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Matt47
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417 Posts
1/04
Posted - Jun 30 2004 : 5:59PM
OK, so this may be old hat for others here, but it was a first for me. I have been ardently trying to get my wife to express her sexuality, to show some initiative and curiousity and part of my method is to be more expressive in my sexuality. On Friday evening I expressed my horniness, that I would be naked and waiting for her in the bedroom, seductively speaking, and if she does not wish join me I would start without her. Well, I had to start without her. I guess she just was not in the mood, but eventually came to bed while I was masturbating right in front of her. I have never done this before with her, I even asked if she minded or should I excuse myself to another room. She said I was fine, but I don't know how much she actually paid attention to me. I was quite enthusiastic during my little session, even going so far as to use a finger in my ass, but she kind of just nodded off to sleep. Ah well, it was fun, it was a big accomplishment for me to share that and I told her she can share her side with me at any time.

Any similar stories from members here? Ladies, what would be your reaction?

Manetho71
Member

185 Posts
9/02
Posted - Jun 30 2004 : 8:11PM
I'm a big fan of that and have found that most of the women I've known have been fans of that as well.
DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Jun 30 2004 : 8:15PM
Matt,

There is also this thread which discusses masturbating while someone is watching, which may or may not be your partner.

DenverDon

seattle
Member

57 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jun 30 2004 : 8:41PM
I like watching girls masturbating.

Occasionally, on my lucky day, I am also allowed to masturbate in front of her.

Well, that being to jerk off and shoot all over her face after having received a blowjob.
Technically the last seconds are masturbating.

Oh happy days, so rare...

Coyote
Member

Daylight Savings Time, is it really Necessary?
972 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jun 30 2004 : 9:40PM
I've never really done it in front of a partner other than to finish. I did have on GF when I was younger that wanted some help on how to do it. I felt sort of shy and embarrassed but I was younger. I haven't had to do it since but I'm sure I would be much more comfortable now.
 
bigbadwolf16669
Deactivated User

387 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jul 1 2004 : 1:55AM
Whats the point ? we guys jerk off enough when where alone when we have a women we dont wanna jerk it off we want to fuck.
shelby69
Member

36 Posts
4/04
Posted - Jul 1 2004 : 1:54PM
The first time I got to see my bf masturbate was about a year ago and I have since developed a bit of a liking for it. Something about seeing HIS hand on His cock is an enormous turn on for me.......and just recently I have returned the favor for him....he loves to watch me pleasure myself......very erotic for both of us I must say!!!
Matt47
Member

417 Posts
1/04
Posted - Jul 1 2004 : 4:21PM
Your fella is very lucky, shelby! I am envious...
bigbadwolf16669
Deactivated User

387 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jul 1 2004 : 11:50PM
What do you girl like about seeing a guy jerking off ? lol why jerking it off when he can put it in onw of your holes ? loll
shelby69
Member

36 Posts
4/04
Posted - Jul 2 2004 : 1:37AM
What do I like about seeing a guy jerk off? Well, where do I begin, lol. I guess I will have to start with, I like to watch the physical changes that the cock and testicles undergo prior to orgasm, I can get an up close and personal view if I lie between his legs. I can concentrate on what I am seeing without having the distraction of being physically stimulated. And finally, it gives me a GREAT mental image for when he cums inside me, having seen what that feels like......now that I have got myself all hot just thinking about it......hope that answers your question bigbadwolf.....lol

Edited by - shelby69 on 7/2/2004 1:38:56 AM

Ellis
Member

43 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jul 2 2004 : 2:19AM
......Getting yourself off in front of your partner....its like you enter a whole new level in the relationship....you are exposing (literally) yourself to your partner, and this makes you kind of vulnerable.....you have to be very secure with each other......lots of men and women are very nervous to show this intimate side. I remember reading an interview about a certain porn star......she would have all kinds of sex with the set crew present, but she had yet to perform a masturbation scene , and she requested a closed set for this scene, so I guess that goes to show that not all people are comfortable doing this in front of someone.
I found through personal experience, that by doing this....it can be a great motivational tool for your partner, and I enjoy watching too!(Shelby has some good points to ponder).....nothing like watching a woman pleasuring herself......E
bigbadwolf16669
Deactivated User

387 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jul 4 2004 : 7:24PM
I only jerk off once in a while watching a porn movie,but im not the kind of guy that dont get womens,I like seeing a girl playing with her pussy get get me hard but for me to play with my dick,I never had a girl asking me to do that anyway,i think theres enough jerking off alone when you dont havr a partner loll
kinetic rest
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ramble on
76 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jul 4 2004 : 7:34PM
yeah? seems to be popular with girls i've known. I like
to jerk off in front of her. I really like to watch her masturbate while I masturbate. I have known some girls that think we men are fucked up
for jerkin' off. to that I say "then you do it for me":)
bigbadwolf16669
Deactivated User

387 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jul 7 2004 : 4:33PM
lol the only time a girl would see me play with my dick would be if i was watching a good porno lol but i dont watch porno with a girl,i do that alone.
kinetic rest
Member

ramble on
76 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jul 11 2004 : 10:25AM
hey Matt47, earlier post I was messin' with the BBW, so anyway...
I had a girlfriend(not my current girl) who came by my house
wearin' only a long coat, she walked into the foyer and dropped the coat to the floor, and went to the livingroom sat on the couch and started to fondle herself. naturally I was thinking POUNCE but she wouldn't let me touch her,
just watch and I began to masturbate too, what a tease that was, it had me so hot watching her bring herself off. it was a good day to say the least.

also I'd like to say that I didn't try to push her boundaries,( I never cross someone's line) I just went with her flow. If she suggested something or denied something then those where the rules.

next time you try it suggest to her some things to join her in:)

 
kinetic rest
Member

ramble on
76 Posts
11/03
Posted - Jul 11 2004 : 11:59PM
*poof*
Siciliano_Sausage
Member

36 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jul 12 2004 : 1:15AM
I think it's a turn on if a honey get's off on watching you fuck yourself,ha ha.



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