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| gsigmund00 New Member  1 Posts 11/11 |  Posted - Nov 16 2011 : 11:54AMThis is my first time in a forum, but after 37 yrs I am very frustrated. My first time was 18yrs old. I had sex for about 4 1/2 hours, then I just stopped, and was hurting real bad for awhile. I had oral sex done for one hour and nothing. I have been with about 15 different partners, but I Gave up about 5 yrs ago. my co-worker once had a escort friend come over. I was wirh her for 45 and nothing. I can get hard, but the finale doesn't happen. Can anyone help? [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Nov 16 2011 : 2:23PM [Link] |
Hardware  All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Nov 16 2011 : 2:31PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Nov 17 2011 : 1:47AM tho if you are getting hard, likely its a mental thing im not as bad as you, but still takes me ages to cum..and i cant cum from oral ever even tho i love it from what i have read 2 things in teenage years are a factor 1.the earlier men start masturbating generally means the easier they cum.. to the point where a very high percentage of men with premature ejaculation started in early teens masturbating ( i started 16, almost 17...and i find it hard to cum) 2. also have read men that start sex younger, generally cum easier/quicker both the same thing in the end, it was training your brain at an early age to cum when sexually excited. with me, masturbating tool quite awhile, therefore ive trained my brain that it takes a lot to make me cum opposite for guys who are too quick they trained themselves that when being sexual ( masturbating or having sex) that they cum as quick as possible [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 21 2011 : 2:03PM If you do and it's not difficult, then you have conditioned yourself to a very specific situation and/or specific sensations. Some guys say they HAVE to masturbate with a piece of cloth or some such, and if so, they need to deny themselves the cloth and wait until other sensations work, developing a wider range of sensations that they respond to. Some guys pound themselves so hard that the subtler sensations of partner sex don't work, and they need to refrain from hard masturbation until the need builds enough for them to respond to gentler masturbation techniques, in as wide a range as possible. When you can get yourself off from gentle techniques, with or without lube, in a variety of situations then try again with a partner. You may then have to work through some mental blocks from past experience, so an understanding and/or committed partner would help, even if it's a friend. If it isn't physical sensation, it's emotional blockage, and that's another can of worms. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 21 2011 : 3:04PM how cum i can't cum? delayed male orgasm Edited by - lindi on 11/21/2011 3:07:07 PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Nov 21 2011 : 8:07PM I have only rarely been able to orgasm with a partner. [Link] |
| Dirtyhabit Member 145 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Nov 23 2011 : 12:18PM There's so many factors though. I agree with the previous poster who mentioned conditioning oneself to a certain touch through masturbating. Assuming it's not a mental block or a mechanical problem. Edited by - dirtyhabit on 11/23/2011 12:21:39 PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Nov 23 2011 : 8:04PM ie...with me, i never realised but how i masturbated i took my time and didnt try to cum as soon as i could.. so most times it would take me 20-30 min to cum from masturbating then in my sex life gfs would wonder why i couldnt cum from oral and with sex would take me a lot longer than most guys this trained my brain to take its time with sex men who have premature ejaculation, trained their brain from an early age to cum as quick as they could from masturbating so when they are sexual, they cum too quick cause they are conditioned this way on a side note, has anyone on here who couldnt cum from blow jobs ever find a way to change this? [Link] |
| Cody McLarge Senior Member 2668 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Nov 24 2011 : 3:09AM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Nov 25 2011 : 3:49AM as i enjoy blow jobs immensely, if i had to compare id say more so than sex just never felt that i was ever close to cumming from it tho [Link] |
| budtugley Senior Member One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04 | Posted - Dec 7 2011 : 5:50PM It is an interesting problem, I'd had something similar. Either I'd cum sooner than I wanted to or I'd have a hard time (pun intended) cumming at all. I learned that cumming too soon sucks for both of us so I'd delay that, it's a mental thing for me. That allowed 3 or 4 hours of really fun activities but when I came I had to do it myself some of the time. Some of the time the normal sensation and warmth of the lady would be enough, sometimes it wasn't. What you need to do is limit playing with the little guy. It's far easier said than done. If you eat a little bit all day long, you're never hungry enough for a full meal, if you play with yourself too often, the enjoyment of penis in pussy wanes. Bottom line--masturbate less, enjoy pussy more, masturbate more, enjoy pussy less, just like a teeter-tooter. [Link] |
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