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| Joel Member  331 Posts 5/05 |  Posted - Oct 18 2009 : 9:31PMWhat do girls find most stimulating with oral? What are the best ways of getting her off before breaking out the beast? I am not sure going straight for the clit is the best way, thought most people seem to think it is. [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Oct 19 2009 : 12:16AM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Oct 19 2009 : 7:44AM [Link] |
Hardware  All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Oct 19 2009 : 8:42AM [Link] |
| VictoriaGivens Member 113 Posts 9/03 | Posted - Oct 19 2009 : 9:12AM http://www.victoriagivens.com [Link] |
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| Joel Member 331 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Oct 21 2009 : 2:20PM Any movies classed as *instruction* on this? [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Oct 21 2009 : 2:26PM Every woman is going to respond differently to any technique You really think you have to be in a relationship to ask "You like that, baby?" while yer muching her muff?? [Link] |
| fotomatt Member 78 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Oct 21 2009 : 4:22PM 1. Be patient. It's more a long distant run than a sprint, so take your time. 2. Start slowly. Pick up speed when you see the time is right. 3. Go from general to specific. Start with the whole pussy in mind, and work your way towards focusing on her clit. 4. Follow her cues. If she moans, you're doing something right. If she stops her moaning or panting, rethink your technique. If she starts to close or tighten her legs, change it up. She'll tell you a lot without even saying a word. My wife, for example, likes it a certain way. I have to warm her up with some foreplay before she's mentally ready for me to go down on her. When I do, I start gently licking her entire pussy up and down. I've found that at the start of it, she likes me to lick firmly on the lower portion of the vaginal opening. She does NOT like me to stick my tongue inside her pussy or to put my fingers in her at any time:(. Don't slobber on her too much, keep it just wet enough. Whenever licking, I always end my tongue stroke so that my tongue ends it stroke on her clitoral area. I generally only use my fingers to spread her lips apart. Though early on I'll lick a little and then stroke her lips and clit with my fingers. This gets her going due to the varying techniques. When I see that she's getting in the mode to be ready to go for the orgasm, I center in on the clit. She, like many women, has a side that she prefers to be stimulated by. That is, she likes the right side of her clit to be stimulated. I'll lick up and down on the side and alternately center the tip of my tongue lightly against the tip of her clit. The closer she gets to orgasm, the lighter I lick. Going lighter helps extend and magnify her orgasm. Something else I'll often do is when she's close to cumming is to breath deeply in and out while licking her clit. When I breath out, I'm blowing hot air against her clit, and when I breath back in, it pulls in cool air against her. She loves this hot/cold effect on her. Good luck and happy licking. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Oct 22 2009 : 10:46AM I also like the suggestion of ending the stroke with a very light touching of the clit. My SO has a very sensitive clit and this has been a great way to get it involved in the game without overdoing it. Think about how quickly tickle-fight would go from hysterical laughing to crying as it got old quickly. Sometimes it helps to treat the clit the same way. Also, I've heard this from somewhere and it's worked for me: When giving the clit direct attention, try using circular strokes or side to side, not up and down. [Link] |
| fotomatt Member 78 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Oct 22 2009 : 3:28PM [Link] |
| BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Oct 22 2009 : 5:41PM
[div] Things I echo from previous posts - Girls vary tremendously individually. There's no formula, even with individual girls (mood and preferences change). - Always adapt, esp. if she isn't getting into it. - Body language is extremely important for feedback. TTB's head grabbing is a great example. This is a few times where I've seen girls routinely get extremely physical (sometimes almost felt like my neck was going to snap). - Go from general to specific. - Like anything, it's practice and learning. Don't get frustrated. [/div] Good luck. [Link] |
| Vacheron Member 12 Posts 9/09 | Posted - Oct 23 2009 : 1:01AM Give that man a beer!!!!! From the male point of view, you must be married to my wife's twin sister. I have your same techniques and they work wonderfully ALL the time. I love when I feel her getting into her orgasm mood and when it finally explodes. By the way, I have always said that there is no pleasure like drinking pussy juices. Good post Fotomatt. [Link] |
| BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Oct 24 2009 : 9:44AM Interdigitate your fingers (palms facing towards each other like during high-five). She can give non-verbal feedback using pressure, movement, and other sensory methods. It's relatively effortless and allows her for simultaneous verbal stimulation too. [Link] |
| fotomatt Member 78 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Oct 24 2009 : 11:53AM Anyone in here into face sitting? I just can't seem to convince my wife that this is a GOOD thing. [Link] |
| BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09 | Posted - Oct 24 2009 : 1:04PM [Link] |
| Dan Senior Member 2056 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Nov 11 2009 : 6:38PM In terms of the nerve endings, this is equivalent for a guy getting a hand-job on his cock and having the lady suck his balls at the same time. The lady's clitoris has the same nerve endings that the guy's cock has. And her outside pussy lips have the same nerve endings that the guy's skin around his balls has. Lots of lube is all you need. And your hand never gets tired the way your tongue can get tired in cunnilingus. Which means that you can keep up the pussy massage for as long as it takes to bring your lady to orgasm or to arouse her enough for good intercourse. Also, pussy massage like this is probably more hygienic and healthy than cunnilingus is. Because your mouth is normally full of bacteria and yeast, such as Candida. And some studies have found that cunnilingus puts women at increased risk of having recurrent vulvo-vaginal Candida infection. Which requires antibiotic treatment and puts the lady out of sex action for a while. Edited by - Dan on 11/11/2009 7:17:58 PM [Link] |
| bi_girl Member 157 Posts 11/09 | Posted - Dec 4 2009 : 11:53AM Behold, the clitoris in all its glory! http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/c/cf/Clitoris_anatomy_labeled-en.svg/663px-Clitoris_anatomy_labeled-en.svg.png That's right. Step number one is understand anatomy. You'll notice that the clitoris actually FORKS into two, on either side of the vagina. That is the WHOLE clitoris. Most women probably don't even know this, so now that you do, you're about a thousand steps ahead. Okay, moving on to the lips. Consider the fact that both male and female genitalia develop from the same embryonic stem cells. The same ones that turn into a penis, also turn into a clitoris; likewise, the scrotum cells are actually the same ones that the labia are made of. Now think about how much you love your balls tickled and licked. The labia feels the same way! They contain the same nerve endings. All right, so now that we've got anatomy out of the way, let's move on to the act itself. Assuming you've already spent at least 15 minutes on foreplay, kissing, groping, breast stimulation, etc., now you're about to mow down. ALWAYS breathe through your mouth. The tip about going from general to specific is spot on! Start with thighs, lick the labia gently (remember the skin is just about as sensitive as your scrotum!), stroke her body as you do this. The goal is to get her aching for you to touch her clit. Only then will she be fully aroused and ready to come. At this point she will have what I like to call a cloner (a portmanteau for clit boner). The clitoral hood retracts a bit and the clit actually becomes hard and engorged with blood, like your dick! Now, a tongue on, around, or in the hole itself can be nice but it is not where you want to focus your attention. I've had some men do this and it is not the way to go. Rather, take your time, look at her pussy, appreciate its beauty, and best of all, now you can actually see what the hell you're doing! Every vagina is different and the relative sizes of the clit and lips can all affect sensation. So take long, gentle strokes, circling around playfully. As she gets hotter she should instinctively thrust or rock her hips a little more, breathing deeper. Pay attention to these cues! Of course you can and should talk to her throughout, asking her if she likes it, if it feels good, etc. At this point you can definitely tongue her clit slowly and gently at first, increasing pressure and speed according to her reactions. At this point you can also try experimenting with fingers. Personally I absolutely love having a finger or two in me while being eaten out, but it needs to be done right. A simple finger or two, facing up, sliding at a moderate pace can be very very good. Being wildly fingerbanged and lapped at ferociously is usually not so great. In fact, the best orgasms I've had are when the guy has his tongue loosely on my clit, his fingers almost stationary inside of me, and I rock my hips against his face and his fingers automatically slide in and out according to MY pace. It's less work for him as he just has to stay like that while I get off basically! I like fingers during cunny so much I would have to say I need it almost every time, but of course, ask first! And of course, fingers and hands can and should be used in a variety of ways to stroke her body, caress her breasts, pinch nipples (that one really gets me over the edge!), etc. while you're eating her out. Now that she is just dripping wet and ready to cum, this is when you realllly need to pay attention to her body. If she's grabbing your head and grinding her pussy against it, try to breathe and hang on for the ride! If she tells you not to stop or that she's about to come, DO NOT STOP. Don't go faster, don't go slower, just keep doing exactly what you're doing. This is not an indication to go into warp speed!!! I've had far too many orgasms ruined by said misinterpretation. About 9 out of 10 times this will work, but it might not after a bit. Sometimes constant fast pressure can just make it go numb down there as it's too much. If that seems like the case, switch up your technique a bit, go a bit softer, and start building her up once again. The orgasm will just be more intense when it comes around this time :D. After an orgasm, my vagina is extremely sensitive, and having a cock plunge into me immediately after a guy's brought me to orgasm with his mouth is an incredible feeling. In fact it's definitely one of the best things ever. As for face sitting, it is one of the hottest things ever to me. Straddling a guy and having him squeeze my breasts as I ride his face is just heavenly. There isn't enough face sitting porn dammit! Not sure if I forgot anything, but if you follow this you should be able to pleasure the ladies like it's your job :D. And the best part of all, if you go down on a chick and you do it well, she will put 500% more effort into getting you off :D. Everyone wins! [Link] |
| HeyNow Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Dec 4 2009 : 9:18PM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Dec 5 2009 : 9:07AM As far as face sitting goes, that positions is an individual preference (mine too!) but I also don't just limit this to habing my pussy eaten. I love to fuck while sitting on top too. The good thing from my point of view is that if I'm sitting on a face and I'm ready to fuck I can usually, not always, shift positions and just reach down and slide the cock into me. It lets me call the shots... Edited by - wardqueenjanine on 12/5/2009 9:08:17 AM [Link] |
| DAF1740 Member 305 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Dec 7 2009 : 8:58AM This worked with my wife and I, and now she wants her ass fingered just about every time I lick her. Her orgasms are MUCH more intense this way. [Link] |
| davidx Member 7 Posts 12/09 | Posted - Dec 10 2009 : 5:36PM First tell her to close her eyes or blindfold her then take a feather and play with her lips 'on her face' then slowly slide the feather down to her breasts and play with only the ariolas not the nipples, then slide the feather down on her left and right thighs at this point in my experience an orgasm is already on its way. then just start any oral routine. david X A rose can work too just make sure to remove the thorn [Link] |
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