Way back when I was new to the industry another performer advised me to use Orajel on my nether bits to withstand the anal scenes. I tried it a couple times, but I found it easier to relax and perform when I could actually respond to feeling something rather than being numb.
I know that a couple guys I have talked to report that if their partner uses an anal numbing creme their penis also gets numb, and that's not such a good thing.
Kimi wrote:This is very true. My gf and I actually purchased a product called 'China anal balm' which has a high benzocaine content just to try it out. I can confirm that even after waiting several minutes for it to take affect the preparation was still sufficiently potent to numb me impotence (not permanently I hasten to add).
In actual fact these products are pretty stupid. Anal sex is not supposed to hurt and if it is hurting then that pain is telling you something: you should listen, not mask it.
I really smiled when I read this. I used Orajel as a child and when I had a tooth complaint a couple of years ago I visited the chemist and attempted to purchase a tube. To my dismay the chemist didn't stock it, or really anything vaguely similar. I think you know what is coming next Yes, like you I improvised but in this case used my virtually untouched tube of 'anal balm' as an oral anaesthetic to ease the toothache! It worked beautifully.
i agree with all of you but don't forget that imagination is very important in sex..and knowing that you are wide opening your girl anus could be very exciting !!
I think that you must found a balance between no anal sex and extreme anal sex, and that anal-eze could help you at the beginning. After, when you have more practice, anal-eze is useless !
I agree with Sir Noel, if it hurts there's a reason and you need to heed it. If you numb your ass to have sex you could be damaging yourself and not realize it until it's too late.
I'd hate to go to the Doc and have to admit that not only did I have anal but I had used OralGel so I didn't realize it was ripping my ass and now I couldn't have a normal bowel movement.
Gotta agree with Luna there. I can't remember where I read it (one of the anal threads where Tricia piped in, I think?), but that was the main reason against using a numbing agent. As for them being used in movies, I seem to remember a couple Ed Powers scenes where the girls used them.