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| Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07 |  Posted - Jan 27 2009 : 6:14PMI heard a news story saying that men shaving their pubic hair is now the norm, at least for younger men, and that young women who get with a man who doesn't are "grossed out." Is this true? I knew it was in porn, but I didn't know it had translated into everyday life. I wouldn't know personally, unfortunately. [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Jan 27 2009 : 8:08PM [Link] |
| Macko69 Senior Member Gone for a walk. 1985 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Jan 27 2009 : 9:15PM If you decide to do this, you may find that the first couple of times you shave it, your skin may get irritated and itchy. Putting some kind of moisturizing lotion or after shave balm on it right after you shave may help a little. Edited by - macko69 on 1/27/2009 10:23:04 PM [Link] |
| Mutatis Member 151 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Jan 27 2009 : 11:46PM As for right now, I'm not planning on doing anything. . . it doesn't seem that thick, especially compared to some guys I've seen from 7s porn. But if a chick ever says she would rather it be shaved (fingers crossed and God willing), it will be done and done. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 3:30AM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 9:52AM [Link] |
| realtip Deactivated User 2301 Posts 6/04 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 1:39PM Personally, I think that even porn guys take the shaving thing too far. Most of them just end up looking like depilated prepubescent boys. Besides, who in the real world has time for all that? I'm always already rushing just to get through everything else I have to do to groom myself everyday. And I thought flossing was time-consuming.This reminds me of some funny dialogue I heard in a movie once (can't remember which movie). A guy is telling his buddy about a date he's going on that night. The buddy tells the guy that he should put cologne on his balls. When the guy asks why, his buddy tells him that if a woman is going to put her face down there, then the cologne makes it more appealling to her. Then, in the following scene that takes place after the date, the woman is talking to her girlfriend. In a tone of utter disgust, the woman asks her girlfriend, "Is it normal for guys to put cologne on their balls?" Basically, I don't think women really expect guys to shave their body hair. I just think it's one of those ways that perhaps porn has affected what guys think women like. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 2:08PM My current gf and previous gf's have orgasmed during missionary much easier when I'm shaved. They explained it to me, its the friction of my skin on there pubic bone, this stimulates the clit and gets them off, when you are all hairy you lose this friction. You have to try and sort of drag the area just above your cock against the area just above your girls clit! it's not the penetration part of sex that gets them off , it's the friction on the pubic bone! I so love making by gf cum during actual sex, rather than foreplay, and she loves it too, shaving is such a simple way to increase the pleasure of sex! I'd add that it's aslo important that your girl is shaven too! [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 2:53PM I like it just fine :)Really? In my experience that hurts like hell. I always hated it when guys tried to grind the base of their penis upwards towards my clit. It felt like it was tearing me down below and crushing me up above. No good side to that one. Almost always left me feeling like my urethra was irritated, too. Different strokes for different folks. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 3:22PM [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 10:38PM [Link] |
| Jeff Stryker Member 16 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Jan 29 2009 : 1:01PM [Link] |
| Macko69 Senior Member Gone for a walk. 1985 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Jan 29 2009 : 1:15PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Jan 29 2009 : 1:24PM ,-) I use it on my face and I'll never buy shaving foam/cream again. [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Jan 29 2009 : 4:08PM Edited by - JohnW on 1/29/2009 4:09:40 PM [Link] |
| realtip Deactivated User 2301 Posts 6/04 | Posted - Jan 29 2009 : 6:01PM I think that shaving body hair is still mainly a feminine thing. But perhaps I'm just old-fashioned that way. [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Jan 30 2009 : 7:49AM Looks nicer Out of respect for a female that hopefully in my lifetime might be going down there. Just feels better too. Edited by - sickguy on 2/1/2009 11:34:56 PM Edited by - sickguy on 2/1/2009 11:36:31 PM [Link] |
| sdc Member 236 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Feb 1 2009 : 5:40AM [Link] |
| spiralcloud Member 15 Posts 12/08 | Posted - Feb 2 2009 : 7:00AM It looks cleaner, nicer and... BIGGER! :-))) I think is nice and respectful as well... you don't want to look like a monkey! I also trim my armpits. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Feb 2 2009 : 10:49AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Feb 2 2009 : 1:23PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Feb 2 2009 : 1:32PM Hear hear! She probably won't want you to have hair down there either [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Feb 8 2009 : 6:44AM [Link] |
| zzaphod42 Member 13 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Feb 10 2009 : 2:42PM 1) It looks bigger 2) It feels better 3) The less hair down there, the more oral attention I receive from my wife From random talks with other guy friends, almost all have shaved at one point in time, and well over half still do. My friends and I are mostly late 20's/ early 30's [Link] |
| cochise Member You gonna pull them pistols or whistle dixie? 238 Posts 12/03 | Posted - Feb 11 2009 : 3:37AM Dr. Evil Edited by - cochise on 2/11/2009 3:44:28 AM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Feb 11 2009 : 4:34PM [Link] |
| SierraSkye Member I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3 344 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Feb 11 2009 : 9:13PM xoxo, Sierra [Link] |
| zzaphod42 Member 13 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Feb 12 2009 : 8:13AM I think it initially started with one who has somewhat low self-esteem wanting confirmation that he was not a freak because he shaved his nether regions. That sparked the topic and since then it is something that occasionally comes up in conversation. [Link] |
| Odius Maximus New Member 1 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Feb 12 2009 : 11:59AM (I'm not a speed swimmer or anything like that, but I thought, if I'm going to shave those nether regions, might as well shave my arm pits, too, huh? I love my facial hair, though... my genes have allowed me to never deal with a beard! Makes it easy to take off when I need to, or feel like it. :)) Last year, I did let it grow out for about three months... I am a long haired dude, and yeah... I like the hirsute look somewhat too. But I'm back to the alternating method for the moment. This time, I am thinking of leaving some hair trimmed above my joystick and nutsack. We'll see. I've never done that before. Odius Maximus, Lick Master... [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Mar 2 2009 : 3:55AM [Link] |
| Mumbler New Member 1 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Mar 31 2009 : 5:17PM I am 44 year old male and started shaving down below about 6 months ago. I always wanted my wife to shave herself bare but she always had ingrown hair issues. Have always been a big believer in if you can’t do it yourself, don’t expect others to and then got out the razor and went for it shaving everything bare. Never had any ingrown hairs and to be honest, it felt pretty darn good but at the same time, cannot say I entirely liked the look on me so I let it grow back again. While it was growing back, there was a bit of itching but nothing too dramatic however the main point for me was that I thought everything looked nicer trimmed as opposed to bare. Bit of research and 6 months later, I shave bare around the nether regions and shaft which feels good and trim close over the top which to me, looks good. Occasionally I do something similar to the airstrip just for a change of scenery. I’m happy with where I’m at and my wife has not complained and as an aside, she has not given me a BJ for years now, not her thing, so that was never really a motivating factor for me to do this. I have helped her shave on occasion since then with different tools of trade but she still has the ingrown hair issue. As careful as I have been, and I do believe that I am very careful, we are both agreed that perhaps her hair follicle and skin type combination mean that probably only a specific shaving instrument would allow her to do this successfully and without irritation. One day. Been interesting getting to this point in terms of learning tips and tricks and as of now, I am happy with my current look down there which requires about 5 minutes maintenance twice a week. I’m currently dry shaving which works fine for me. Cheers [Link] |
| love_that_porn Member 246 Posts 9/08 | Posted - Mar 31 2009 : 8:11PM I trim my pubes but haven't shaved. My girlfriend appreciates that there's less pubes that find their way into her mouth while BJing. Don't think I'll ever go back to having a full growth. [Link] |
| Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Apr 1 2009 : 8:51PM 1) I noticed more of "today's" women I'm dating are trimming more than ever before, so I joined in. I love the look of wild hairy pussy, though. Huge turn-on. I use a beard trimmer and keep it about 1/4" thick, without being artistic. 2) The older we get, our hair everywhere loses its oily-ness and becomes more scraggily and dry-looking, so keeping it shorter makes it look better and can disguise our age a bit. 3) I'd rather have my balls look smooth than resemble a spikey sea urchin (dry, using a Mach 3). 4) I shave the shaft so my pubes don't act like dental floss to her teeth (dry, using a Mach 3). 5) If my pubes start going gray, I might shave to make my package look less old and undesirable. Body hair serves a lot of purposes, especially friction. Ever shave your armpits? I did once, and it was horrible. Skin kept getting caught on itself, then the stubble was irritating as hell. I don't know how women live like that. It's sucks. Just like if you shave your balls and your legs, your nutsack keeps clinging to your thighs and you're always ajusting yourself. And forget about shaving the hair in your buttcrack... That's the epitome of unpleasant when you have to start walking around. The pubes allow for "glide-ability" between surfaces AND their texture and firmness aid in stimulating your partner's privates and all the skin, in general. Ever have your lady give you a massage and her long hair lightly dances off your back or ass or brushes across your cock? That's some exiting shit. Bald pussy is usually gross, to me. [Link] |
| Ordell Deactivated User 1042 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 3 2009 : 7:34PM [Link] |
| SierraSkye Member I'm the girl your mom warned you about <3 344 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Apr 4 2009 : 10:23AM [Link] |
| shakademus Deactivated User Oi get me brain medicines on the National 'ealf 29 Posts 7/07 | Posted - Apr 4 2009 : 2:45PM [Link] |
| 7_and_a_quarter Member 163 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Apr 14 2009 : 1:53PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:36AM I doubt however that they are grossed out, unless you forgot to clean your cock or don't have good hygiene. [Link] |
| Tech Member Make me a bicycle Clown !!! 35 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:28PM "You should've never trusted hollywood..." [Link] |
| amapornfreak Member 6 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 28 2009 : 1:40AM Some guys look very hot unshaven... [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - May 1 2009 : 8:11PM [Link] |
Hardware  All-Star Member Your other left 14594 Posts 3/02 | Posted - May 1 2009 : 8:27PM Also, since hair is mostly keratin I'm leery of using any chemical that's supposed to remove it. I'm not taking a chance on what it will do to the keratin in my skin. [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - May 1 2009 : 8:30PM [Link] |
| AdamL Member 268 Posts 12/07 | Posted - May 20 2009 : 12:55AM looks and feels better without hair [Link] |
| PassionMan Member 17 Posts 10/07 | Posted - May 25 2009 : 5:56AM being among porn actors or others I can understand to keep it short or very short (at least not to let the jungle go everywhere) BUT When it's totally bald it's ugly and horrible, as somebody already said here "Most of them just end up looking like depilated prepubescent boys" and it's a disturbing idea. I think porn actors do it for their cocks to look bigger on the screen (which must be an ingredient of porn) and maybe also for hygienic reasons. I also don't like the complete shaving on women for the same reasons, and aesthetically I prefer when there's at least a bit of hair left, being shaven very short, even a thin line above the pussy, even being very hairy is better than bald. [Link] |
| Lethena Member 45 Posts 5/09 | Posted - May 26 2009 : 9:08AM The guys I've been with before him have been more or less trimmed too, if not shaved all together. I think guys are more likely to take care of their bodies today, and to trim whatever hair you have are a part of it. Not saying you must shave it all off, but not let it grow wildly. "Hi" btw, I'm new to this forum :) [Link] |
| PassionMan Member 17 Posts 10/07 | Posted - May 26 2009 : 6:05PM Anyway she also said : "more likely to take care of their bodies today". Maybe it's a part of it, I understand she didn't promote to "shave it all off [only to] not let it grow wildly", but for those who shave it all off and think it's better whatever the reason they maybe should take information (on-line encyclopedia or anywhere) on the multiple functions of hair on certain parts of the human body. [Link] |
| Lethena Member 45 Posts 5/09 | Posted - May 26 2009 : 6:36PM As for me, I don't care really..as long as he smells nice and are clean, it's no problem for me with hair. You're right though, the hair are there for a reason. [Link] |
| PassionMan Member 17 Posts 10/07 | Posted - May 26 2009 : 7:25PM I'm French so my English is not perfect and maybe I made it a bit complicated when writing that. We also agree the more important is to be clean (and I still like it, as it is so true how awful the complete shaving looks, when realtip said that taking "the shaving thing too far. Most of them just end up looking like depilated prepubescent boys"). [Link] |
| Lethena Member 45 Posts 5/09 | Posted - May 27 2009 : 3:03AM [Link] |
| fotomatt Member 78 Posts 8/08 | Posted - May 29 2009 : 4:58PM I do it for myself and for my wife, though she doesn't seem to care one way or another. Maybe she would if I let it grow back out. She'll suck me off, but won't lick my balls, which I'm dying for, but she thinks it's gross the way the ball sack looks - which is totally unfair cause I've no problem licking her pussy - and if you think about it, the balls and pussy share some similar skin characteristics. But I like my balls smooth, and she'll lube 'em up and rub them good, which is great. I started off shaving, but the itching was too much. I actually find that if I shave, and don't shave again until the hair has grown out quite a bit, that I don't have a problem with itching. But if I shave, and then shave again a few day later, it itches very bad. If I shave, I use a razor that's not new, it's safer for the blades to be a bit dull around irregular skin. My wife used to do the bikini waxing at a salon, and it left her skin very nice for a long time, so I tried doing home waxing, but that didn't work out very well for me. Too difficult to do by myself. But after waxing a bit, I had to get the strays with tweezers, and that led me to what I do now - I just tweeze the hairs out. I know that sounds crazy, but it works great and lasts several weeks at least. It's totally smooth, and the new hair that comes in doesn't itch. It takes longer to do it that way, but it's worth it to me. For the most part, it doesn't really hurt at all. I'd also like to trim my armpit hair back a bit, but I haven't figured out a good way to do it so that it still looks natural. [Link] |
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