I'll give you one guess. Seriously, though - Why the minimum age of 35? Being as I'm 33 and too young for you (God, it feels good to say that)!, but sliding swiftly & ass first toward middle age, I'll tell you from my own experience that it's not so much that I prefer a younger guy, it's just that there are so many more of you around, and you all seem to be hot for "an older woman" and really eager to please! Let's face it, most guys in their 30's are either a)married b)in prison c)have some serious mental health or substance abuse problem.
a) never have (don't think I ever will) b) never have never will c) never had drugs (not even smoking), no mental problems (is that mental-health or mental, health?), no health problems.
I have a problem finding a woman without those same problems, whatever the age.
My GF, though seperated, is still legally married.
Being I am not a whole lot older than you, I couldn't tell ya for sure, but I have a friend that is 40something and married a 27 year old. He reason-quite simply...he worships her. So what does that tell us? Uhhh.. Maybe just what any womyn wants, regardless of age, a man who will treat her well.
Big_Gun- I do think Blondie has a point, although I am sure she was not trying to offend you. It's just that most people, male or female, that are relationship minded have settled by the time their 30. And if they have not, ya gotta wonder why, natural assumption, somethings wrong with them. Now I can attest, as I did not settle until I was 26, which according to our society is late in the game, that is not always the case. I am one heck of a catch I was just being particular, and maybe fate was just making me wait for the big payoff so I'd truly appreciate it, lol.
No offence was taken I just don't fit the mold, I never have conformed to the rest of the crowd (never was the partying type, or the nerd, or the druggie) How many 32yo drive a Fifth Avenue?, '65 Imperial?, have a $15,000+ entertainment system?
There's never been anyone for me to settle with and I don't think I ever will find anyone (I'm not sure I care to even try anymore)
Smartblonde, a) not married-never have been-no kids either b) never been in prison, never convicted of any crimes and c) never been high, drunk, or used drugs c.1) no mental problems-might be a bit obsessive about posting reviews here though... ;)
I have no interest in "settling" for someone just so society will not think somethings wrong with me. I hope to meet the right woman (Tina's taken) someday but I'm not going to stress out about some standard that I never agreed to.
I agree with Big_Gun that most of the women I meet have serious personality disorders, drug abuse problems, or hate men (at least after meeting me they do). ;)
HoustonDon - LOL :) Glad to hear it, you sound like my kind o' guy! And as usual, I was just being my wise-cracking self, glad you didn't take offense & have a sense of humor, which at times like now can be sorely lacking around here. BTW, thanks for your nice comments in the other forum...
Well, damn I guess I'm ahead of all the older fuck-ups. I've been in jail, have somewhat of a drinking and drug use problem, been treated for depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder and I'm 21. However, I'm in school and have a job so I'm not that bad off. Course I'm still a virgin and have never had a girlfriend and don't like being around people, but that's a whole nother story.
Homer: They don't call me Springfield Fats, just cause I'm morbidly obese.
I'm sorry, I must have worded that poorly.I was just saying that it has been my personal experience that because I chose to remain single as long as I did, people seemed to assume I was defective or something along those lines. I was in no way implying that was my opinion.
