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nightowl
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51 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 29 2007 : 5:52PM
do any other guys experience this immediately after they cum? it's as if you're mind immediately switches off anything sexual to the extent that, even if you were planning to carry on doing something kinky after cumming, you get a mental block that stops you in your tracks. would be interested to hear if anyone has experienced this and overcome it.

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Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Jun 29 2007 : 11:11PM
Bob All-Star Supporter
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5516 Posts
3/03
Posted - Jun 29 2007 : 11:14PM
Sure, just wait half an hour.
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nightowl
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51 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 4:50AM
i wonder how guys in some of the more kinky films manage to do stuff like lick up their own cum?
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Sir_Puntsalot
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49 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 9:52AM
I know the feeling.
Why is this??
Although do you find it is worse after self pleasure than when you are with a girl??
I know as soon as i cum with an escort i just want to go for another round.
Eurosluts and DAP Is Best!!!
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MissJanet
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Germany, Europe
110 Posts
3/05
Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 1:35PM
they get paid for doing it.
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jayo All-Star Supporter
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2117 Posts
7/04
Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 7:28PM
Absolutely. It's like a barrel of water is dumped on me and puts out the fire. It's that fast.
I think it's common. It's the basis of the joke about how men can roll over and fall asleep immediately afterward.
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RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 12:07AM
Always. I wouldn't call it a mental downer, however.
I view it as satisfaction. I've enjoyed myself. I've released and now I can relax and enjoy the afterglow. I wouldn't want to be perpetually horny.
The orgasm should be a stress reliever. A pressure release valve.
Edited by - randomprecision on 7/1/2007 12:08:44 AM
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conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 4:21AM
Everytime.
Some very good plans have gone unrealized due to my post-orgasm apathy.
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LubeNLuv
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1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 10:54AM
I've ZERO idea what you guys are talking about. I have the ability to be multi-orgasmic as does my wife. I can have both wet (ejaculate) and dry orgasms. I don't have any "downers" after my orgasms of either type. Post-orgasm for me is usually filled with making out with my wife, her sucking me off to help get me ready for the next round or grabbing a drink of water....our sex is usually pretty physical.
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conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 4:27PM
Lube: I envy you this.
It. for me, is a feeling of total apathy post orgasm. I lack better words to make myself more clear.
I come and I am instantly bored. My girl isn't that happy about it but I have explained to her clearly as well.
Want me excited? Keep me excited. Any release from that personal tension is a killer in the bedroom.
Wish I was in your shoes and wish I could explain better.
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conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 4:29PM
My only advice for guys here is: DO NOT ever pick up a book in the same room where your girl is naked. She will destroy your life.
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jayo All-Star Supporter
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7/04
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 5:00PM
You could fill that elipses with anything and it will still work.
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conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 5:01PM
Oh, I know.
Jayo: you had me laughing openly. Thanks.
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jayo All-Star Supporter
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7/04
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 5:08PM
Back on topic--people are right, I wouldn't call it a "downer" either. It's like flipping a switch for me, from horny to non-horny. Horny and all I'm thinking of is sex. Then it's like a light-switch is thrown, and I'm trying to remember if I have stamps to mail out the bills.
It ties in with the guys who find their own semen fascinating. I don't. It's just a mess to clean up.
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RandomPrecision
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Enjoy!
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3/06
Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 9:55PM
Yeah. Someday, I'm gonna figure out a way to keep from getting massive clumps of cum all in my pubic hair so it doesn't take half an hour to clean up the mess. I really would like to go and have a sandwich or something instead of preening my pubes.
I dunno. It just feels wrong to prepare for masturbation and have everything all ready and then cum onto a rag or something. When you're hot and horny, you don't care where it goes. And then, 15 seconds later, you're like -
"Oh.....now why did I have to go and do that?"
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chupacabras
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161 Posts
1/03
Posted - Jul 2 2007 : 1:43PM
Yup, not a downer for me really though either, unless there is some guilt associated with the orgasm (for example, I sometimes get that watching porn). Its physical too - after shooting your load your body isn't telling you you need to release your monkey custard! Also, after i've cum, I usually find my cock is usually a bit tender too.
I'm sure 99% of men suffer the same thing, and there isn't anything you can do to change it.
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girlstrapon
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13 Posts
8/07
Posted - Aug 7 2007 : 1:52PM
That's normal. Most men (though certainly not all) lose interest in further sex play - and often get sleepy - following sex. Different body chemicals get released in men after orgasm that help promote this.
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Jholmes
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150 Posts
4/07
Posted - Sep 6 2007 : 9:15AM
"I view it as satisfaction. I've enjoyed myself. I've released and now I can relax and enjoy the afterglow. I wouldn't want to be perpetually horny.
The orgasm should be a stress reliever. A pressure release valve."
Its a spiritual experience, lay back and enjoy it :)
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JohnW
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1351 Posts
6/08
Posted - Nov 8 2008 : 4:56PM
Yes and no. The switch discourages me from doing something kinky, I've felt that. Like for example tasting my cum. But it does not turn me off from sex, masturbating or horny thoughts in general. I'm just as aroused by a pretty girl's face or body, and I can go on jerking off if I want to have another one.
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Hardware All-Star Supporter
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Your other left
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3/02
Posted - Nov 8 2008 : 10:39PM
It's basic biology - you've fulfilled your function, now you need to be prevented from screwing things up. Hunger and drowsiness are the most common mechanisms used to distract the male, but listlessness should work just as well.
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Loraine
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1559 Posts
3/04
Posted - Nov 9 2008 : 6:49AM
Such a wise man.
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ma meeshka
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3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 9 2008 : 6:58PM
it's rare, but it happens.
if it happens every time i'd see a doctor.
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10000 days
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Keep on trolling. What a bullshit! Im fucking unstoppable now ...
717 Posts
3/06
Posted - Nov 9 2008 : 11:46PM
I hate when it happens. But it does a few times a month. Usually when I'm stressed the fuck out.
I like it more when it feeds a mental as well as biological need.
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