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RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jun 20 2003 : 5:07PM
RobHammer's list of bi-related chat room responses.

In last Wednesday's chat the ladies were licking it up and someone asked about swallowing. I said, "I swallow too." The response I got was something like, "Ok Rob, that's more than we need to know." Of course, one of the younger bi-ladies kept pumping me for more, but I said that I would be polite since it was mixed company. The amount of lady licking dropped dramatically.

Anyway, I got to thinking about some appropriate responses and here is what I came up with:

Dreadfully sorry mate, didn't see Straight and Lesbian Only banner at the top of the chat window. It must have been an oversight on my part.

So the girls can talk about lickety splits, but the boys can't talk about sucking the d....

I've gotten a similar response at a mixed swing party too.

Wow, it's the bi-channel.

I wasn't aware that bi-females have a right to express their sexuality, but bi-males don't. Thanks for pointing that out.

I know this is a fantasy porn chat, but there are real bi-males here just like there are real bi-females.

Watching porn, one might construe that bi-females are in the majority, whereas bi-males are very rare. Both of those views are fiction. The statistic for self-identified bi's of both sexes comes in at around 8%.

If the girls start talking about lickety splits, the boys might start talking about sucking the d....

Feel free to add your own.

Oh, why am I posting this at Gay DVD Talk?
(1) If I posted this on WN&N it would probably end up getting moved here anyway.
(2) I might actually want to use these in chat.

Just working on getting kicked and banned user status.

Edited by - RobHammer on Jun 20 2003

GaySatyr
Senior Member

Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat!
1684 Posts
10/00
Posted - Jun 20 2003 : 11:28PM
Sadly, there are no bisexual males. That males can be bisexual is a myth propagated by gays trying to further justify their perverted concept of diversity. Any male claiming to be bisexual is really gay and just trying to pass.

Just ask any uber-christian.

(OED: uber-christian(s) - n, collective. (1) Ultra right-wing, fundamentalist, pseudo-religious, self-righteous bigots; (2) Bible-belt protestants; (3) members of the Southern Baptist Convention or of the Latter Day Saints (Mormons); (4) Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson, James Kennedy, others. See more at: neo-Nazi.)

That's why a guy can't discuss sucking cock in the context of male-male sex when anyone other than gay or bisexual males are present.

~ GaySatyr

RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 12:32AM
GaySatyr,

You obviously haven't been in the chat room when Sietel and I are there with the ladies.

GaySatyr
Senior Member

Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat!
1684 Posts
10/00
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 1:44AM
Actually, no, I haven't. I'm usually working Wednesday evenings and don't get home until about 4am (east coast time). By then, the chat room is usually dead.

In a variety of environments, I've seen (and caused) conversations about sex and sex acts to stop cold by interjecting a gay point of view on the subject of cock sucking. TMI is one of the more polite objections.

That isn't to say that the issue can't be forced - it can, often quite successfully - especially when ladies of like mind are present and in the relatively sexually liberal atmosphere of ADT's forums or chat room.

However, look at the responses in the Male Rimming thread. To gay and bi guys, it is one more variation on how to have a great time; whereas, with many of the str8 guys, it is either disgusting or acceptable only in the context of degrading a gal. In a liberal environment, that's some serious bias.

And, please, I am not accusing male ADT members of being homophobic. (Is there a very bad pun buried deep in that remark?) Rather, I'm pointing out that, despite open acceptance of homosexuality (and male bisexuality), bias against acts generally relegated to the homosexual realm is rampant.

~ GaySatyr

joeblow69
Member

946 Posts
2/00
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 10:59AM
Sorry you had a bad experience in the chat room Rob. I wouldn't say that this sort of thing is typical, though. I've had quite a few chats with Trica and Tina about all sorts of gay sex stuff, and didn't get any comments from the peanut gallery.

Anyway, you shouldn't feel like you have to censor yourself in the chat room because you fear offending the straights. If they don't want to hear what you have to say, they can always put you on ignore.

 
RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 2:11PM
Joe,

I did not have a bad time in the chat - I've been there quit a lot and we have a lot of fun. I chose to make a point by saying it was mixed company, and I think that said more to the people in chat than any of the other cute responses I could have made.

BIGmike
B-I-G-m-i-k-e

2335 Posts
3/01
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 2:32PM
I've never been in a chat, but from what GaySatyr said: Any male claiming to be bisexual is really gay and just trying to pass.

So I guess I'm gay.

Now this confuses the fuck out of me because I still watch and get aroused, quite a lot actually, from straight porn, watching vast amounts of it, and whacking off a little too damn much to it as well.

...oh, and I guess I do get turned on by the questionable she-male porn that I watch.

So while I can say that I do get turned on from watching gay sex, it doesn't always do "it" for me.


Rob, I wouldn't worry too much, I once sucked my own cock and even came in my mouth several times, though not at the same time, just because I could. Cum tastes odd and acidic, I downed it, but can't say I would do it everyday, but once in a while is a-okay.

- - - B-I-G-m-i-k-e, over & out! - - -

tricia_devereaux
Evil Angel DVD

Patience is a virtue, but who wants to be virtuous?
4283 Posts
4/00
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 2:45PM
Rob - sorry to hear that anyone would have said TMI if it was anything other than a joke.

As joe mentioned, I've talked with him about gay movies and acts in chat several times, and we've never had anyone make any comments about it.
We did get lindi to join in though!

As for guys being bi, it's my ultimate fantasy...
and I've fantasized a few times about the possibility of getting joeblow or GaySatyr to do a little bisexual experimentation with me!

blklthrjkt
Passionfruit Video

Dallas
105 Posts
7/02
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 5:45PM
Rob,

I haven't been on in a while, but I can assure you there are lots of guys who consider themselves bi. On the form there is usually a very good acceptance of my comments, (I'm gay) and in the chat room when I have been there, few if any people have been critical.

I guess I might have to reclassify myself, because there have been times when I got turned on watching two women, so maybe I'm really tri-sexual... if it's sexual, I'll try it!

Kurt

RobHammer
Independent Producer

San Jose, CA
444 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jun 21 2003 : 6:50PM
Tricia,

I've been offering to sponsor a group 'visit' but no of legal age has wanted to opt in on the deal.

If you are ever in the Bay Area I know a bi-friendly club I could take you to.

malkira
Member

323 Posts
6/02
Posted - Jun 22 2003 : 3:47PM
I think I must be pansexual, because I just like watching hot people fuck and suck. When I got to the age that I started having wet dreams, they were usually about girls, but I also had a couple about boys. It's rare that I meet a male I'm attracted to, and I've never acted on my bisexual feelings, but I've always known that the potential was there. When people make jokes about such things, it's sometimes just a way of dealing with a subject they're not comfortable with.
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