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SashaGrey Member 472 Posts 7/06	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 2:37AM I was wondering why guys not just porn guys mind you, why they don’t want to shower or at least rinse off after having a classic fuck session with some palatable privileged lady? the fuck junkie ♠ [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 3:34AM Well, for starters, we usually aren't trained to the same standard of cleanliness as women are. Besides that, many guys are knocked out by their hormones after sex, so they don't want to move. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 3:40AM I always wash my dick after wanking or sex, cold water to cool it down, plain old fashioned soap (body wash would be gay you know...). [Link]
Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 3:42AM I think a lethargy comes over men after orgasm that doesn't affect most women. There's a reason it's a standing joke that men fall asleep immediately after coming. I think they can't help it. Sasha, if you experience female ejaculation, you might feel this instant need for slumber. The dozen-or-so times I've ejaculated during orgasm (I'm not going to debate the composition of the ejaculate), I've been overwhelmed by sleepiness immediately following. I've had to mentally kick myself in the ass to get out of bed and clean up before nodding off. [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 3:59AM Pagoda wrote: I think a lethargy comes over men after orgasm that doesn't affect most women. There's a reason it's a standing joke that men fall asleep immediately after coming. I think they can't help it. Click to expand It's not a universal response, but it is one of the two most common ones. The other is the need to eat. [Link]

croy Platinum Member Discovry 4574 Posts 3/04	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 5:42AM And get a martini or gimlet. [Link]
melpster Member 582 Posts 5/05	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 7:05AM I always have to pee right after. [Link]
TonyC Comstock Films 2523 Posts 8/03	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 7:19AM Why don't I want to shower? Cuz I like wallowing in cunt grease, that's why. Comstock Films:Real Life, Real People, Real Sex [Link]
john thomas Deactivated User 1168 Posts 6/06	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 8:27AM It's when you're in the shower that she steals your wallet. Best not to risk it. [Link]
TonyC Comstock Films 2523 Posts 8/03	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 8:29AM melpster wrote: I always have to pee right after. Click to expand That's what rubber sheets are for. [Link]
SashaGrey Member 472 Posts 7/06	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 9:05AM TonyC wrote: melpster wrote: I always have to pee right after. Click to expand That's what rubber sheets are for. Click to expand ah yes i do love me some rubber sheets. the fuck junkie ♠ [Link]
licker Senior Member Heretic, Iconoclast, Skeptic 1141 Posts 8/03	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 10:01AM I'm more likely to shower before sex. I would expect a woman to feel insulted if I immediately jumped in the shower to wash all traces of her from my body. Sex is not unclean, and the scents it leaves on you can be erotic. The next morning when you get up is soon enough to shower. [Link]
Cumwhipper Senior Member 4050 Posts 3/04	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 10:09AM SashaGrey wrote: ...why they don’t want to shower or at least rinse off after having a classic fuck session with some palatable privileged lady? Click to expand The more classic the fuck session and the more palatable the lady, the less inclined I am to shower! The leftover traces often act as an aphrodisiac to my next date (and I need all the help I can get). [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 11:50AM licker wrote: I'm more likely to shower before sex. Click to expand Me too. I would expect a woman to feel insulted if I immediately jumped in the shower to wash all traces of her from my body. Click to expand Me too. I also love to bask in her post-nookie scents. After sex, I feel very close my partner and usually want to cuddle; I wouldn't want to break the connection by getting up and letting her go. At the same time, if my partner said I stunk from the effort of fucking her and needed to rinse off in order to be cuddle-able, of course I'd hit the showers. [Link]
ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 5:23PM most sex occurs before bed, or at least IN bed, doesn't it? it's natural to just drift off to sleep after and shower the next morning. i shower if i'm going out later in the day. but not if i'm wanting to sleep. [Link]

skronker Notable Legendary Icon Scopophiliac 9780 Posts 9/02	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 5:48PM Hey man, smell my finger! Quick wash-up is desirable. Not a shower though. Unless it's a two-fer. I don't know why. I just like sticky girlie goo I guess. [Link]
budtugley Senior Member One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04	Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 6:13PM I'm with licker. Showering before sex is a good idea and showering with each other is a great idea. There's something very erotic about running warm soapy hands all over your partner, caressing the special spots, hugging, cuddling, and kissing each other, then having your partner run his or her warm soapy hands all over your body too. Lust rolls around and once dried off, let the love-making begin. [Link]
NYLONIC Member Europe 26 Posts 5/06	Posted - Nov 22 2006 : 6:04AM it depends on what time of the day i have fucked.i wash or take a shower if i fucked on day but sometimes when u fuck at night u just want to sleep after sex... [Link]
RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06	Posted - Nov 22 2006 : 5:24PM Well, I can't answer for all guys. Just myself. There are usually a few reasons all packed into one. 1. I'm lazy. 2. A shower isn't something I do for relaxation. I do it because I have to every now and then. It's a chore. I want to relax and enjoy the afterglow after sex. 3. I use a good antiperspirant so the parts of me that have the potential to smell the worst are taken care of. 4. I like to keep the smell of sex on my hands. It's weird, I know but I don't care. 5. I'd rather have a cigarette and something to eat and drink. 6. I can shower anytime. I can only have that special feeling right after sex. [Link]
Corben99 Member Deep South Texas 146 Posts 11/06	Posted - Nov 23 2006 : 12:10AM SashaGrey wrote: I was wondering why guys not just porn guys mind you, why they don¡¯t want to shower or at least rinse off after having a classic fuck session with some palatable privileged lady? the fuck junkie ¢¼ Click to expand Hey Sasha, This is my first post. I'm new here. But I felt I had to chime in a little here. First of all be thankful the human race does not still live in the era of the great unwashed. Back then it was a sin to wash. It was against the church. There were even chairs that had potting soil in them and planted with mint sprigs, just to keep the guests smelling nicely. That's right a small garden under your butt at the dinner table. And as for men not washing after a classic fuck session I guess it would depend greatly on enviromental conditions. Such as humidity. Cold weather vs. Hot. etc. etc. If a guy feels clean, he's just not going to wash. Most modern men would rather cuddle with the young lady, right after sex, than run off to go wash. Case in point, my ex girlfriend would run to wash up, right after I would cum on her belly. She would take a 30 minute shower, and then come back to bed. And just sleep on her side, and not want to cuddle. ( I wanted to cuddle. ) Hence the ex part. I think sex, is nasty, disgusting, dirty, naughty, evil, and just plain bad. And that's the way it should be. If your boyfriend has more than 2 grades of laundry, he's not gonna shower with you after a little nookie. If you really want to be 100% sure he's gonna wash up. Try finding a Japanese Samurai warrior. Those guys washed with plenty of hot water. But the ladies did all the scrubbing. :)~ You want a big penis in your mouth? ----Ron Jeremy [Link]
Tom Choad Member Mug shot performance artist 209 Posts 8/05	Posted - Nov 23 2006 : 7:42AM Joey Starr wrote: I always wash my dick after wanking or sex, cold water to cool it down, plain old fashioned soap (body wash would be gay you know...). Click to expand Guilty as charged! I do exactly the same thing... afterwards, I just fall asleep (in bed, not the john) [Link]
zorge Member 278 Posts 8/06	Posted - Nov 24 2006 : 2:49AM Unless there's some "watersports" involved, there's probably nobody itchin' to run to the shower afterwards, in my experience. I'm usually not inclined to run to the shower after sex. [Link]
married_lucky Deactivated User 202 Posts 11/06	Posted - Dec 14 2006 : 9:44AM At night, with the wife just before bed, we both fall a sleep and shower in the morning. But most other times I like to shower after. And on "swing" night we shower a lot. After I cum in someone's wife we both shower and rejoin the mix. We like it clean. [Link]
greg Member Thinking real hard about Katsirk 793 Posts 12/06	Posted - Dec 15 2006 : 7:23AM To be honest I have never even considered washing afterwards. I like to be clean prior and I want the same from her. I have always wanted her not to run to wash up or shower right after the moment either. Maybe it is as simple as the organ being external for men. I really want her to keep all of me in her. It is like kissing I would never want to have bad breath, but the last thing I would consider afterward is rinsing my mouth because we exchanged body fluids or I tasted her body. I think men are more sentimental than the typical stereotype. Personally after finishing inside her, my ideal thought is that she be very happy about my stuff being inside her. She does not have to have a party with my seed but I want to think her first idea is not to purge or discard it as well. I understand in a one night stand it would be different but I think sex with you partner should be that way. But they always go wash up afterwards or shower. Maybe my ideas are not practical for a woman and the hygiene issue is a bigger deal for them. I only claim my ideal, to be just an ideal with 100% assurance, and I am no expert for sure. But the fairy tell life has her wanting to cuddle with no regard to wash. [Link]
katsirk Member Crush on Greg....mmm 812 Posts 7/06	Posted - Dec 15 2006 : 8:09AM Tom Choad wrote: Joey Starr wrote: I always wash my dick after wanking or sex, cold water to cool it down, plain old fashioned soap (body wash would be gay you know...). Click to expand Guilty as charged! I do exactly the same thing... afterwards, I just fall asleep (in bed, not the john) Click to expand My husband always does, even after "licked clean". [Link]

married_lucky Deactivated User 202 Posts 11/06	Posted - Dec 15 2006 : 8:53AM Maybe it's just me but I don't shower to wash off her fluids...it's my sweat. Unless it's a quickie, and I cum in 5 minutes, then it's cool. When you have been fucking for a half hour, 45 minutes like you have something to prove....you get sweaty and a shower it a nice break before you switch for round two or three. [Link]
katsirk Member Crush on Greg....mmm 812 Posts 7/06	Posted - Dec 15 2006 : 8:54AM married_lucky wrote: Maybe it's just me but I don't shower to wash off her fluids...it's my sweat. Unless it's a quickie, and I cum in 5 minutes, then it's cool. When you have been fucking for a half hour, 45 minutes like you have something to prove....you get sweaty and a shower it a nice break before you switch for round two or three. Click to expand Right on, good for you two! [Link]
married_lucky Deactivated User 202 Posts 11/06	Posted - Dec 15 2006 : 3:22PM back atcha. [Link]
Cuddly Wombat Senior Member Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04	Posted - Dec 16 2006 : 1:45PM I always get up (after much post-sex cuddling) and have a wee (the body's inbuilt natural response to avoid catching STDs) and then a quick shower and a drink. Then more sex, cuddling, then a wee, a short bath, drink, then sex, cuddling, a wee, a jump in the pool, then sex, a wee, a drink ... [Link]
married_lucky Deactivated User 202 Posts 11/06	Posted - Dec 16 2006 : 2:01PM No clean-up allowed is a porn thing...... ...not a swinging thing. It's my opinion that porn is almost entirely male oriented(made for males to jerk off alone)... ...where-as swinging is almost always very female oriented with maximum effort going into the woman's satisfaction and comfort...it being the only reward for her participation. Edited by - married_lucky on 12/16/2006 8:09:15 PM [Link]
scipio Senior Member 1901 Posts 2/00	Posted - Dec 17 2006 : 7:33AM Hardware wrote: It's not a universal response, but it is one of the two most common ones. The other is the need to eat. Click to expand I always have one or the other. Or both - ie if I'm in the falling-asleep mode and I get up to take a leak (before my bladder explodes) I'll often wake up, and then the hunger kicks in... [Link]
Ricola Member Mars 66 Posts 4/06	Posted - Dec 18 2006 : 9:21PM My wife and I never shower right after, unless it was a quickie before we were planning to go out. Usually, unless we're up very late and tired, we'll lay there and chat some, and maybe go again. I love it when she goes down on me while I'm still wearing our juices. I'm sure to be "up and at 'em" again if she does that! [Link]
uglybull Member 14 Posts 12/06	Posted - Dec 20 2006 : 12:12PM I give it a quick rinse then hop back into bed. The bathroom is right there it takes all of 10 seconds. Not so much a shower because I do that to get myself ready to go out and about for my day or whatever. I like to get back to her ASAP. [Link]
sphonebell Member 43 Posts 12/06	Posted - Dec 22 2006 : 10:48AM That's sck [Link]

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