2. What kind of agony are you referring to (besides the "obvious")? I'm not the child of a pornstar, but I am curious. Any aspects that would make someone go "oh, I wouldn't have thought of that"?
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| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 |  Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 1:44AMbeing a son of a pornstar . .I would like to know is there anyone out there facing the same agony am going through Edited by - alex franklin on Mar 28 2018 [Link] |
| deeluve22 Member 202 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 2:01AM 2. What kind of agony are you referring to (besides the "obvious")? I'm not the child of a pornstar, but I am curious. Any aspects that would make someone go "oh, I wouldn't have thought of that"? [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 3:41AM [Link] |
| gruntler Member 431 Posts 1/15 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 7:14AM 1. A suggestion...change that thread title. Yeesh. [/quote] Yes that would make the topic sound a lot more..... legal! Edited by - gruntler on 3/28/2018 7:14:50 AM Edited by - gruntler on 3/28/2018 7:15:27 AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 8:31AM [Link] |
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| jks1 Member A round ass and big natural tits on a small frame are pretty hard to beat 103 Posts 9/17 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 9:23AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 9:47AM Edited by - killbillvol69 on 3/28/2018 10:02:26 PM [Link] |
Flash  Golden Age Classic 11018 Posts 5/01 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 10:41AM [Link] |
| Flash Golden Age Classic 11018 Posts 5/01 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 10:44AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 10:57AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 12:58PM Then there's this stage show: Pornographer's Daughter. Cosmo article: What it's like to have a parent in porn. New York Post (with a link to a reddit discussion about the topic): My mom was a porn star and it ruined my life. [Link] |
| whatsatelephonebill Senior Member 2935 Posts 10/11 | Posted - Mar 28 2018 : 9:28PM [Link] |
| wcw43921 Senior Member Look Into My Eyes-- 1252 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 1:30AM Oh, wait. . .that's superheroes. Never mind. . . _________________________________________ Hypnosis Should Be A Porn Thing [Link] |
| vimesk Member 177 Posts 4/14 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 5:22AM Btw where your mother a famous porn star? But just remember when you grow up you can always move out of your home town and or change your name and then nobody will know that your mother where a porn star [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 6:53AM [Link] |
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| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 8:13AM Anyway, what did you think of the various resources people shared with you? Did any of the perspectives resonate or help? [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 8:36AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:19AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:25AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:31AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:34AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:37AM [Link] |
| vimesk Member 177 Posts 4/14 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:46AM But remember that there are brighter days ahead and that the bullies aren't worth your time and there are always ways to not let ppl know you're son of a ps. [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 9:47AM [Link] |
| vimesk Member 177 Posts 4/14 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 10:12AM But just remember you can always change your name so it doen't pop up on google when future working colleagues search your name on the net [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 10:38AM [Link] |
| A_Fan Deactivated User 1187 Posts 9/16 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 1:45PM Spinning tales of how horrible it was in order for people to feel sorry for you is self defeating. YOu will find no victory in the path you are currently on. Edited by - A_Fan on 3/29/2018 1:49:35 PM [Link] |
| Simple Simon Senior Member 12302 Posts 2/15 | Posted - Mar 29 2018 : 4:25PM I found this good blog review http://documentarydaze.blogspot.com.au/2013/05/prostitution-behind-veil.html?m=1 [Link] |
| korangu Deactivated User 1 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 8:22AM You can leave now for being an asshole. Edited by - Flash on 3/30/2018 9:29:03 AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 11:35AM [Link] |
| sweetbuttsex Member 229 Posts 2/18 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 12:17PM Any talent must do tests every other 2 weeks and they are thoroughly tested, way more than your typical check with doctor before you engage within your first relationship and so on. A company that I am aware that does these tests is Talent Testing Service, in this particulary uri you can find what is tested in the Gold Standard Panel (GSP), the one used. So, at the end of the day, a bar hookup is potentially more dangerous. Yet better than reading me, you can listen to Veronica Vain, an ex-pornstar explaining this on Youtube I think. [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 1:42PM [Link] |
| jackdore Member 512 Posts 6/16 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 5:27PM [Link] |
| A_Fan Deactivated User 1187 Posts 9/16 | Posted - Mar 30 2018 : 5:51PM [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Mar 31 2018 : 5:24AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - Apr 3 2018 : 1:32PM [Link] |
| A_Fan Deactivated User 1187 Posts 9/16 | Posted - Apr 3 2018 : 4:39PM I was seriously bullied from grade 7 - 11.. both relentless verbal attacks as well as a whole lot of physical knocks. I let it define me and was saying the same "poor me" stuff you said. I did't have a mom in porn, it was just kids bullying kids for whatever... looks, clothes, grades, etc. YOu have to stand up, take control of yourself, and not let others define you. Once I learned that ( sadly took a long time), the sky is the limit. It's like girls who leave porn . You can get the Maci May types who believe that nobody will ever give them a job because they did porn. Shockingly, she couldn't build a life after porn and got more miserable and toxic. Or you can be like a Morgan Lee or Eva Angelina who are not hiding their porn past and are doing positive things in their lives. Edited by - A_Fan on 4/3/2018 4:47:58 PM [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Apr 3 2018 : 9:54PM Also some therapy might help. It seems like you're highly neurotic in that your inner thoughts and self-image are dominated by what others say about you. I'm similar to that by the way, though I feel like that part of my personality has become less dominant as I've gotten older. [Link] |
| Jimbo24 New Member 5 Posts 4/18 | Posted - Apr 12 2018 : 6:47PM So I just signed up on this site because I stumbled on this, and it seems that I'm the only guy here who's been in more or less the same situation. I was looking for "anorexic porn", and I don't know how I ended here, Google can be weird. Anyway, here goes.. I say "more or less" because my mom wasn't exactly into porn. A few years back, my mother gave me her laptop to fix some bugs it had. So I transfered all her data in an external hard drive in order to reboot. One of the names of the transferred documents that passed by quickly was "me and dan, Tampa (2010)". That didn't look good, not a good title. But I kept it in mind. And later on, I look it up in the hard drive, and there was a whole folder of that. I copied it into my laptop. And a few days later, when I was "in the mood", I decided to check it out. Well, it's exactly what you think it was. And here's the best (worst) part: there wasn't just Dan. It wasn't like a gangbang or anything, but she had other "hotel rooms videos", and in motels, and cars, with other dudes. I don't know all the details of what they did, or even why they decided to tape, because to this day, I haven't watch most of them - I barely watched twenty seconds each of a few of them, and that was enough. And she wasn't cheating my father and she had divorced back in 2008, so there's that. But still.. You mention the physical pain. Well, what you might perceive as pain, others (including her) might perceive as pleasure. Hot sex can be rough sex, on or off camera. If sex in porn was this unpleasant, very few women would do it, especially in this day and age where it's really hard to starve or be homeless and not have basic necessities. All these thousands of pornstars would flip burgers or clean homes instead of going at it in front of the camera. You may not like or accept the fact that your mom might enjoy getting roughed up during sex, but it may be true nonetheless. Yeah, it's never pleasant to watch your mom do anything sexual, or to picture her in any sexual light. But it is what it is. And I don't presume to know how you deal with other people, because mine didn't get famous for it, but what I can say in this regard is: pick your friends wisely. The assholes who are gonna give you a hard time or try to shame you just because your mother has sex for a living, cut them off your life. And keep yourself surrounded with open-minded folks and those who aren't complete pricks about it, and with time you might actually make peace with it, and it becomes normal. Best, Edited by - Jimbo24 on 4/12/2018 6:51:59 PM Edited by - Jimbo24 on 4/12/2018 9:19:03 PM [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Apr 12 2018 : 9:02PM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Apr 13 2018 : 1:05PM [Link] |
| Jimbo24 New Member 5 Posts 4/18 | Posted - Apr 16 2018 : 7:05PM So if the OP feels he's being pushed into a corner socially, he should strive and make new connections, new friendships (with people who aren't dicks about his mother obviously), and surround himself by them. He'll feel more secure socially, and his would-be bullies less inclined to take it out on him. Good luck @Gore Gore Girl - No, I meant in the mood to watch what it was all about. Untwist your mind. I didn't know that it was her having sex at that moment, I just had strong suspicions, which turned out to be correct. Sometimes, you're just in a more resilient mood to take a breath and do something (potentially) unpleasant. You gotta eat your vegetables, and I knew I had to see what was in there sooner or later. But if you want the whole truth, it wasn't as shocking as I thought it would be. I mean the tape. I don't know, perhaps because I was expecting horrors before playing it, so in contrast to that, it was.. it was what it was. No one wants to watch their parent rolling in the hay. But it wasn't the end of the world either. I didn't even watch 30 seconds of each, and I certainly didn't jerk off to it. I'm just not that into my mom, sexually speaking. [Link] |
| Leya Falcon's fan Member 776 Posts 12/14 | Posted - Apr 17 2018 : 7:32PM Seriously? Don't be an asshole. Edited by - flash on 4/17/2018 9:18:54 PM [Link] |
| Simple Simon Senior Member 12302 Posts 2/15 | Posted - Apr 23 2018 : 7:14AM https://www.thedailybeast.com/a-porn-stars-letter-to-her-unborn-son [Link] |
| Jimbo24 New Member 5 Posts 4/18 | Posted - Apr 23 2018 : 6:42PM I mean, I took drugs throughout my 20s, including heroin. But I'm sure as fuck not gonna go all, "Oh noes! I didn't know what got into me! I was young! Circumstances!" No, I know exactly what got into me: I loved getting high! Still do. I knew exactly what I was chasing when getting my bong ready, that ecstatic feeling, the euphoria, nothing like it. And I'll be damned if I'll apologize or feel shame for something I acquired through voluntary - albeit illegal - transactions, and used on no one but myself. All the things I didn't use force, fraud, or deceit to do or get, I won't apologize for, and neither should anyone. Edited by - Jimbo24 on 4/24/2018 2:00:12 AM [Link] |
| alex franklin Member 17 Posts 3/18 | Posted - May 3 2018 : 9:16AM [Link] |
| Jimbo24 New Member 5 Posts 4/18 | Posted - May 5 2018 : 4:51PM Okay, she did porn. So fucking what? Don't look at it again, and don't hang with the assholes who bring it up. I don't see how that's hard even in practice. If your neck of the woods is that unbearable, if it has this small town-ish everybody knowing everybody, bush telegraph of busybodies, then start working, and in a few years worth of saving, you can buy some modest property in some other, more densely populated city, start over with new people, and leave all that behind you. [Link] |
| killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18631 Posts 4/08 | Posted - May 6 2018 : 1:29AM He's obviously had a rough go of it. To tell someone whose life sucks that their life doesn't suck isn't particularly useful. Have a bit of compassion. It's one thing to walk in on your parents fucking. It's another thing to be tormented by everyone you know about something that is beyond your control. For this guy it was his mom doing porn. For someone else it was being the only Jewish kid in town. For someone else it was speaking with a lisp. Something set this dude apart from everyone else, and they gave him hell over it. He needs to work through it. No one becomes sex-positive when everyone around them is sex-negative. This might be his first discussions in his life with people who haven't shamed him about his mom being a porn performer, and some of you guys are shaming him for his sex-negative (or, at least, sex-work-negative) views. Give the dude a chance to come around. To Alex Franklin: I'm sorry that people have been hard on you. That must be difficult. Especially when it's something that you may not even have been able to understand, if you were really young when the teasing and taunting about your mom's work began. Know that not everyone feels so negative about porn. Embrace communities of people who can help you to come to terms with the decisions your mother made. And if possible, talk to your mother about it. Hearing from her why she pursued her career, may help you to understand that it wasn't necessarily a negative thing. I don't know your mom, or her story, but many sex workers get into sex work for all sorts of positive reasons. Maybe she did too. Find out from her. [Link] |
| Jimbo24 New Member 5 Posts 4/18 | Posted - May 6 2018 : 7:21PM Okay, so best of luck, Alex. And don't do anything stupid, if you know what I mean. If you need to vent, you can vent here, so long as the mods are cool with it. If you feel like you're gonna do something stupid, e-mail me (bobbyflavor24@gmail.com) and we'll have a little chat to get your mind off of it. Cheers [Link] |
| BigShmeckle Member 16 Posts 11/12 | Posted - Nov 5 2018 : 9:50PM Yes, we do have a policy against using real names. Edited by - flash on 11/6/2018 11:04:11 AM [Link] |
| umberto Deactivated User 34 Posts 10/18 | Posted - Nov 5 2018 : 10:18PM You are done now. Edited by - flash on 11/6/2018 11:02:25 AM [Link] |
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