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| Nyguy Member 108 Posts 2/03 |  Posted - Mar 27 2003 : 12:52PMHow many people here are married or living with girlfriend and does solo masturbation watching porno. If so how often? [Link] |
| Shawny Member 92 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Mar 27 2003 : 4:25PM [Link] |
| Heaven Member 363 Posts 12/01 | Posted - Mar 27 2003 : 9:39PM Edited by - Heaven on 3/27/2003 9:39:33 PM [Link] |
| Asmodeus Lord of Lust az-mo-day-us 6338 Posts 10/01 | Posted - Mar 27 2003 : 9:56PM [Link] |
| RoccoFan Member 337 Posts 2/02 | Posted - Mar 31 2003 : 7:43PM Boat Drinks!!! RoccoFan [Link] |
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| RoccoFan Member 337 Posts 2/02 | Posted - Mar 31 2003 : 7:57PM Boat Drinks!!! RoccoFan [Link] |
| Shawny Member 92 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Apr 1 2003 : 9:47AM Or you could wait till your kid is asleep, lock them in their room but give them bell or something in case of emergencies! You don't want to be reported for neglect... [Link] |
Bob  All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 2 2003 : 10:53PM Whatever kind of relationship you're in, everyone needs alone time -- time to relax, time to think and dream, time to take care of yourself. Masturbating to porn is one way of fulfilling all of these legitimate needs. It's a way of taking charge of your need for sexual pleasure, rather than making your pleasure your partner's "responsibility". It's not a substitute for the intimacy of sex with a partner -- because the experience is totally different -- but it is an alternative mode of sexual satisfaction. One danger to be watchful about, however, is becoming overly dependent on porn. Masturbating alone to porn is easy; relating sexually to someone else is harder. As long as the porn-watching/masturbating is not drawing you away from intimacy with your partner, as long as you're not isolating yourself in the porn-fantasy world at the expense of real inter-personal sexual contact, then you have nothing to worry about. I've been with the same woman, and monogamous, for 17 years. I believe that masturbating to porn has helped me to remain faithful to my wife, especially during the rocky points in our relationship and the slowdowns in our sex life that have occurred during her pregnancies and shortly after the births of our children. For me, porn serves as a kind of middle point between the realm of pure fantasy and actual sex with a different woman. It's a more concrete fantasy experience that partially fulfills my desire for sexual variety without actually compromising marital fidelity or adding unwanted conflicting emotional entanglements to my life. So go and enjoy yourself! [Link] |
| Sir Noel Plum Senior Studmuffin 1001 Posts 2/03 | Posted - Apr 3 2003 : 12:44PM I think this attitude about sums up the point that whilst masturbation is no real substitute for sex with a partner, neither is sex with a partner a real substitute for 'shaking great white coconuts from the veiny pink love tree'. [Link] |
| RobHammer Independent Producer San Jose, CA 444 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Apr 5 2003 : 1:07AM It doesn't effect our sex life together, and probably helps. Masturbation is like training for the real event. I've always had a strong libido. Some days I can come out of the shower after my 5 minute perfunctory start the day session and jump her bones. Or come home for a little midday fun and still be ready for an extended session in the evening. Keeping it on the edge for an hour or so with a movie or multiple orgasms with two or three pops isn't unusual. [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 7 2003 : 7:52PM Earlier in this thread I wrote: This may not be an issue for you, or for anyone else reading this thread, but I want to be clear that this quote does not come from any "theoretical" knowledge of mine, but rather comes from knowledge gleaned through my personal experience. At times in MY life, porn has served as an escape from intimacy rather than as another path to pleasure. Falling into that trap -- which, I've learned, can be surprisingly easy to do, without one's realizing it, especially when one's relationship is going through tough times -- has never solved any of my relationship problems, or made me more whole, or made me (or my wife) any happier.Quite the opposite. [Link] |
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