I've followed porn off and on for the last 20 years or so. I was really into it in the mid 80s (the early video days) when Christy Canyon, Ginger Lynn, and Traci Lords were at their peak. I got married in 86 and pretty much lost interest in porn. When I divorced in 91 I discovered a hobby that would dominate my life for most of the following years, whoremongering. I became a regular at Northern Nevada's brothels from 91-96. In 96 a relationship with a woman caused me to stop seeing hookers for the next 3 years. When that ended in 99 I immediately started seeing hookers again though mostly independant escorts now and Tijuana though I occasionally still do the brothel scene. I also rediscovered porn in 99 particularly interracial porn BM/WF though I'm a white guy. I was really into it for a few years though my interest in porn is once again waning while my interest in hookers is as strong as ever. I guess I would much rather be an active participant than a vouyer/stroker any day.
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Posted - Feb 3 2004 : 1:12AM
I really can't relate since I've never lost interest in porn and I can't see it happening unless I get a really bad case of depression or get older. That's two of the things I hear make you lose interest in things you enjoy
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Posted - Feb 3 2004 : 11:26AM
If porn is a distraction, that explains my Attention Deficit Disorder.
No, not spam. You'll notice none of the links I posted were to pay sites. Just saying I'm tired of porn and would rather be the one doing the fucking as opposed to just watching. Btw, you can fuck a # of pornstars in Nevada's legal brothels and as escorts. I thought this forum was about sex. The links I posted were relevant to the topic, and they were free sites. True theerotic review has a pay section but you can do plenty of research on escorts in the free section.
Many people will say that if you're in a relationship, you shouldn't have any interest in porn whatsoever. Obviously I disagree with that, just like everyone else here.
I never said you shouldn't watch porn when in a relationship, just that I personally lost interest in porn when I was in them. My interest in porn comes and goes. For those of you who love it, more power to you.
I know you didn't say that. My comment wasn't directed to you in particular, but people in general. There are people who think that porn is only for single young guys who aren't getting laid. I think that's a load of crap. I see nothing wrong with liking porn when in a relationship, and I will never be too old for it. And how you feel about porn is as natural as how anyone else would feel about it. There's nothing wrong with it. I personally find porn to be entertaining, but to each their own.
When anybody with a number of posts puts links, it's a community member, and generally nobody thinks it's spam. Not 100% fair to delete them just because you only had one post. Feel free to re-post them if you like.
Well I would much rather be an active particapent when it comes to sex. But when without or during, porn is fun. It is my own opinion that sex isn't worth dying over and I couldn't have that much fun with a whore. TJ has a large problem with HIV and whores. Thank god I didn't get totally smashed last time I was there. With porn I can say, "Hey, I'd like to try this," I'm lucky enough to have a partner who is fairly open. I could ramble on for about an hour on this topic.
Thanks for understanding Lindi. I can see how you thought I might have been a spammer. But check out the links. They might induce you to participate in a very enjoyable activity.
Disclaimer: All are free sites. The eroticreview has a pay section but you need not join it to do research on escorts. I am not affiliated with any of these sites but they are good for doing research on having sex with hookers.
Wow, I see you haven't done your homework. The girls at Adelitas and the Chicago club are legal and checked by doctors, HIV isn't a big deal. Stay away from streetwalkers and use a condom, for ALL activities, and your risk while there is minimal. Porn is NOTHING compared to the real thing, but that's just my opinion.
It can be a distraction, too much so sometimes, but when you have an intermittent sex life it can be a big draw. Plus, every person has their own private sex life with themself in addition to the sex life with their partner. It can be filled out with porn, toys, whatever, just as much as the coupled sex life can be. Both can occur concurrently, as in I am married but still also have my own private joys. There just needs to be a balance.
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Posted - Feb 2 2004 : 5:50PM