I seldom start a thread. Well... I seldom start a thread which isn't about something stupid that I find funny. But this time I have a legit question, about rimming.
It's no secret that I just love stuffing my tongue up a woman's anus. But do you think it's gay if a woman did it to a man? For me the defination of homosexual is when two or more of the same gender do something sexual to each other, or find each other sexually attractive. I'm not so inclined; give me tits, long legs and a pear shaped hairless ass to get my motor running. Sorry, the closest I come to any male contact is double penitrations.
Someone in my yahoo group, got me thinking about public opinion of this act, when he asked if I did any videos in which a girl rimmed me. To be honest none come to mind, but I've done a fair bit and I don't always remember the details. (I tend to get lost in the sex and rarely think about the particulars.)
This leaves me with another question. Would this be something people want to watch? Perhaps an oral video where couples 69 and at some point end up in a mutual anal lickfest.
I look forward to the feed back
Hamilton
PS> Perverts, Swingers, Escorts and Pornstars... Real Sex happens in my Yahoo group. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SteeleEntertainment
No. To quote myself from another thread, "Your sexual identification (straight/bi/gay) is not determined by the parts of your body that you like to pleasure, but by the gender(s) of the people that you like to pleasure them with."I like to see guys rimming girls and girls rimming guys (and girls rimming girls, too), not in an isolated "fetish" context where the focus is on the act itself, but in sex scenes where the rimming seems to flow from the couple's sexual hunger for each other, their literally not being able to keep their mouths off of one another. Holly and Troy Halston do a great job communicating that kind of passion. I'll bet you and Kelly would be great, too. Go for it!!!
I'm pretty sure of one thing, I drank too much beer tonight to be responding to this thread.
Well I love to get rimmed, and the fact of the matter is its not a gay thing. I like to get blowjobs too.
I once had a girl think she could get to me cum by rimming me, I wasn't going to stop her from trying. She almost came close.
I couldn't take it anymore and fucked her like she had never been fucked before.
But she was hellbent on making me cum by sticking her tongue up my ass, so this process went on day and night, her sticking her tongue up my ass and me fucking her. We did this until we passed out from exhaustion. Then when we woke up she tried it again, 48 hours later we gave up.
Homosexuality is the attraction of men to men, nothing more nothing less. Rimming has nothing to do with that. It is a medical fact that stimulation of the prostate increases a males sensitivity and the best way to stimulate a prostate is in the ass.
So in short, no its not a gay thing. (at least in my twisted mind)
In my mind it's a gay thing but that's me. I do hate seeing male rimming in films, I mean I don't want to see male assholes being licked, females assholes are no problem.
I think the confusion comes from mixing up straight vs. gay with top vs. bottom.
For example, there are plenty of "straight" men that wouldn't think twice about fucking another man in the mouth or ass, but would never, ever eat pussy.
My question is, who is the top in rimming? The eater, or the eatee?
i'm with bob and i don't think it's a gay thing so far. in addition i can agree with Ramsey partially, it is a big turn off to see malformed hairy asses get rimmed by a woman, i can't imagine they like it that way.
If it's followed by a guy's dick going in the guy's ass, then I'd say it's pretty gay. If it's just a girl doing it, then no and it's something I'd like to see more of in movies. I also wouldn't mind more of women penetrating men in videos.
No, women rimming men isn't gay; and I agree with Astroknight, if for no other reason than it would do the misogynists and gay-bashers a world of good to see women penetrating men.
I would not consider the act as gay if it were between a man and a woman. And even if it were 2 men....big deal. As long as it is all around sex feast...let them at it. Just dont make it part of the every so boring "manditory" position shot. Let it be a natural act while having sex, so if the girl feels like rimming abit....let her.
Ha.... I'd loved to see more men taking it up the ass by a woman....plenty of A2M too , which will probably never happen just to even the score out a bit. Somebody has to clean the strap-on, so why not??
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I'm not sure why you guys made that movie Guy Capo, I mean what's so attractive about seeing a guys asshole? You should have reversed it, it's all about the female asshole IMO ;-)
Believe you me, Ramsey, it's not my bag either...But we try to address everybody's little cravings, and apparently for a lot of guys, it's having your asshole tongue-fucked by a girl who's phone number you'd never be able to get in reality. I guess to each his own...Hmmmmmmmmm...I wonder if that's what my Mom meant when she told me that?
I think a lot of folks spend way too much thinking (and maybe worrying) about what's gay or what's acceptable sexually. Personally, I've learned most of things I enjoy doing sexually from watching well made adult films and I'm far from talking about couples' erotica. I once slept with a bi guy just to say I had tried it with one and (with his experience of pleasuring both sexes) it was the best sex I had had up to that point. As for this topic, there is nothing gay about a male getting rimmed by a female. It's a proven fact that the majority of men are throughly aroused by prostate play. It's a human, scientific thing and has nothing to do with sexual orientation or preference. I mean, you're not going to ask a bi female if going down on a female is "gay". Give me a break. There aren't too many things more appealing to me than to watch female-to-male rimming in movies if both performers are hot and when it's done naturally at the right moment(s) in the scene. I've noticed personally that the guys I've been with sexually show ultimate chemistry while, after and leading up to being rimmed! Take care ;-)
I don't think it is gay. It just looks a bit feminine. A man lying on his back with his legs pushed back toward his chest getting his Ass munched on might look feminine but who cares about that as long as it feels good.
I don't know if it's gay or not. I guess if you think it is then it is. If not, then it isn't.
But honestly....I don't really care to see a man's asshole being licked by anyone in a porn flick. I'd rather see the women getting their poopers saliva slicked.
It may not be the best thing to watch but who cares when it feels so good. You are missing out if you don't at least give it a shot. It's not most depraved act a girl can do in my opinion. See if you can get a girl with a tongue stud to do it, highly recommended!
From an industry perspective, the problem for most viewers is that rimming is difficult to shoot erotically unless females only are involved. It's simply the aesthetics of the male body on film that often create problems for the mainstream viewer.
It does feel wonderful to receive however, and the turn-on is enhanced by the hunger and attitude of your mate!
Go rent/buy a copy of Oral Consumption #8. Plenty of gals rimming/licking man ass. Watching Ava Miller's scene, I got serious wood. And I'm most assuredly NOT gay.
I think it's the "taboo" nature that makes it sexy, particulary if the woman does it to the guy as part of foreplay. Kinda a "worship" thing.
So a woman rimming a guy is gay? I don't see the logic. Because anything having to do with a male asshole has to be gay? Now if a guy is rimming a guy it's gay.
Maybe I missed the memo. But as far as I'm concerned anything between a male and a female is heterosexual.