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| Small Cock Member 7 Posts 11/03 |  Posted - Nov 17 2003 : 9:18PMMy girl wants to use a strap on with me. While this doesn't appeal to me too much I want to do it to keep her to be satisfied (relationships are about sacrifice right?). The biggest anxiety I have about it is getting things "clean" in there. What is the best way to cleanse yourself? [Link] |
| barrybrn Senior Member 1568 Posts 9/03 | Posted - Nov 17 2003 : 10:03PM [Link] |
| Kitty-kat Member 50 Posts 10/03 | Posted - Nov 17 2003 : 10:57PM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 17 2003 : 11:53PM So if you have a healthy diet and have had a decent shit an hour or two ago, and your stomach feels empty and not upset, just step into the shower and run a soapy butt plug up there. It should come out clean. It gives you a nice sense of cleanliness and relaxation, and an enema will not be necessary. That article also will help you feel generally relaxed and you can see what kind of prep you will want to do, in general, before taking on a strap-on, like using fingers and butt plugs to get familiar and comfortable with the area, and relaxed about it. [Link] |
| TonyC Comstock Films 2523 Posts 8/03 | Posted - Nov 18 2003 : 12:34PM On top of that, I'm spent my whole life with my dick firmly attatched to my body and can make it do more or less exactly what I tell it to do. Even a strap-on expert can't claim that level of control; let alone a novice. -T.C. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 18 2003 : 2:05PM He makes some of the points that Tony does about tactile feedback and the level of control. [Link] |
| Sir Noel Plum Senior Studmuffin 1001 Posts 2/03 | Posted - Nov 18 2003 : 5:56PM I suppose my point is that in my view this is one bedroom toy where buying a better quality product may make a very big difference. SNP. [Link] |
| SaitamaLoki Member Japan/East Coast USA 24 Posts 7/03 | Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 4:31AM May I also point out that viewing this as a "sacrifice" is probably not the best attitude to go into it with. If you're going to let/have your girlfriend play around down there, you should try *enjoying* it. Anal play can actually be a very good feeling for most men, provided they're relaxed and well lubed (those two are hugely important). You probably want to work up to sticking something as large as a strap-on up your arse, especially since this will be your first time with anal play and this will be a moving object (i.e., not a buttplug). Might I recommend having your girl do a bit of rimming and fingering down there while giving you a blowjob? The combination can be quite stimulating, by almost anyone's account. Plus it's starting small, so it's a good place to start. [Link] |
| vodka tonic coolest cucumber who 1243 Posts 11/02 | Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 6:58AM p.s: don't go for big! a 6" inches trap-on is more than enough i love to love [Link] |
| Canadian Girl Member Canada 210 Posts 9/03 | Posted - Nov 19 2003 : 8:24PM [Link] |
| Heaven Member 363 Posts 12/01 | Posted - Nov 20 2003 : 9:16PM [Link] |
| Kitty-kat Member 50 Posts 10/03 | Posted - Nov 21 2003 : 4:43AM You can always try using a vibe or fingers anally to see how a penis might feel. If it feels good you might want to try the real thing. A first it feels strange and does hurt a little, like first time vaginal sex, but once you overcome that it's awesome. I only have orgasms through anal. Although it's not something I want to do every time I have sex it's nice for a treat now and then. Bear in mind that your boyfriend needs to take it slow and you must have lube. Porn anal is heavily edited, it's imposssible to plunge your penis straight in there as it makes it look like. Unless your boyfriend wants a broken penis! You should be able to take the full length, but night right away. The spoon position is best if you're starting out cause then you can control how deep it goes, doggie takes some time to get used to. [Link] |
| VIP Member Germany 32 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 8:14AM But I don't have any butt plugs here nor any lubricant. :( [Link] |
| EagleSpirit Member Somewhere Doing Something Stupid 439 Posts 7/03 | Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 7:35PM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 7:45PM [Link] |
| EagleSpirit Member Somewhere Doing Something Stupid 439 Posts 7/03 | Posted - Nov 22 2003 : 9:25PM PS: I haven't done it numerous times :) [Link] |
| blklthrjkt Passionfruit Video Dallas 105 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Nov 27 2003 : 1:01PM Also a condom on the dildo makes clean up a snap! What I have found from women who have tried strap ons on their partners is that they feel empowered and really like the feeling. Nice change of dynamic in a relationship! My 2 cents. Kurt (and yes I am a gay man, but I have had experience with a strap on with a woman. Guess it's OK since she was a lesbian.) [Link] |
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