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05 | Posted - May 6 2014 : 11:04AM There's a colleague at work who is lesbian I hang out with for lunch sometimes , it was her who explained me the way she feels about men, she's no more capable to kiss a man than me, she's as likely to bed a man as I am, that is why I used my example about Manuel or Mandingo rather than the "male talent" point of view she expressed the regular straight man disgust for even the idea of touching another man in a sexual way not to mention fuck him. I'm not even saying it's disgusting in general, it is for those who don't like that , I like to go down on women , I like to stimulate all of their body with my hands, mouth and everything , the idea of doing this over a male body is unbearable for me, can't even picture myself doing this. I already knew her point in theory ,but it was when she said it out loud with a vivid disgust possibly even greater than mine that I fully understood her. [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 6 2014 : 2:48PM Imagine that every single day of your life, gay dudes aggressively hit on you, refused to believe you that you were straight, and tried to talk you out of your sexual orientation. I've stood against a tide of that my entire life, and so have most lesbians. It lessens if you're super, super butch (not Lily Cade butch. Not big titties and eyeliner and tailored suit butch but trucker dyke butch) but even they still get it. I've "asked for it" to some extent by putting myself on display. It doesn't exactly offend me when dudes ask me for the fourth time in one day and the 7millionth time in my life if I've "thought about" fucking a guy. It's just sort of tiresome. I'm a weird porn girl, and I know that, and I'm happy being me. I think that really talking about sex and sexuality and what that means is interesting...so I'm just honest with people. I don't put on a public persona. I'm just myself, in public, and I'm the gayest bitch on planet Earth :) [Link] |
| LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05 | Posted - May 6 2014 : 6:38PM My colleague is a butch too, a tomboy short hair little tits she manage to hide , lots of workout to reinforce her shoulders and be as similar to a man as possible , still attractive though, yet she wouldn't change gender. I only hit on her once , when she told me she was a lesbian I put her in my no list and never did that again.Never asked if she would try a man , she's 27 now if she wanted to, she would have done already and if she did clearly she didn't like it. I believe it is even more difficult for a butcher , she's a "male" sexually , the one who leads the bed so to speak if she goes with a true male equally dominant wouldn't be this good as either of them would try to lead the other , might work once, but not much more. I also admire her ability to score the hottest woman around even married women sometimes I wish I had half her ability in such matter [Link] |
| La Lunitica Deactivated User Zenogias 181 Posts 6/13 | Posted - May 6 2014 : 10:14PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 7 2014 : 3:52PM As far as bi girls who call themselves lesbians...I feel like, other than in porn where girls do it for marketing reasons, this is falling by the wayside. Mostly these kinds of gals just call themselves queer now. Even if the "lesbian" you're hitting on is homoflexible, you'll still want to follow my advice: http://www.lilycade.com/2014/03/what-not-to-say-to-lesbians-a-primer/ [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 8 2014 : 2:55AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - May 20 2014 : 3:17PM Edited by - lily_cade on 5/20/2014 6:30:11 PM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 21 2014 : 3:31AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Jun 17 2014 : 2:18PM http://www.lilycade.com/2014/06/why-i-went-to-war/ Edited by - lily_cade on 6/17/2014 4:28:30 PM [Link] |
| LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jun 17 2014 : 5:48PM WOW! that's fucked up I mean you like pussies and she have none , you DON'T like penises and she has one , so what is the problem,? what's wrong with them? [Link] |
| pat362 Senior Member 10081 Posts 3/10 | Posted - Jun 17 2014 : 9:10PM Many lesbian scenes include the use of strap-ons so does the fact that a woman use one make her a man or is she still a woman having lesbian sex with another woman? It might be an interesting question to debate but academic one at this point since Lily only wants real women for her lesbian scene. I personally believe that if there is anyone other than women in a scene than it's not a true lesbian scene. [Link] |
| cm37564 Senior Member 1105 Posts 9/05 | Posted - Jun 18 2014 : 7:26AM they work really well together Edited by - cm37564 on 6/18/2014 7:26:53 AM [Link] |
| LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jun 18 2014 : 8:02AM Nobody does and if they refuse nobody gets upset , furthermore AFAIK they never performed with a Female Transgender who formerly was a male and , again, nobody asks. Also I wasn't referring to the proposal itself but the "all out war on twitter" over her refusal, if she doesn't feel comfortable working with a Transsexual because a penis is a penis and she doesn't like it , we should live it at that. It was the "war" that I was complaining about Edited by - LCF on 6/18/2014 8:04:49 AM [Link] |
| blueboykc Member 438 Posts 8/07 | Posted - Jun 18 2014 : 8:43AM [Link] |
| mikesny Member 6 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Jun 20 2014 : 10:57AM I was just reading through the forums at your website and found a post from last year where you were planning a BG scene for the first time. Was that scene ever filmed and released? Did you follow through with the plan, or did you reconsider? I ask because your more recent comments in the interview and this forum make it sound like you would no longer be interested in pursuing that. Thanks! [Link] |
| joachim Senior Member 03 12 15 16 18 04 07 13 18 2285 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Jun 20 2014 : 6:47PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Jun 24 2014 : 5:00PM I love that my April Fools post still gets people ;) [Link] |
| White1970DodgeChallenger Member 406 Posts 1/12 | Posted - Jun 28 2014 : 4:25PM [Link] |
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| Mo Reese Member Average Guy, Not So Average Job 101 Posts 11/09 | Posted - Aug 16 2014 : 3:18PM [Link] |
| Aya Senior Member All The Cool Girls Are Lesbians 7439 Posts 6/14 | Posted - Aug 16 2014 : 4:34PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Sep 11 2014 : 5:37PM My latest movie from Filly, and my best to date. [Link] |
| joachim Senior Member 03 12 15 16 18 04 07 13 18 2285 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Sep 11 2014 : 8:42PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Oct 7 2014 : 1:45PM Click Me [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Dec 21 2014 : 5:22PM http://business.avn.com/articles/video/Lily-Cade-Is-Getting-Her-High-End-Feature-Groove-On-582969.html Edited by - lily_cade on 12/21/2014 5:24:05 PM [Link] |
| jakejd4949 Senior Member 2938 Posts 8/06 | Posted - Jan 25 2015 : 7:40AM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Mar 18 2015 : 8:25AM I saw on your Twitter page that you did a scene for Kink.com's Whipped Ass. Who is in the scene with you? Also, are you dominating someone or are you being dominated?Edited by - matchmaker on 3/18/2015 8:25:58 AM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Mar 18 2015 : 12:23PM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Mar 19 2015 : 2:59AM Thanks for the reply! [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Mar 29 2015 : 10:35PM [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Mar 29 2015 : 10:39PM
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| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Mar 30 2015 : 6:34AM The trailer looks good! [Link] |
| CummingLinguist All-Star Member 5908 Posts 11/11 | Posted - Apr 4 2015 : 3:00PM I love your new look.Great interview. You said, "I like sex in public or semi-public places," and "Orgasms are great, but I’d always rather give one than have one." For me porn is about exhibitionism and voyeurism. (As I discussed in another thread, I used to be a front row guy in Times Square.) Do you enjoy knowing that guys jerk off while watching your work, or do you imagine women watching, or is it the more abstract "people"? Have you ever had sex while guys were watching? If so, how was it for you? [Link] |
| KMB2476 Member 653 Posts 7/07 | Posted - Apr 4 2015 : 6:47PM I was really looking forward to seeing you hypnotize a girl into being your little lesbian toy ;) That would have been a great scene. Is it ever going to be released? [Link] |
| lily_cade Member 121 Posts 5/10 | Posted - Apr 6 2015 : 12:29PM Re: My relationship to exhibitionism, that's a bit of a longer answer. I've always been an exhibitionist. I love showing off. I was taking my clothes off on stage and fucking chicks in front of people at parties long before I was in porn. So, yes, I've had sex in front of lots of men. On camera, at sex parties, at regular parties, on stage...I don't mind the dudes in a professional context or when the audience is large enough. I'm in this weird in between place in a lot of ways - half boy, half girl, half virign, half whore, good-hearted bad boi. I'm not the girl who gets naked at parties. I'm the girl who gets other girls naked at parties. You don't know if you want to fuck me or be me...but you can't do either so watch me. One on one "fuck me while my boyfriend watches" is a different story. If he pays me, it's great. We're putting on a private show. The vibe is similar to a porn shoot with an amateur girl. If I'm not being paid, then fuck that, man. One dude isn't enough of an audience for me. The reason I have sex off camera and one on one is to foster a connection with someone, to have this singular experience. I'm not looking to be the unpaid prop in some couple's relationship spice up. I want her to let go with me, not be thinking about her man's feelings or whatever. Besides, I've made some guys cry this way and I'm not really looking to collect more of those stories. The camera I just fucking love. Porn sex, when it's good, is both the singular sexual experience and the audience. The audience is farther away, so entirely non-intrusive, plus much bigger. Not to mention, I just love having this record of my sex life. The shooters I like have good energy and can appreciate what's going on without being either creeps but aren't disinterested either. It is better when the camera people think the scene is hot. Photos are better when the photographer and the girl have a bit of a connection. I don't visualize anybody jerking off. I don't really masturbate and I'm a very words based thinker. I love sexual energy. I like it when someone learns something from watching me. What makes me happiest is when people really GET my work, but I'm happy when they connect with it in general too. I love fan reviews where fans point out parts of the scenes they liked, especially when they talk about why they thought it was hot. It doesn't matter to me whether my audience is made up of people I would want to fuck or not. [Link] |
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