I've always been interested in learning about different masturbation techniques and thought I would post mine since (as far as I know) they seem to be a bit different. I would love to hear about any other techniques any of you guys might have. And that doesn't just go for the guys.. I would love to hear from any women out there too.
#1 I like to put my thumb on top of my cock and my other 4 fingers on the bottom and sort of knead the skin back and forth. I generally do this right up until the point of orgasm then I switch to the usual up and down fist technique. Is this unusual? I've never heard of anyone using it before.
#2 With 1 hand, I hold the skin on my cock tight at the base, then I pump my cock in and out of my lubed up fist. I find this technique much more pleasurable than with loose skin.
#3 This is a little more exotic. First I sit down in a reclining office type chair (I put down towels of course) with my butt just barely hanging off the edge. Then put my feet up on the edge of the bed and spread my legs so as to give me full access to my ass. I then insert a butt plug and with 1 hand pump it in and out of my ass while I use technique #1 on my cock. Unfortunately, without something to catch the cum, this one can be quite messy. Sometimes I end up with cum in my face and hair.
#4 This one is exactly the same as #3 only instead of a butt plug, I use my middle finger. I insert it into my ass as far as I can until I find my 'sensitive spot' and begin wiggling my finger around while I contract my sphincter muscles. This one just feels amazing. I've almost orgasmed just from the anal play alone.
3 and 4 are a bit more involved but they really do the trick. They're great after a hard day at work. Take a shower then sit back for a half hour or more and have fun.
Try sucking on the head of your dick, while jacking off, and if you are really "bendy" and don't have a problem holding your dick in your mouth without help from your free hand. Ram a couple of fingers in your ass.
This is funny, I use your methods 1 and 3. I find the lube dulls the orgasm so I wipe it off before I cum. The butt plug is good if you're going for distance.
I bought a silicone masturbator sleave and it's great. The only problem is that the feeling is too intense. I can't use it and watch porn at the same time. It has to be one or the other. The sleave is fantastic when you're traveling. If you don't have access to porn it magnifies the affect of your imagination.
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Posted - Mar 15 2002 : 5:49PM
I sit on my hand till it gets numb, so I can pretend it´s another person´s hand. Painting your fingernails also helps.
It is possible to get carpal tunnel syndrome or some other repetitive motion injury. The same sort of thing people get if they crochet too much or type too much. You might also have gotten it from some other repetitive motion like that.
If you have symptoms, you can see if wearing a wrist brace (from a drugstore) overnight helps. And try to avoid the exact same movement over and over. Keep your hands a little looser, without as much tension in them, switch off hands, do a wide variety of techniques. You might also cut back a bit on the activity. Take B-complex vitamins or a multi. These things can help if it's repetitive motion injury.
Also, use some lube. Wetness increases sensitivity and allows you to use gentler strokes.
Here's some of my favorite links for things you can do with your hands. Adding variety will reduce the repetitive fatigue. These have been posted before on numerous threads, so you might have seen them before.
What I found out that if u currently use a toy to assist with masterbation, try using your hands instead (after using the toy for at least 3-4 weeks) and I have gotten a slightly above orgasm.
Just to add my 2 cents, having a mirror nearby somehow greatly increases the fun factor. For some reason, see youself in this activity can be a great turn-on, almost like watching yourself in a home movie.
I also own a butt plug and 7" dildo, used from time to time with great results. Sitting on the floor, with the mirror in front of you, you can watch this all going on in your ass, and also catch your own gape. Hope that is not too much info...
I can cum without touching my dick! shove something up the ass and pull it in and out, got to go up as far as it can go,, with me your looking at 4 inches works well, no cum at all! weird
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There are many guys who can ejaculate solely by prostate stimulation administered anally by finger, by dildo/butt plug, or by the real thing! You uptight str8 types just don't know what you are missing.
There are some of us straight guys, GaySatyr, who have been "liberated" in that aspect and able to enjoy it to the full! :) Of course, we could end up be shunned by the rest of the straight guy population...
I did say "you uptight str8 types," Matt47. There are many str8 guys who are very liberated and at one with their bodies and their sexuality. Too bad all aren't: there might be a lot less homophobia in the world. Enjoying anal stimulation isn't about being homosexual; it's about discovering and enjoying ones own body.
hey! i might not be gay, or see guys "Sexy" and the like, but if i got fucked by a guy, i might actually enjoy it! you just "go with the flow, and enjoy..." forget whos pounding you up the ass.......
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Hell, I just look at porn and jerk off. The physical part of wanking is so not an issue compared to the mind fuck you can get by looking at increasingly erotic images and vids, whilst you play with it to the point of an intense orgasm. The best is when I've been looking at porn for about an hour and a half, then finally let go, maximum intensity. Sometimes it's diminishing returns, so I just give in and get it over with.
Have tried ass play and other stuff, but that's old. It's all in the mind.
Ugh, now I'm quoting myself. Anyway, if I get in the shower after playing with myself for a while and looking at porn, a soapy hand can make me pop in about 10 seconds. (Mine OR my wife's hand...)
I stumbled upon this thread by accident really. I am just getting into porn dvd watching, and it has really enhanced my masturbatory pleasure. Yet that doesn't mean I don't still enjoy a little pleasure without the need for a DVD or magezine. Last night I shaved my pubic area almost completely. It made my cock (which is about 5 and 3 quater inches in length) look really big, and my resulting orgasm was superb. Also I have begun to shoot further recently after holding back and squeezing the tip to stop myself cumming, then relaxing the muscles with a jerk of my hips, and my cum can shoot over a metre in distance! Now after doing that over several weeks, at each masturbation, my cum seems to shoot out easier now and without much effort from myself.
My old flame used to like to lie sideways on my left side and wrap her legs around mine. She would put her arm under my neck and place her other hand over her heart and feel my heart while I whack off to a video. She would love to whisper filthy things to egg me on. She gets so excited and sqeeze me harder when she sees me spurting my sperm. Rubbing it around with her fingers in little circles, she would bring it up to nose and smell it. Then lick it off each finger sensuously with several swipes of her sexy tongue while looking evilly into my eyes. Satisfied, she brings her face closer to mine and whispers, "I love you."
Then she went out and told everybody what I did!!!
Hmmmmm......the original post did ask for info from both sexes and I have not seen anything from the ladies yet.....are we shy on this topic or just not interested?? I am not too shy and am very interested so here goes...... You have it right abradarba,The mental stimulus varies from a reading particularly good erotica, watching a good fuck scene, or the best is simply to recall the last time my bf and I had sex. A stratgically placed pillow is also required, although I have had to use other things, like a rolled up coat. Just so long as I have something to get a hold of, squeeze and grind.........My current "toy of the week" is a real booster to the over-all effect. It is the "Insatiable G" and has two vibrating bullets, so I get both internal and external stimulation. With new batteries I can go from 0 to 60 in about 2 minutes if I want to.....not that I always want to ......What a great way to relax and fall asleep
Do a google search for "silicone masturbation sleeve" or "sex toy" and see how many of the 10,000,000,000,000 hits you get look interesting. Also note that this place has a SEX TOYS area with reviews (which is how I got here in the first place).
Consider a Fleshlight. It's relatively cheap, well made (provided you take reasonable care of it) and well-regarded. It ain't much to look at, but that's what magazines and movies are for.
actually, my favorite technique never seem to show up much on lists. It's simply a start and stop method. You don't even have to bring yourself to the brink (though that helps)--just try and stretch the session out a good long time. I find that when I've done that, the payoff is terrific. And it's a very good technique for surfing the net or chatting on chatrooms or IRC, when there are ebbs and flows in the stimulii.
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Posted - Jul 23 2004 : 12:37AM
yeah, i love shoving my fingers up my asshole and banging myself hard while im frigging my dick (and mind you its always pointed st8 at my happy face, awaiting its snowy cream!!). all guys need to bang their prostates.
Hi, i have difficulties to come, it takes too much time before i can come.... I need some toys in order to come quickly, it doesn't matter if in a few minutes....it's better for me to come as soon as possible...
I have just recently found out that the longer you hold your ejaculation, the more cum you will shoot. This is hard sometimes because most of us masturbate while watching movies, specially your favorite star. I also found out that I ejaculate way sooner if I masturbate but I don't seen to have that problem when having sex. Is there a problem here?
Find a J/O partner on here, trade pics and vids of stars...u won't want to cum because u will want to see more. Have stroking contests and that....u will go for ages.
Just a little tip I wanted to share - best slippery stuff for j/o - and I have tried EVERTYTHING. Anyway.... best stuff...ya...
Hawaiian Tropic Dark Tanning Oil in the brown bottle with gold label. (not the lotion - make sure it says "dark tanning oil")
It's just the right mix of slippery without being SLICK like the bottled water-glycerin or the silicone/dimethicone lubes from the store.
Smells nice and it warms to the touch. Bonus! Self hi-five! Huzzah!
Just freaking get a bottle next time you are at the store ok? It's the best 6 bucks you will ever spend.
Later...
Unicorn.
P.S One of these days I'll share a funny story about SUNLIGHT Dishwashing soap (the stuff is pure LYE - my dick blew up to the size of my forearm - couldnt pee for 3 days - I was 14 - can you say TERROR? explain THAT to mom. yeah.)
Ah, that brings back affectionate memories of this story, which I posted almost 2 years ago on another thread:Edited by - lindi on 9/27/2004 12:17:09 PM
I should clarify - this is the stuff I mean - no SPF - just oils - here's a link. Fellas - I'm not a shill for them or on their marketing team - I've just been using it for the last 15 years - NOTHING comes close (no pun intended)
Link below: the bottle is pictured in the link below.
For us aging strokers, I tried a cock ring for the first time last week. What the fuck was I waiting for?
Over time, I had found myself needing to put pressure on the base of my cock to maintain hardness during ejaculation. Don't laugh young punks... you will get your turn BTW, If you pay attention, you see porn studs doing it too (ex: Ron Jeremy). In any event, the cock ring helps apply the pressure for you so you can do more stroking :)
So far, this seems to work the best: * start jerking-off like normal * lube up when you're ready to bring it home * slide cock ring on lubed cock (don't try putting it on an erect dry cock) * blast off :)
I really don't like wearing it until I'm ready to pop. I also don't like lube (less lube = more friction). But, with the cock ring keeping it hard, the lube allows me to really yank on it like when I was younger. This is a good thing.
watching a porn sitting comfortably i can control it up on average 30-40 minutes but if i stop for a minutes i can go longer if i sit and pump it 5-10 minutes but where is the fun that talk about anti climax
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Posted - Feb 13 2002 : 9:28PM