I would guess that there are at least as many women who enjoy giving head as there guys who enjoy eating at the Y. Speaking as a dude who loves to eat pussy as often as possible (which is not often enough); I think if you know so many girls who don't like it then they are either lying, too inexperienced, lesbian, or have some kind of dick fear. It's a lot like guys who say they hate eating cooch, it's probably because they know they suck at it.
It's a YES!! OK, I agree there are some that don't like it, just like there are some that don't like chocolate or kissing or lingerie or receiving oral either. But there are SOOOO many that LOVE IT!! I have to say OK, that's enough! :-) I'm sorry, I just didn't get where you were coming from.
As a lesbian, I have to say that I've given a couple of bj's in the past and I didn't mind it. Not what I want to do everyday but I didn't see what all the grossness a lot of my straight female friends would talk about. I've only given two bj's in my life and both guys said they were the best one they ever had. *proudly displays bj trophy* Not as good as eating pussy though. My bj giving days are over but I still have those braggin' rights!
^ I tell every girl that has my dick in their mouth it's the best I've ever had. LOL!! But I only say it to get them all excited and have them swallow my seed.
Well, damn! Thanks for puncturing a big hole in my ego! *runs off in the corner and cries* Slightly off topic but why do straight women love men but are so grossed out by a man's cum? Okay, granted I can understand but why wouldn't a woman swallow? I mean, I would go crazy if I was with a woman who squirted in my mouth or on my face so logically I would think a woman who likes dudes would feel that way if he did the same to her. I don't know, maybe I'm just applying strange logic to this. Perhaps I should create a new thread... Edited by - kittenmoon on 2/22/2011 10:08:11 PM
Why would you make that analogy? There's nothing humiliating about it unless you choose to view it that way. Rather, it is really sharing. A gift given and received. Sex isn't something you do to someone you love. It is something shared together. An intimate connection on a number of levels. If she helps him achieve orgasm or he helps her achieve orgasm and either ends up with the other's cum on them, OK. If he leaves his cum inside her pussy no one seems to think twice about it. Nothing humiliating or 'marking territory'. Why does it suddenly become marked territory if it ends up somewhere else, particularly on her face? It's not marked territory if my cum ends up on me because we masturbated together. A facial is the most intimate. It is the only place he can cum that allows her to be an active participant in his orgasm. If he cums inside her, she's a passive receiver, but that's all. If she's giving him oral sex and helps him orgasm, she can lick and suck and rub and stroke and encourage his enjoyment in so many ways. And yes, she can swallow too. She becomes an active participant rather than a passive receiver. What better way to connect and share? A gift given and received and enjoyed; in both directions. Why miss the opportunity to connect so intimately? The problem seems to be how most porn portrays facials. Too often the girl looks more like a target than a partner. Too often she has her mouth and eyes clinched closed while in some kind of execution position. There's nothing sexual or intimate about being a target. If that's how she feels (and I agree, that's how most of them look), then it really shouldn't have a place in a shared sexual experience. Sex should be enjoyed and shared, not committed against someone. It's the joy of sex, not the crime of sex. Why degrade a shared sexual connection by comparing it to something done by a dog?
There's definitely a degradation angle here and it's loads of fun too (pun intended). It can be a cuddly thing too (as long as the cum isn't too chewy) but let's not be silly and act like cum swallowing is simply an act of love-it can be many things. Back to moon's question: I've cum in dozens and dozens of mouths and while many like it, there is also a group that detests it-and worst of all, there's a few neutrals out there (at least with the detesters you know where they stand. But with neutrals??? Who knows!!) Anyway, on those girls that detest it-it's mostly psychological from what I've seen. The idea of taking the gooey, stringy ball snot in their mouth, on their TONGUE of all places-just makes them want to puke. It's especially fun to hold back and really squirt hard into the back of their throats-they gag every time. There's something just so sexy about the face made by a girl who hates cum as you shoot a huge load of it on their tongue... quick, someone get me a towel. See Rod, there's PLENTY of degradation in this act-and some women get off on being degraded too-perhaps we should all just stick to what we know :) Some girls really love the taste of it-and some just hate that salty, unique flavor-but they tend to just swallow quick, get it over with like it's whiskey or something. But I still submit that the majority you speak of have psychological issues with the idea of draining hairy testicles into their mouths.
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Posted - Feb 23 2011 : 3:41PM
I've head hetro women say that sometimes it doesn't taste good, as in a bitter taste. I think that it has something to do with the old saying, has far as men are concerned, "You are what you eat (diet-wise that is)". It all depends on the guy.
Perhaps you misunderstood - I'm not saying that I think it's humiliating, but rather kittenmoon asked for reasons why some women don't like it and my answer was just one possible reason why. This wasn't my personal viewpoint, but rather the viewpoint of a woman who didn't like for a guy to cum on her face. Can you see the similarities between cumming and urinating? How does a dog mark his territory? See where I'm going with this? I agree with you that when having sex with someone you care for and respect, and there's a mutual understanding of what is allowable and what isn't, then cumming on someone's face can be an intimate thing. But sex isn't always like this. Your post referred to reasons why a woman should enjoy it, but that had nothing to do with the question. The question was why do some girls DISLIKE it. I think some girls don't like it because they think it's humiliating. And I feel sorry for the guy that ends up with a woman like that.
^ OK, if they don't like it, don't do it. They don't really need a reason. If they don't like chocolate, don't eat chocolate. My concern is we seem to perpetuate the idea that sharing in a man's orgasm is somehow inherently humiliating. I agree that porn sometimes looks for ways to humiliate performers apparently because some consumers like to buy product that includes humiliation. I also agree much of porn includes having women submit to receiving cum on their face, not because they want to participate and enhance the pleasure of their male partner, but because they're told to be targets. I'm just saying we're missing the mark here (no pun intended). Don't allow porn to steal the joy of sharing sex together, and don't continue to teach this idea that you shouldn't enjoy something because it's defined as humiliating. And don't degrade this shared experience by naming it dog like. Just enjoy!
You completely missed my point. Read what I wrote again. If you truly understood what I wrote, you'd see that your lecture has absolutely nothing to do with the point I was making. You seem to have difficulty differentiating between my opinion and what I would imagine to be the opinion of another person. I don't think it's humiliating and neither do you. Fine. But if you can't understand why someone would compare cumming on a woman's face to the way a dog marks his territory, then you clearly lack imagination.
Ok funny thing is that many women feel degraded when getting a load of cum blasted on their face, but when it comes to my experience there are a lot of women with a group fantasy. Fuck it, if a chick digs it, I'm in. \
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