Questions for the Ladies from a Virgin Boy

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virgin_boy Member 41 Posts 5/09	Posted - May 30 2009 : 6:56PM Hi, guys... its me, virgin boy. Now forgive me.. and please dont laugh at me... but I am 19 years old and havent had sex yet, so I cant do anything but imagine on my part... but, girls, does it hurt when you have sex? I am not a tranny, nor am I trying to come off as gay or have transvestite feeling but maybe its because I'm a caring and oversensitive guy, but the deep deep moans and gibberish and the faces made-- sometime appear to me that we are physically abusing your insides when we have sex with you-- because it appears you are grimacing out of pain. Sometimes-- I feel so sorry for the girls it serves as a mental block whenever I try to force myself to watch porn. I cant imagine the immennse amount of pain and feeling that you must be going through during sex. I can only imagine that if I had something hard and long forced up my rectum that it would NOT be enjoyable-- matter of fact.. it would be absolute HELL. So please try not to laugh at me or make fun, because I am not expereienced with this sort of thing. But ladies-- is sex REALLY enjoyable for you? or is it a necessary evil that you endure for us? [Link]
NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08	Posted - May 31 2009 : 8:21PM The vag expands to pass a baby, so no penis is going to hurt it through girth or length.... Pleasure can look as lot like pain, but the sensations are not the same [Link]
Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01	Posted - May 31 2009 : 9:55PM NewRomancer wrote: The vag expands to pass a baby, so no penis is going to hurt it through girth or length.... Click to expand Not true. The vag can be hurt even by a finger. The vagina stretches enough to pass a baby after months of hormones and chemicals work on it during the pregnancy to make it stretchy, this is not the normal condition of the vagina. Vaginal tearing can occur from inserting an object too wide for the vagina to accommodate, particularly under conditions without lubrication. Lengthwise, the vagina does not expand and the cervix is not intended to permit the passage of anything into the uterus (except fluid in very, very, very small amounts). It is easy to cause a woman pain by inserting an object longer than the vagina into the vagina. However, generally speaking, when a man and a woman are having sex for mutual pleasure, nobody gets hurt. Don't count on porn to portray that. [Link]
NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08	Posted - Jun 1 2009 : 11:27AM Thank you for being more specific... I figured that precise info was obvious enough that it went without saying. [Link]
Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08	Posted - Jun 1 2009 : 12:14PM There's a whole generation of kids that are watching hardcore porn, before they have any real life sexual encounters, this is a shame and must scare some of them shitless! I'm not 100% convinced that the op is genuine, but I'm sure there are many youngsters who would feel that sex for women is not much fun, based on the porn they see! [Link]

virgin_boy Member 41 Posts 5/09	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 2:34AM Kimi Lixx wrote: NewRomancer wrote: The vag expands to pass a baby, so no penis is going to hurt it through girth or length.... Click to expand The vag can be hurt even by a finger. However, generally speaking, when a man and a woman are having sex for mutual pleasure, nobody gets hurt. Don't count on porn to portray that. Click to expand !!!!! whew That first statement almost ade me faint! if only a finger would hurt.. just imagine a penis!! man.. that scared me for a second until, you elaborated and told e that it was mutual pleasure. I was just thinking that since the woman is moaning SO deeply and is SO excited... that there MUST be some type of pain involved... because you NEVER hear men moan that deep (well at least i've never heard myself do so) even when it was a spectacular nut, i've never been as exuberant as some women are. I was watching my all-time dream girl and love porno star go at it with this other guy, and he had her whimpering and I kind of felt sorry for her, because it seemed like he was hurting her... and i had to pause it and leave for a couple of minutes... grab a drink of water, and then watch it again... wipes sweat off of forehead. it was a pretty intense experience for me to say the least. y expectations of beautiful sex was to see LOVE and PASSIONATE Love-making, not just a girl getting screwed until she sounds like she is whimpering.. you know what i mean? My reality as a virgin-boy was COMPLETE shock... i thought it was supposed to be romantic and slow... seeing actual sex and how it is done has COMPLETELY disappointed me [Link]
virgin_boy Member 41 Posts 5/09	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 2:39AM Bobcat wrote: There's a whole generation of kids that are watching hardcore porn, before they have any real life sexual encounters, this is a shame and must scare some of them shitless! I'm not 100% convinced that the op is genuine, but I'm sure there are many youngsters who would feel that sex for women is not much fun, based on the porn they see! Click to expand Yeah... I swear sometimes the way the girls oan.. sounds like they are in deep pain or something... i can only imagine what it would feel to have something just THRUST up in you... shivers.. whoo... i just dont HOW girls can do that. i dont know... i just hope this doesnt block me from wanting to perform to the best of my ability sexually with girls in the future. I need reassurance that having sex isnt abuse to women, because it certainly sounds and looks that way-- i mean.. just look at THEIR FACES when they are having SEX! They look like me when I am having diarrhea and am contemplating whether I want to throw up my food or tough it out and let t go out the opposite end. SERIOSULY-- this is a problem for me! [Link]
virgin_boy Member 41 Posts 5/09	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 2:41AM any reassurance that any ladies can give me that sex is indeed enjoyable, and not enjoyable in the "pain" masochist sort of sense. I'm sorry ...i'm not a sadist.. i dont enjoy dishing out suffering to others...especially beautiful women [Link]
Ivory Sex Object by Proxy "We all want our time in Hell." 647 Posts 8/04	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 1:29PM Nope, sorry, can't reassure you, every stroke is pure agony and torture. I guess you'll have to stop watching porn and jerk off, while not imagining that you're fucking, of course, for the rest of your life now. Edited by - Ivory on 6/7/2009 1:30:35 PM [Link]
Chambly Noire New Member Sex-positive females unite! 4 Posts 6/09	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 4:11PM I'm a woman who enjoys sex very much. Other girls I've talked to enjoy the feeling of it. And I'm guessing that the majority of porn stars enjoy sex--even the ones who do rougher scenes. Sometimes, a few slaps or hard thrusts feel great in the moment. When I lost my virginity, it didn't hurt very much, just felt mostly odd. I'd never felt anything like it before. It was intense. As I started having sex more, I started to enjoy that intense feeling. What does hurt is when I try to have sex before I'm fully lubricated and aroused. When you do start having sex, make sure she is into it as much as you are. And if she is a virgin, try to go gentle with the thrusting at first so she can get used to the sensation. Just my two cents. Good luck. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Jun 7 2009 : 4:31PM Have you considered priesthood? Edited by - Joey Starr on 6/7/2009 4:33:44 PM [Link]
Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08	Posted - Jun 8 2009 : 5:41AM virgin_boy wrote: any reassurance that any ladies can give me that sex is indeed enjoyable, and not enjoyable in the "pain" masochist sort of sense. I'm sorry ...i'm not a sadist.. i don't enjoy dishing out suffering to others...especially beautiful women Click to expand Dude, stop being a dick! Go and get a gf or hire an escort and fuck her! Porn isn't real sex, the women put on a show! When I fuck my gf she just looks happy and content, if she cums there's 30 seconds of panting and moaning then she say's "wow that was great" or similar! You're living in a sexual make-believe world of porn, you need to get real and stop worrying! [Link]
Rct3 Member 71 Posts 2/09	Posted - Jun 9 2009 : 10:18AM Joey Starr wrote: Have you considered priesthood? Edited by - Joey Starr on 6/7/2009 4:33:44 PM Click to expand I almost fell out my chair wow LOL!!!!!!! [Link]
Lethena Member 45 Posts 5/09	Posted - Jun 13 2009 : 7:44PM First, porn is a fantasy. You can't compare it to sex in real life. :) Second, If you're horny enough and wet enough things won't hurt. You'd be surprised how stretchy a pussy really is. But if you're not in the mood and dry like a desert the tiniest little thing can hurt and tear. I have bumped into guys that tend to be a little to "big" for me, but nothing that can't be solved with lube. As a virgin it can hurt like hell though the first time. My first time (as many) wasn't any plesure at all. [Link]
HotMandy Member 38 Posts 4/09	Posted - Jun 17 2009 : 5:21AM Virgin boy - there is no way sex is a necessary evil! I LOVE it, and that is the truth, I did have one boyfriend in the past who had an enormous penis (bigger than most pornstars) and it did mean that certain positions were a no no, but hey ho! I talk to my girlfriends all the time about sex and the truth is we love it! I love porn too so you needn't worry so much :-) xxx [Link]

Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06	Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 1:55AM NewRomancer wrote: Thank you for being more specific... I figured that precise info was obvious enough that it went without saying. Click to expand I'd say you actually had no clue what the hell you were talking about until Kimi pointed it out, causing you to backtrack with that lame-ass "I thought it was obvious so I didn't bother saying it" remark. Not buying it from my end, dude. You were clueless about that whole hormones thing making the pussy more stretchable. Hey, I didn't know it either, but I would've at least owned up to it and said thanks for teaching me something new. I hate it when people pretend they knew something they actually didn't know, and try to convince us they knew all along but just didn't mention it. That's a pretty important detail to leave out, especially when you're giving advice to a virgin, don't you think? [Link]
Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06	Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 1:59AM BTW, Virgin Boy, in response to you question: Yes, it can be painful for a woman to have intercourse if her pussy's too tight or too dry, or if your cock is too big or too dry, etc. Always a good idea to engage in lots of foreplay (kissing, grinding, fingering, etc) to get her juices flowing (get her wet) and to open her up a little before you go in with One-eyed Willy. [Link]
bigdawg Member 127 Posts 3/08	Posted - Jul 4 2009 : 1:51PM Joey Starr wrote: Have you considered priesthood? Edited by - Joey Starr on 6/7/2009 4:33:44 PM Click to expand He said he has questions about sex with a woman, not a little boy. [Link]
FyrePhoenyx New Member 3 Posts 7/09	Posted - Jul 9 2009 : 11:27PM Cryogenix wrote: BTW, Virgin Boy, in response to you question: Yes, it can be painful for a woman to have intercourse if her pussy's too tight or too dry, or if your cock is too big or too dry, etc. Always a good idea to engage in lots of foreplay (kissing, grinding, fingering, etc) to get her juices flowing (get her wet) and to open her up a little before you go in with One-eyed Willy. Click to expand Cryo has it dead on. I'd only add that you try it with someone you trust that trusts you. Experimenting and finding out exactly how each of your bodies are turned on is beyond words wonderful [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Dec 1 2011 : 2:17AM Ivory wrote: Nope, sorry, can't reassure you, every stroke is pure agony and torture. I guess you'll have to stop watching porn and jerk off, while not imagining that you're fucking, of course, for the rest of your life now. Click to expand Hilarious! I'm sorry I never noticed this thread before. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - Dec 2 2011 : 1:33AM If your partner acts like a prick then yes it can hurt. If I'm not ready, I'm not wet, if I'm not wet the friction hurts. Long finger nails and rough sex can also hurt. Take your cues from her. Ask her to tell you if something doesn't feel good to her. If she's a virgin herself, it's a hard pinch and a burning sensation for a minute but then it gets better. [Link]