From my perspective, I'm turned on by male genitalia - although the rest of the male body and/or package does nothing for me, so I want nothing to do with it. So a woman with a penis is kind of a great combination. Although in my personal life I'd prefer to have a woman with female genitalia, I'd also be intrigued at the specific kind of experimentation of such a unique experience. For me, personally, it's all about oral and nothing else. But that's just me.

I certainly don't think that anybody should read anything "wrong" into being turned on by transexualism. (Even if you consider homosexuality to be "wrong" - which it isn't - it still doesn't mean that you fall into that camp.)

Probably the best phrase I've heard is that you can consider yourself to be pansexual...

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Good example;
I like womyn, I'm happily married to a man and like daydreaming about TG's too.

My advice, don't worry about it. Enjoy your TV/TG videos, fantasy's are healthy and continue to enjoy your girlfriend.

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Over the last couple of years i've gradually become a hardcore TS fan, even addict..Kinda surprised me as i'd always thought of myself as perfectly straight.
While i don't subscribe to the TS admirer = gay, the fact remains you're playing around with a cock, so it isn't perfectly heterosexual behaviour either (stating the obvious perhaps, but anyway..) It's just..something different.

I don't necessarily subscribe to the 'leave it as a fantasy' argument.
Personally i've always been naturally inquisitive and highly sexed, so at a certain point (where i had been getting off to TS porn for a while) i decided i just had to experience it for real (with an escort, since i live in a country area, no tgirl bars etc.). This was about a year ago, and it was great, probably the most exciting sex i've ever had (i'm not that experienced though, it must be said). Personally, i would have hated to have been on my deathbed and 'man, i wish i'd tried a tranny'
That's overstating it rather comically, but the point is there..if the attraction exists - why not explore it, is my philosophy.
So i tried it, loved it, have been back for more. It actually re-invigorated me in a strange way, and so i can't regret exploring it, even though it has brought up some issues (the question of long term partner, would i be socially comfortable and mature enough to date a TS etc.)
Currently I do find trans more exciting than genetic girls, dunno whether this is because of the new experience of it it though..the excitement may diminish.

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But all of this was made easier for me by being single, having no attachments.
I don't know if i'm ready to settle down with one person, maybe not ever. I'm highly sexed, not particularly sociable, fairly self-centred, in short i indulge myself..so what i did, while i think it worked out ok for me, may be a mistake for someone with different priorities or personality.

So, in your situation, it really depends on your gf and your relationship. Is it worth risking the relationship to fool around? Even telling her about your fantasy may freak her out. Only you can make the final judgement about this stuff.

My $0.02
Personally i couldn't live with a girl and keep my attraction to TS a secret, it is just too big a part of my sexual life by now. I've basically avoided the issue by avoiding women and dating..maybe not a brilliant strategy, but i've never been the man about town type anyway. I'm interested in having a relationship with a TS now. If and when i do return to the regular (GG) scene, i would tell my girlfriend though, just for the sake of honesty (there's the safety issue too, if you're seeing escorts).
Put yourself in her position..if i were her i would be upset, but i would be even more devastated if my partner was doing this stuff and had kept it from me.
Trust and mutual respect/honesty, are far more important than what any sexual kinks you might have IMO.

But that's my take..maybe too idealistic for real relationships though.
I seriously do not know what i would have done if my attraction to TS developed while i was in a serious relationship. I would probably have tried to hide it as long as possible, just as you're doing.

Edited by - Sperminator on 10/14/2004 5:36:32 AM

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