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Here's a few threads where we had some discussion on this previously that you may be interested in.

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"Titter, Titter."-Lunacy

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I purchased these at SexToyWorld

Micro Tingler ( - This is a very small (3/8th inch wide) vibrating egg. They come in 3 different lengths from 1 inch to 3 inches. They are smaller than a finger and can be used externally or placed inside. These are great for use during forplay and when left inserted during sex can be great for both partners. I personally find the added sensation from one of these (particularly the 3 inch model) to be better than anal sex.

Tush Teaser Jelly Butt Plug - This is a thin jelly plug with a small bullet vibrator inside. This is a good next step that can be used both for forplay and during sex. With the jelly plugs it is vital that you use a good quality lubricant. I have had success with Wet but some people prefer a thicker lube. I invested in a selection because the penalty for failing to find a good one was high.

Once we were using these toys regularly it took a long time before she was ready to try larger items. It basically took time before the anal stimulation was as enjoyable as other options making it a preferred activity. If your lucky, she will enjoy it so much that she wants to try additional things. It also breaks the taboo that it is dirty. Keep in mind that she may be afraid that it is dirty and experience will let her know that it is generally not. Don't forget to combine oral sex with using vibrators. You have good access and learning to like anal sex is much easier to learn to like when having an orgasm from oral sex.

Here are some other toys that we like:

Mediterranian Missle Plug - 1 inch diameter hard plastic plug:

Bathtime Buddy - A relatively narrow soft vibrator that is a good last step:

Good luck and go slow.

Edited by - clay on Oct 18 2000

Edited by - clay on Oct 18 2000

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It's an excellent book, approaching the subject from a more clinical perspective, and it covers all kinds of subjects such as keeping your rectum healthy and reducing stress.

Even though I really liked Tristan's video, I can see how some people would rather get the same information from a book-writing PhD before they felt more comfortable.

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Needless to say, I have never had anal sex-and I'm not in a great big rush to do so now. I agree with smartblonde-pressuring anyone into anything is a good way to screw up a relationship.

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I forget the comedian's name that had a great act on anal sex. He said he would never do it. It's a simple reason: "There's poop in there."

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