I think it should be legalized and regulated much like the porn industry.
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| budtugley Senior Member  One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04 |  Posted - Jul 11 2011 : 8:49PMI gotta admit, I don't know too much about this. I do know there are different levels of gals who perform sexual services for pay. Street hookers, call girls, Nevada brothel gals, massage parlor gals, ads in the alternative weeklies from girls willing to do it. I was watching some prostitutes on a cable TV channel discussing their trade, but I'm not too sure I still grasp it. Tiger Woods can pay a lady whatever he wants, he buys silence and discretion, probably cleanliness too. One lady was teaching a rookie about how to handle clients. She mentioned she didn't do anything for under $400, that was her stripping and letting the guy jack off looking at her. The price went up from there, hand job, blow job, intercourse. Apparently, it's all negotiable. What's been your experience, how much did it cost, was it worth it. Weneed to know. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Jul 11 2011 : 9:22PM I think it should be legalized and regulated much like the porn industry. [Link] |
| Tmkowal Senior Member I am no one. 9006 Posts 4/04 | Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 8:52AM [Link] |
| saratoga120 Senior Member 1404 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 2:59PM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 6:42PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jul 13 2011 : 6:51PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 4:01AM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 12:08PM [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 5:13PM Some see it as making people(either gender) feel bad about their bodies, sexuality, and gender. When I think of the term objectification, I think of people that look at others as just something to have sex with, without care about their feelings, health or well being. When the guys that I dated acted like I owed them something because they paid, I'd usually tell them to fuck off. The ones that acted all nonchalant about were usually the ones that got lucky. It always reminded me of that Kevin Wilson song....Do ya fuck on first dates........does your dad own a brewry.....can I squeeze your tits.....or will you show them to me.... [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Jul 14 2011 : 5:41PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 9:18AM i would respect a woman more if didnt want me to pay if she wasnt keen, id admire that [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Jul 15 2011 : 9:25AM i can mens point about prostitutes but it doesnt excite me at. i know of friends who their work takes them to brothels as a bonus if they work well lol i think she would have to be a very good actress for me to get into it [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 8:55AM [Link] |
| celluloidferox Senior Member @EmperorCorndog 1438 Posts 1/10 | Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 2:48PM I've found that if there's a local girl who will do that for me at a reasonable price; it's a perfectly fair trade. At least I can get out my pent-up sexual energy while still looking for romance wherever it might be hiding these days. You gotta do what you gotta do. Knowwuddamean? [Link] |
| saratoga120 Senior Member 1404 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Jul 16 2011 : 5:26PM With a prostitute that appeals to me, there's no such obligation for me. [Link] |
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| budtugley Senior Member One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04 | Posted - Jul 18 2011 : 12:14AM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Jul 18 2011 : 2:18AM besides, drumming doesnt pay well enough for me to see hookers the amount of times i need sex lol would need a much better paying job first [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Jul 18 2011 : 7:47AM [Link] |
| The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Jul 18 2011 : 11:41PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Jul 19 2011 : 12:09AM ive thought about it a few times as i am attracted to women with fake breasts but here in australia rarely ever see them apart from brothels and strip clubs. just have to get it in my head its ok to do [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jul 19 2011 : 6:56AM [Link] |
| The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Jul 19 2011 : 10:30AM Feminists will have an issue with that as they don't think that way, but in general their opinions have been countered successfully by fully empowered women countless times. I would argue that there is no objectification if it's within their control, so you should have no qualms about it. As long as no one is getting hurt, I don't see what the big deal is. Now if there are other reasons you hesitate, then those should be considered separately. Just my two cents. [Link] |
Jonny Jay  Outlier Moderator 5990 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Jul 19 2011 : 5:27PM [Link] |
| The Edge Member Rock and Roll Stops the traffic! 91 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Jul 19 2011 : 11:13PM [Link] |
| budtugley Senior Member One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04 | Posted - Jul 21 2011 : 4:51PM I wouldn't enjoy sex with a lady if I couldn't kiss her, cuddle with her, nuzzle her, caress her all over, take my sweet time, make sure she orgasms at least a couple of times. The vast majority of prostitutes want to spend as little time as possible, get it up, get it in, and get it over with. I fail to see much pleasure in that. I know for certain most prostitutes won't kiss, don't want to cuddle, they might allow the guy to play with their breasts in the hopes it gives the guy a boner quicker, but allowing him to caress her, most prostitutes would rather not. I guess I'll never understand the allure. I can see where lust could enter the picture, maybe a strip club gal appeals to a customer and they agree, for a sum of money, to meet when she gets off work and she'll do a private dance at his place, let him whip it out, do a BJ and some intercourse, at least they've had some interaction beforehand. I know some prostitutes in the legal brothels have regular clients, they work by appointment sometimes, and they might develop some feeling for the guy and vice-versa. That could lead to some fun sex, that I can see. But for the most part, it's just business. Rent-a-pussy. [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Jul 21 2011 : 7:29PM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Jul 22 2011 : 9:15AM Contrary to your assesment, successful sex service providers know that they are in a market and thusly must provide good service for the money or their clientele' base will dry up. The things you mention that you "know" girls in the business don't doe are those things that make them sought after and viable. Sure, some of the less-than-usual things might cost a bit extra but if you contract the right girl they are a real buy. As far as strippers go, again I guess you've had some experience there too which is contrary to what I know about strippers. I have had friends who dance (strip) both short-term to make some money and career dancers and actually very few do any sex for pay at all. To most I have know, it's a job that when their shift is over they go home as soon as they can. Many establishments in fact have very strict rules about making arrangements with patrons during business hours. Of course it does happen and there indeed are places where it runs rampant but it's not the norm. [Link] |
| budtugley Senior Member One man's trash can be the next man's treasure. 1187 Posts 1/04 | Posted - Jul 24 2011 : 9:02PM In answer to the question I did try a prostitute in Reno at the Mustang Ranch. I went there for a bachelor party and really didn't want to hire a sex professional. Maybe I have a female outlook, I'd prefer to have some mental/spiritual/ connection along with the physical one. I declined the original lineup and went into the bar. I was drinking a beer and one gal seemed nicer than the rest, we chatted for close to a 1/2 hour, hit it off, and off we went. It was OK. Not great, not bad. She didn't like me caressing her and I have soft hands. I was actually trying to pleasure her and she didn't want that. I suppose that makes sense, it is business and she might save receiving pleasure for her boyfriend or husband, just guessing. She said I had an hour and set a timer. Condoms weren't used back then, the gals were checked every 3 weeks by medical professionals to see if there's a problem. AIDS put an end to condom-less intercourse as far as the legal brothels go. I was hoping some folks here would share their experiences. [Link] |
| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Jul 24 2011 : 9:25PM [Link] |
| dogzcatcher All-Star Member Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round! 1551 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Jul 31 2011 : 6:38AM No condoms were used. I paid $100.00 for an hour of "service". They offered other rates for less time. It is my understanding that prices have gone up 100% since then. Of all the women who worked there, I was most fond of a pretty brunette, who had a thick body type. I helped her design a floor plan, for a house she wanted to build. I was taking college classes in Architecture then. Once you paid, you were led upstairs to a large room. The woman would wash your package, while you stood next to her, by a small sink attached to the wall. We started out with a 69, followed by me performing oral sex on her. A radio was tuned to a country music station. I remember keeping rhythm to the tune, "Thank God, I'm a country boy", by John Denver. Good times. Edited by - dogzcatcher on 7/31/2011 6:40:59 AM [Link] |
| Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Aug 15 2011 : 9:05PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Aug 15 2011 : 9:58PM [Link] |
| dogzcatcher All-Star Member Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round! 1551 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 12:50AM Your opinion mirrors what statistics report on the habits of clients who frequent bordellos in Nevada. Very few male customers engage in performing oral sex on the prostitutes there as well. Would I do the same thing today? Hell no. Back then, I was a young kid in college, just out of the service, with little experience with women. These days, I just eat out my wife. It is much safer. [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 11:14AM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 11:39AM Thanks Kimi. I was going to make a comment about that but the intensity of the previous comments disuaded me from doing so. [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 11:50AM [Link] |
| dogzcatcher All-Star Member Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round! 1551 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 12:33PM I am thankful to the girl I met in Louisville, all those years ago. She was my teacher. For me, it was more than just getting my nut. It was more about the thrill of experiencing a woman have an orgasm under my tongue. She was gentle. She had a sense of humor. She told me that she "should sell my ass on the street" she liked me so well. Talk about an ego booster! This is me, in 1970. [Image not found DB] [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 3:43PM Any particular reason your showing us this picture??? lol [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 9:19PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 9:50PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 10:16PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 10:19PM and I made it my profile pic for my Facebook page. Hope you don't mind  Edited by - thedude008 on 8/16/2011 10:20:35 PM Edited by - thedude008 on 8/16/2011 10:21:20 PM [Link] |
| angryassdrummer Member 559 Posts 3/11 | Posted - Aug 16 2011 : 11:17PM 2. going down on a woman who has sex with men all day for a living, is beyond gross imagine going down on a woman and she has already fucked 10 or 12 men that night already you are putting your face/tongue/mouth where 12 other cocks have just been like thedude, i only go down on women i have been sleeping/seeing awhile. if its casual and they are sleeping with other men, then i wont go down at all. also, why pay money to go down on a woman? to do it to someone you are seeing to please her is cool why do it to a prostitute tho? if im forking money over to fuck im not spending time that im paying for to please her. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 12:44AM Edited by - sexshopgrl on 8/17/2011 12:47:26 AM [Link] |
| dogzcatcher All-Star Member Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round! 1551 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 12:58AM Enjoy yourself. Glad I could help you fap,fap,fap,fap,fap,fap,fap,fap,fap,fap. lol [Link] |
| dogzcatcher All-Star Member Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round! 1551 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 1:00AM [Link] |
| Rod Member 908 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 8:55AM [Link] |
| Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 10:31AM [Link] |
| Rubberhole Deactivated User 256 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 10:35AM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 11:19AM Even when I turned tricks in strip club basement (we all did, that was the thing at that particular bar - you didn't dance if you didn't trick), we all used condoms. The bar owner/manager kept them on hand and she checked before you went downstairs to make sure you had one with you (If you didn't she charged you 5$ a rubber for one of hers.). The guys had about 15 minutes (3 songs) or they could pay a second bar fee (25$) to stay for another 3 songs. What they paid the pro was between them. You did your thing. He went upstairs. You washed up and got yourself put back together and got back on stage. Most of the guys wanted to talk first, especially after they knew you for a few weeks. They wanted to kiss and fondle and be hugged and petted. They wanted to believe you enjoyed their touch, too. They wanted to lick your pussy and get you hot. The fucking and sucking was just not the biggest part of what it took to be good at it. That was the easy part. Anyone can do that. We were never dirty, smelly, gooey, or any other sex-gross thing. And even though it was the lowest dive bar you can imagine, I never felt the least bit endangered turning tricks there. Everyone was looking out for everyone else. If a guy mistreated a gal, he was promptly removed, and he was remembered. There was never a second chance offered. No drunk guys, no stoned guys, no hurters, beaters or freaks. The only thing I ever worried about was the bar getting busted and the other chicks doing drugs. I left because of that - and the bar did get busted. Years later, when I was a "high priced escort" (I was very reasonably priced - I didn't make bank on being a performer, but I sometimes charged the highest going rate in my local area.) I learned that what men are really paying for is to be made to feel like they are the total center of your attention. They want to be king for an hour or two. They want intelligent conversation on subjects that interest them, they want you to listen to them, they want atmosphere, they want you to look, feel, smell and taste like you spend every minute of your life making yourself into their dream. They want a back-rub, they want a pedicure, they want a meal you prepared in front of them with your own hands from scratch. They want a companion at the theatre, at a concert, at a dinner, at a business affair where they can show other men that they have what it takes to have a lovely, intelligent, witty, savvy, elegant woman attending to them. They want to be a king in the bed, too. They want to make you squirm and squeal and writhe and soak the sheets. They want to turn your knees to rubber and your mind to jelly. They want the clock to run out and for you to never notice, or care, because they are THAT good to you. Again, I say, the fucking and sucking was just not the biggest part of what it took to be good at it. That was the easy part. Anyone can do that. [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Aug 17 2011 : 11:28AM [Link] |
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