It's not that people in a relationship have only fantasy on each other , but they won't speak out loud another man/girl name while fucking , nor they always watch a porn to fuck , even if one of them agrees to do this , surely it's not meant to be done every time also I didn't say that one of them is going elsewhere to get sex but if you constantly watch porn prior of fucking a girl she might think that she's unable to excite you so she SUSPECTS you may look elsewhere for something she can't provide. That why it is wrong to exceed in watching porn. lastly I don't have any "american excuse for having filthy ideas" firstly because I'm not American , I'm French/Italian and live in Europe , secondly I don't feel guilty for having filthy ideas , in fact I consider having sexual imagination an asset , not only for me but for my girls I like a woman who has "filhy" ideas who is experimental and has no fear to call for sex when she's in the mood. I actually consider this the most sane sexual life possible In addition I'm not part of any church or religion , I don't give a fuck to sins Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 4/19/2012 3:50:51 PM
watching porn when you are horny is one thing and speaking out the name of someone else while having sex with the one you love is something i would not ever do. I mean i may love to see my favorite pornstars as much as i can think but when i would have sex with my girl i would not pretent to have sex with the pornstar. This sounds kinda sick (no offense) By the way, i guess "little Cube" would not work anywayi would not watch porn prior to sex. If i would not come from sex then maybe i would watch it afterwards ... without the girl knowing it ... but thats even only a maybeI do not know who said it originally but most men are very easy. If a woman wants to make a guy happy just "be there" its that easy. If a woman is "too hot" thats an even bigger problem. I guess one of the main reason for having problems is the lack of speaking about things ... and its a lot easier to write about it then to talk about it.that was not ment to be an insult or anything like that ... it just crossed my mind ...honestly When i hear and read about the things you are not supposed to do in america i sometimes wonder if "they" dress in the dark in order not to see their bodies :)good :) i woul not have the nerve to talk about this Cube
Well, there are options... First, is she 'forcing' you to marry her and is she demanding - Quit porn? It is impossible to have sex daily but it is possible to watch porn every day. Why should you stop totally? You should talk to her - loving her is one thing, and watching porn is another and these two things are quite different. Watching porn is not cheating. You'll be looking at other girls in real life, you'll 'measure' them and probably have fantasies about them (maybe even about her friends) - and all of this she'll be unaware of. This thing to stop with porn would be similar to this scenario. Let's suppose that you like going to the sea. You like to swim, to be on sandy beach etc. Your wife-to-be, let's presume, adores hot sun and deserts. So, from now on, you decide - although you like sea, you'll stop with that and you''ll go to Sahara just to please your wife. You'll even say to her: Well, it is hot in desert, but it has a sand, as sandy beach, it is very similar! And what would happen later, when, for example, you''l want sex more than she does? You should talk to her and compromise. Convince her that you're not in love with the pornstars, that you can be for a month without a porn. What women really think is hard to figure out, but maybe she would watch some gentle stuff? I somewhere read a letter to a sex-advisor in which a woman complains how she caught her husband - masturbating (I don't remember if the porn was in question too.) So, it was like: Why is he masturbating? Am I not pleasing him? I caught him TWO times already...! Oh, woman, please... I got impression that she wants to control him: Now we have sex, now we don't. Now you are forbidden to masturbate, now you are allowed.
