Another thing you can do is press hard just between your balls and your ass. I forgot how to spell the word, and I'm too lazy to look it up, but down here we call it the tain't (Tain't balls, tain't ass). Mash on that as hard as you can -- hell, you press hard enough, you can have an orgasm and nothing will come out. But when you let go, it all oozes out, all chunky 'cause it didn't get mixed right. Kinda gross; try it!

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place your thumb on the underside of the glans, where the foreskin joins to it (or where it used to if you are circumcised.) Place two fingers on the other side (top or "front" of the glans). Squeeze firmly, but not enough to hurt, as if you were trying to make the head smaller by squashing it in on itself. hold the pressure until the urge to ejaculate has gone. This may take ten seconds or so, your mileage may vary.

This "saves" the ejaculation (and stops your orgasm). You may also lose some of the erection, but probably not much. You should be able to resume activity almost at once. Ejaculation will happen normally when you reach peak again. I have heard this can be done multiple times in a session, but I have not tried more than twice myself.

Edited by - licker on 3/8/2004 4:23:06 AM

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Fear is the mind-killer.

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Perineum massage is good for control as well, and feels good. Contracting the PC muscle during the plateau phase of orgasm can delay or control ejaculation; The Multi-Orgasmic Male discusses both of these techniques in some detail.

Another largely unknown trick, which is perhaps the most effective way of all to retard unwanted ejaculations, is by the very gentle (or not so gentle, for you S/M fans) manipulation of the testicles. If you CAREFULLY push the scrotum downward and back towards the perineum during stimulation, the urge to ejaculate will quickly subside. This might now work for all guys, but it seems to work for most. There should be no pain or discomfort involved. You can also "tie off" the man's balls with some very soft and non-pinching item (there are commercial items for this purpose as well), which in many cases can delay ejaculation indefinitely, but beware--interfering with the blood flow to the scrotum for a very long period of time is dangerous and not suggested. I have a true story about this last technique that I may post to the paltry story board if I have the time some day. Suffice to say, these are all effective (and naughty, in the hands of a clever partner) ways to extend male arousal and orgasm beyond the usual "pump and pop" routine that many men belong too. And they also work quite well during masturbation, IF you have the self discipline for it.

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