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Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 25 2011 : 10:03PM
Hi, i'm looking for a double sided dildo that is designed to be used anally. I'm not sure whats out there but the ones ive seen used in porn are big and floppy, and i really cant take more than 1.5" in diameter. I imagine it would have to be somewhat rigid but still flexible enough to change its contour. I would like to use it "back to back" position where i would flip my dick under and into my partners vagina (does this have a name?) so she would be DP'd, so the length is the only thing im unsure of, if its too long then i wont be able to get close enough to penetrate her without impaling eachother. If anyone has any experience with this please point me in the right direction.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 25 2011 : 11:53PM
*sigh* I have tried to post this reply THREE times and each time my computer decides to break the internet connection. So....lets try this again.
I have two toys at the shop that might do the trick. Both have completely escaped me right now though and I'll have to check on what they are called at work tomorrow.
One works like a cock and balls ring. It has a ring for your shaft, a ring for your balls and a small anal cock in between. So as you thrust the toy moves with you. Like having an extra dick. It's made specifically for anal so it's not that big but it is long.
Another toy we have I want to call a Double Teaser but dont hold me to that. It's a 16 inch double dong with a "regular" dong on one end and a skinnier anal dong on the other.
Again, I will look at them tomorrow and get you the toy names.
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 4:47AM
Well i actually just need a double dildo, no rings or kinky stuff like that, and it will have to be the same diameter at either end.
loveporn
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 8:50AM
I love that you said no kinky stuff.
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 2:36PM
Why, you think that move is kinky? I just like only having one accessory to manage.
 
jayo All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 6:16PM
Yes.
But so what? Embrace the kink. White bread gets dull day after day...
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 7:05PM
Well I don't think you're going to find a smaller diameter on both ends because it would not be solid enough to work right. But this is what I have at the shop and it might do the trick because neither end are particularly big. One end is bigger than the other but the "thick" end is not as large as most double dongs. The other end of course is actually meant for anal. It's only 11 inches which would probably work for putting one end in your butt and the other in her and then as you said, "flip your dick down." I think it would work nicely for that.
2-Toned Duel Delight
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 8/26/2011 7:07:39 PM
Damn it!!!! Nevermind it's been discontinued.......but I will find something like it....the quest is on....stay tuned.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 8/26/2011 7:10:28 PM
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 26 2011 : 10:46PM
What do you recommend as a material that would be stiff enough for this but wouldnt require the use a condom to keep it clean?
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 27 2011 : 12:51AM
Ive searched through a dozen sites already looking for a 12" long 1" wide double dildo in rubber or silicone and i cant find anything like it. Im a bit flabbergasted by the fact that such a saturated market fails to provide such a basic product.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 27 2011 : 5:55PM
I found one called Slim Jim Double Dong by California Exotics. It's 1.5in dia. BUT it's 17in long. I think you'll need the shorter one for that position.
Here's a photo of the Slim Jim.
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I'll find you one. Don't worry.
Oh, and to answer your question. I think for this type of use you would want something that is a firm jelly silicone. Easier to clean and anything cyberskin os probably going to be too soft. Cyberskin also harbors bacteria because it's very porous. Glass or metal would be too stiff and might hurt a little with thrusting.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 8/27/2011 5:57:57 PM
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 27 2011 : 6:34PM
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 27 2011 : 7:51PM
I tried inserting something i had around the house that was 1.5" in dia to see if i could handle it, turns out thats way too big, i need 1" max, and 12" in length. After about 6 hours of searching it seems this item doesnt exist, in any form. I found something that claims to be 1.25" but its made of jelly which is porous and contains phalities.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 2:13AM
How much can she take? The first one I posted is not that bad. You might have to practice with it a bit to get her to that level but the "bigger end" tip is thinner but if she can take you, she should be able to handle it easier than DP. I mean you're taking about a position that is not meant for beginners in the first place.
I'm sure since we still have a couple left at the shop, you could find it on Amazon even though Adam & Eve has discontinued it from their line.
Ivory
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 11:44AM
Fun Factory used to make a silicone dildo like this, but they've discontinued it. They were the only silicone manufacturer that I ever encountered who made a double dildo in that style.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 2:19PM
Well it needs to be smooth on both ends if were going to use it in the right way. She doesnt do anal because a normal penis is too big for her, its not really an option for either of us.
 
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 4:18PM
Well dont take offense to me saying this but if neither of you are used to anal this position may not be a good thing to do until you are. You will not have as much control over the thrusting and you could possibly hurt each other.
I would suggest you continue looking for the right toy (and I will too)but in the meanwhile practice with some anal play to get yourself to that level. You'll have better control over your toy anally and so will she. I know one thing alot of my customers do is practice with butt plugs. Work your way into different sizes while having vaginal sex. You'll both get used to the sensation of having something there but you'll be using some gentle stretching and you'll learn to control your muscles while you thrust.
Ivory
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 7:28PM
^Good points, SSG. Some men's dicks can't flip under when they're erect, so this is definitely not a scenario everyone can experience.
That said, Fairchild, it occurs to me that the best solution at this time for you is to pick two suitable silicone dildos with bases and use a dildo coupler. Here is a link to what a coupler looks like: click (Note, you'll need to then put "coupler" in the site's search field) and I see no reason, given that it's a piece of neoprene with three holes, one couldn't easily make one.
Also, it occurs to me that if you're truly dedicated to the idea of a single-use item, you could glue the dildos together at their bases!

Edited by - Ivory on 8/28/2011 10:10:01 PM

Fairchild
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 9:14PM
the link you posted is dead. Are there any 6x1" dildos at all i could modify?
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 9:54PM
Doc JOhnson makes several Anal starter plugs are well as anal dildos. They are pretty cheap too so if you ruin a toy you wont be out much.
Ivory
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Posted - Aug 28 2011 : 10:12PM
It's not a dead link, you just need to put "coupler" in the search field.
Breeze
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Posted - Aug 29 2011 : 2:40AM
This looks like it would work IMO, does body know if Doc Johnson makes a double vacu-loc attachment for their strap on series? I don't think it would be too hard to make one yourself if you were hellbent on it. Seriously. The vacu loc attachment slips through the harness, why not attach two vacu loc attachments together and then you can pic either attachment you want on either end.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Aug 29 2011 : 9:46AM
They do make a male harness in the vaculock series. It has an opening for your penis, a strap on dong and a butt plug for the wearer.
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