As I get older, I feel like I am losing confidence in my sexual prowess. Porn really turns me on, and I would love to have long sessions of hard pumping in several positions. I'm not into rough stuff, but I do enjoy when both parties go at it vigorously and are clearly having fun.
The problem for me is that I either a) get tired too quickly or b) cum too quickly. So I play head games with myself and find myself losing confidence at times which leads an attitude that is not as conducive to fun as in my younger years.
Fortunately, I am very good with my tongue, which my partners definitely appreciate, but I feel like I can't satisfy them when it comes to good simple fucking. I love it in cowgirl, but too much of that makes me feel lazy and inconsiderate. Doggy is fun, but that has me coming not long after I get a good rhythm going. Another plus is that I can get wood often, but I just don't feel as "effective" with it as before.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about? I don't know how the porn guys do it... even for half the time. I mean, I see scenes of non-stop action lasting for 30 minutes or more. Seven minutes or so is as much as I can handle.
I tend to prolong the session with a slow, tender rhythm which is great, but in the back of my mind I feel inadequate. Don't know what I'm asking here, really, but this has been on my mind recently, and this seems like the place to talk about it.