Well I guess we have some sort of confirmation there. Strange, where are all those people who were so voacl about this definitely being a hoax. Some people expressed their right to be skeptical and that was cool - but there were at least a couple who got downright vitriolic about the whole deal.
In other words somebody showed them the proof and much like a cockroach with a light flashed on them they all scurried back to their holes. Hopefully, not to be heard from again.
Kimi Lixx,Julie Night,Tina Tyler and then everyone else.
You all have to cut her some slack...read her blog and you'll see the one entry just before Don dies she's so happy, her life is complete. She has a beautiful little girl and a son on the way and she's saying how happy she is. Then WHAM, her entire world is turned upside down and her husband is killed.
Asia has always been forthcoming and open in her blog and she's always been a computer geek, so naturally she would express her pain the only way she's ever done it, on her web-site.
My heart goes out to her and yeah, I've donated what I can to her to help out in the little bit I can. I was never a real fan of her work in the adult industry, but I've always been a fan of her as a person and this really took me by surprise. Don was the best thing that happened to her life in a long long time and she does not deserve this at all.
Oh, and niterunner is a friggin idiot. I'm sure he STILL believes this is all a scam. Put your tin-foil back on your head there monkey-boy!
I'd like to stay but I've got a plane to catch. 3243 Posts 5/06
Posted - Jun 25 2006 : 12:54AM
Actually condidering the ample combinations of alcohol, a town with mass amounts of people commuting to and from work at all hours of the day, and an incredible amount of tourists who have no idea where in the hell they are going it's not that surprising.
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Ordell Deactivated User
1042 Posts 6/05
Posted - Jun 25 2006 : 2:40PM
Christ, Asia's blog is getting painful to read. I feel like I'm watching someone disintegrate in front of me. Doesn't she have any friends who can help her at all?? WTF.
And a pox on her parents if they are ignoring their daughter and grandchildren at a time like this.
this is very sad. im buying something from her now. i loved her when she did porn. and even if i dont know her i do care. good luck asia.
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Posted - Jun 26 2006 : 8:28PM
She is not close to her parents. I don't know how long you've been reading her blog, but she's not a 'people' person and does not have a lot of friends. I recall her brother spending a month or so at her house one summer a few years ago, but I don't know where their relationship stands now. She needs counseling very badly as well as medication. I find it very alarming that she is not used to leaving the house without Don (a social disorder symptom) and that she just wants to sit at the computer and stay 'busy' (sounds like she wants to dissociate). Someone definitely needs to step in and take control of her situation.
Yeah, as a big fan of her's when she was performing, I used to check out her diary entries. She has had a very strange life to say the least. If I recall correctly, she hasn't been in touch with her parents since she left their home. Apparently, they were very strict parents who demanded a lot from her. Being as bright and talented as she was, they wouldn't accept mediocrity. One parent is Japanese and I forget what the other one is.
As someone else pointed out, she is basically agoraphobic. Hates to go out in public, and doesn't like to be in social situations. She was married to Bud Lee for a long time despite not living with him as a wife. She was close to marrying another guy from England, but decided not to and he went back. She seemed to finally be happy with Lemon. They moved to Hawaii, but it was too expensive to stay there. I think they recently moved to Utah or something.
The thing I really don't get is how they didn't have life insurance. Asia apparently wasn't great with money. At one time years ago she was doing pretty well, but lost a lot in the stock market. Like a lot of people, she thought she had it figured out. Warren Buffet is her idol. Anyway, it reallys sucks where she is right now. I would hope that the adult industry would give her some kind of employment until she gets back on her feet. She is bright enough to find some occupation that will provide for her and her family, but it's going to be hard for the next few years.
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1042 Posts 6/05
Posted - Jun 27 2006 : 12:04PM
I hope every porn chick is watching Asia's fate and thinking hard. Asia put ten years into the biz, and here she is in her worst moment of need and who's rallying to help her?
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What are you looking at? It 2452 Posts 3/05
Posted - Jun 27 2006 : 8:34PM
Do they sing & dance?Oh yeah...sorrows to Asia and all parties associated.
The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05
Posted - Jul 2 2006 : 10:59AM
I think that now the adult industry is just like any business nowadays. Your employees are just numbers earning a paycheck, making you money in the process but you are disposable/replacable. Sad but true with all businesses these days, no loyalty. Now it is a world of looking out for number one as the phrase goes. Sad indeed as you would think that an industry that made a ton off of her work and still does, would at least do something for her at least for the short term.
I dont know asia at all, other than watching her movies over the years. but this girl needs help. her kids need her now more than ever since they have no dad now. it's time for her family and friends to step up to the plate. and let by gonrs be by gones. this woman needs help now. good luck asia.