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I'm getting sick of the same old wank and was just wondering if you guys had some suggestions on how I can give myself a good orgasm without using my hand?
Interesting site -- [invalid URL removed]Jackinworld.com, the king of jackin' sites. Safety info and [invalid URL removed]technique variations. Cruise around the forum, too.
Also some good stuff on Sexuality.org's [invalid URL removed]Masturbation FAQ.
Also, I'm reposting my favorite food-related suggestion:
This is the most interesting food-oriented male masturbation trick that I have run across (printed several places, but the website I got it from is now defunct):
I suggest butter as a lubricant, because afterward, you can eat the spaghetti with 'special sauce.'
I wish I did but you know...out of all the ages men have been wanking, if there was a better way, I'm sure it would have been discovered long ago.
There are SOME variations. Use a different or better lube (or try using lube if you usually do it dry). Try using your opposite hand. It feels weird and awkward at first but you can get used to it. There are some toys designed to feel like a pussy (supposedly...I've never tried one) but they can be expensive and I bet cleaning them is a pain.
Without using your hand? Unless you use one of the aforementioned toys (and probably a lot of lube), that may not be possible. Jerkin' just wasn't meant to have much variety, I guess.....
Without hands, my favorite is the baggie & the mattress method described on the site lindi mentioned. However I really like doing it with one finger by massaging the "sweet spot". I seem to have a more intense orgasm that way, as opposed to jerking the entire shaft with my hand.
I'll second this one. I find that a gentle massaging with fingers tips, esp. around the "sweet spot", is often much more intense than straight jerking off. I also enjoy lubing my hand and thrusting slowly into it (basically simulating intercourse). Never really tried any "hands-off" methods other than humping the bed (which can get rather messy and even painful).
Nothing new for hands-free, but maybe the following suggestions will make your experience seem better or newer:
Try using a buttplug, it'll make your cock even harder and generate some intense orgasms (even better if it vibrates).
Judging from some porn, many men seem to hold their breath (or take a deep one) at the moment of climax (even during it), which I think dulls the sensation. Keep breathing deeply but quickly through the orgasm and you should experience a stronger, longer climax. It would also help if you don't think about the fact that you're cumming, but simply enjoy the sensations of stroking beyond the ejaculatory period. Just keep going until it just isn't exciting anymore and keep thinking about or watching whatever got you to that point and don't lose interest in her/him/it simply because you're cumming - stay focused but opened to the moment. Over time, your ejaculations will increase in duration.
Aside from someone else's hand, I think our hands are the shit! :) If your tendency is to stroke up to the head during climax, try stroking just the lower part of the shaft while squeezing firmly. Lots of great sensations to be had down there. Pounding/slamming your penis-holding hand into your groin while doing this is quite nice.
Forplay makes a light, water-based lube that feels like massage oil (only slightly more slippery) that doesn't overslick or over coat the head of the cock which can under-stimulate its nerve endings. The less you use and the longer you stroke, the more it ends up feeling like natural sweat (only slick) which makes the whole process feel more natural.
It's interesting to use a latex glove, too.
Try cramming your nuts into a vibrating cockring and flogging them.
This takes some discipline (because the sensations are so great because the texture of our hands, as men, are typically very coarse), but something simple is to not stroke the cock during climax, but somewhat vigorously yet gently squeeze while producing a twisting motion around the head (similar to the motion of removing a cork from a champagne bottle) and just continue doing this until your neighbors call the cops or you pass out. :)
This isn't a hands free method but I've used it in the past and just recently rediscovered it. It isn't really all that creative and maybe lots of people have already tried it but I'll describe it anyway..just in case.
1. Get both of your hands and your cock lubed up.
2. put your hands together with your cock in the middle.
3. Stroke away with your hands or thrust yourself between them.
I found that this feels a lot better than one-handed stroking. Only problem is that if you're watching porn whilst doing it, you're going to get lube all over your remote (or your mouse if you watch on the PC) because you no longer have a free hand with no lube on it.
It almost feels like a pussy if you do it right. You can even use your thumbs on the head as it glides past. Feels fantastic!