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Sir Noel Plum
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Posted - Nov 15 2004 : 2:25PM
...... and your point is exactly??????
Joey Starr
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Posted - May 22 2005 : 1:19AM
Just noticed I failed to update on my Kamagra trial...

Ordered and got pills instead of jelly, didn't bother to make a fuss kept the pills and experimented with them in the last few months.

No side effects aside from a rise in body temperature and flushed cheeks.

I didn't see too much visible effect (used pills cut in half most of the time, and an entire pill once), although I got more confidence for long bouts of intercourse, but this might as well be a psychological/placebo side effect.

All in all nothing miraculous, I may try Cialis when my stock runs out.

Anyone tried Cialis or a generic equivalent?

Edited by - Joey Starr on 5/22/2005 1:20:34 AM

lindi
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Posted - May 22 2005 : 10:13AM
With the original question about staying harder longer, I'm not sure whether it was more about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, but here are some links to a book on erectile dysfunction and more books.

And here is the definitive guide on premature ejaculation.

Joey Starr
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Posted - Feb 16 2008 : 12:57PM
Anyone tried Kamagra jelly apart from SNP? I've tried the tablets but not the jelly and was considering ordering the later...
 
Joey Starr
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Posted - Dec 11 2008 : 2:51PM
I just tried the Kamagra oral jelly, works great, I got an erection very easily during arousal, and could keep on fucking furiously for about 40 minutes. And I could have started again after ejaculation if I had wanted to, well it felt like it anyway... It took about 20 minutes after taking the jelly to get the effects.
This is just my first time with the stuff, will add more comments later.
Edited by - Joey Starr on 12/11/2008 2:53:38 PM
Robin Goodfellow
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Posted - Dec 13 2008 : 3:44PM
Get him to eat some potatoes and cream and pop a pill should keep him going unless he just not pasionate.
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Dec 13 2008 : 9:10PM
Where did you get it?
Joey Starr
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Posted - Dec 14 2008 : 5:02AM
Kimi, I bought it from those guys : www.kamagranow.co.uk.
Edited by - Joey Starr on 12/14/2008 5:03:06 AM
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Dec 14 2008 : 1:43PM
But they don't ship to the USA - bummer.
Joey Starr
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Posted - Jan 4 2009 : 6:40AM
This Kamagra oral jelly is great, I can fuck like the Energizer bunny!
At the moment I have yet to try a half-dose though...
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Jan 4 2009 : 12:27PM
Does it delay your ejaculation at all?
Joey Starr
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Posted - Jan 4 2009 : 2:38PM
Yes. I can last longer but still come without problems (I heard some guys on Viagra are unable to ejaculate).
I could last only about half as long without the jelly and even then it would be by taking pauses and fucking at a much slower, gentler pace.
Edited by - Joey Starr on 1/4/2009 2:39:45 PM
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Jan 4 2009 : 3:41PM
I think I was unclear with that last question. I would NOT want his ejaculation delayed. Did it slow you down?
I still can't figure out how to get this stuff here.
pilgrim
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Posted - Jan 5 2009 : 6:29PM
 
Cryogenix
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Posted - Jan 12 2009 : 12:39AM
Tried several cockrings just for her pleasure, but twice the head of my cock got very blue and tiny blood bumps appeared, so I stopped using them. It didn't seem that tight, either. Also, it seemed to deaden the sensations. I wouldn't take any drugs unless I couldn't get it up, but to each his own. Hopefully, through regular masturbation/sex since I was 12, my cock's already conditioned to become hard on demand until I'm 70.
cliteruss
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Posted - Jan 28 2009 : 5:27AM
Yeah, I tried that, and I had a hard-on for six hours! The veins in my cock nearly burst. I did have two tablets at a time.
Haven't used Viagra much since. But it does work. Make sure you get the genuine pills. Loads of fake stuff out there which are basically candy disguised as the drug.
warrenwest67
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Posted - Mar 3 2009 : 1:09PM
I have recently been using, First a cockring and secondly Viagra. Both work well. I like the cockring, but I think I love Viagra to stay harder, longer!
I started on Alegra D for allergies about 5 years ago. I think that it has effected my ability finish. I have talked to a few professionals about it, before I started on Viagra and the cockring. I am glad I happened to start the Alegra first because I would have blamed the Viagra.
But I do either/or to stay hard. I love them and so does the Wife.
betamale
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Posted - Mar 7 2009 : 9:07AM
so glad this isn't an issue for me even if I could get laid. I've probably set the world record for duration of sex before. too bad I don't get to anymore.
frank54
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Posted - Mar 8 2009 : 3:43PM
Shop around on the net for "Stud 100" delay spray. Use about 3+ squirts on shaft and head of penis and massage in. After about 20 minutes try intercourse. It works wonders. Try to practice fellatio before applying the spray as it has a peculiar taste.
Dentists used to apply the same spray before giving local injection. It will numb the surface of the penis whilst still allowing sensations under the skin. But watch you don't overuse as it can lead to loss of erection. Give it the 20/25 minutes recommended.
Good luck!
Another technique to last longer is for the man to stop for a while whenever he feels he's coming. This can be practised better when using the spray (the spray gives the man a "fighting chance" especially when desperate!), as a precursor to managing without chemical aid at all!
frank54
Remember that if you're desperate for it, it means that, subconsciously, you don't want it.
abhibhaaarya
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 9:05AM
spam removed
Edited by - Steph on 3/16/2009 9:50:42 AM
albertcruz83
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 12:08PM
will red bull work?
Pagoda
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 3:41PM
Currently I'm getting good feedback on a supplement called Stiff Nights. I have a lot of repeat customers for this one, and some have said it works even better than it claims.
I think cock rings are a good method for prolonging erections. For guys with too little sensitivity, they get harder erections and are thus more sensitive. For guys that ejaculate prematurely, the pressure of the ring can help suppress the orgasm for a while. You want to look for a lasso or loop type device that's adjustable and has enough slack to be wrapped around the base of the scrotum if that's what's needed. Those are the most versatile, and most effective.
For anything else, be it a supplement or a topical application, you must know your ingredients. Don't go by the name of the product, or its claims on the packaging. You could end up buying something that has the exact opposite effect you want.
For stimulating supplements, look for the amino acid L-Arginine. This is a vascular dilator, and is what creates harder erections and increases sensitivity. Due to the increased blood flow, it also intensifies orgasm. Don't take it if you have any heart problems or blood pressure issues. It's also an ingredient in topical stimulation formulas, but due to its acidity, it does have a tendency to rub you raw after a while.
For stimulating topical formulas, use female clitoral stimulation products. I'm loyal to System Jo WILD stimulation gel. Rub it in to your dick and balls, and you'll be hard as a rock, and maybe have multiple orgasms. Plus, it sends women through the roof. All couples should have a vat of it on hand at all times. If the WILD is too intense, there's also a medium formula, MILD, and a gentler one, LIGHT. Try it out. It has the added bonus of smelling like pure peppermint, so you'll probably get some good head out of the experience too.
For desensitation, I recommend delay sprays, rather than creams. Sprays absorb completely, so they won't transfer to your partner. The last thing you want is to pound away at her longer, while she can't feel anything. If you still ejaculate too quickly, you might need a higher concentration of benzocaine than is found in delay products. For this, you have to go to the drug store and buy the big guns. Chloreceptic is your friend. Use it like a delay spray (don't forget those sensitive balls), wait for it to do its numbing magic, then clean all the sticky sugar off your skin. If you still have trouble, put a condom over it, or use lots of lube. Decreasing friction will help a lot. The female G-spot orgasm is reached less through friction than by angle and pressure, so slick her up, find the right position, and pound her good and hard.
And practice your Kegels! Strengthen your PC muscles so you can consciously stem the flow of ejaculate the way you can cut off the flow of urine.
That's about all the advice I can offer without a medical degree.
Pagoda
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 3:46PM
The caffiene in Red Bull increase stamina, but it will also restrict blood vessels. You're better off taking vitamin B-6, folic acid and zinc.
Kimi Lixx
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 5:08PM
Pagoda, thank you, from the bottom of my insatiable experiment loving heart.
 
BigBobxxx
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 5:39PM
Being topical, this should be medically safe?
Or, are things like this absorbed through the skin and cause problems?
Are there any warnings that come with the product?
System JO website
Edited by - BigBobxxx on 3/16/2009 5:42:55 PM
Pagoda
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Posted - Mar 16 2009 : 9:28PM
^^Shouldn't be a problem with the System Jo. Their stuff is made with all medical-grade ingredients. They're a division of a pharmaceutical manufacturer, which also makes generic store-brands of Tylenol and stuff like that. Their products were originally developed to be dispensed by doctors. The WILD stimulation gel has only about 5 ingredients, all of which are active. Unless you have an allergic reaction to peppermint, menthol or capsacin, all of which can be injested and absorbed through mucus membranes safely, you're fine.
spiralcloud
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Posted - Mar 17 2009 : 7:45AM
I took Viagra a and Cialis for a while but no big difference.
Golden Root Complex (goldenrootcomplex.com)is an herbal one but it gave me headache and blocked my nose (due to the vessels congestion).
I'm using Maca since a few months and I'm finding I'm definitely more horny and have no problems with my erections.
I've used a lot of anhestetic creams when I was younger: great stuff, you can fuck for one or even two hours and the girls will ask you how do you do that but at the end you'll lose your sensitivity and now if a girl doesn't suck me very hard or if there isn't anything that stimulate my mind (her lingeries, positions etc) I always feel very little... it's also very difficult to cum and although i know this is what many men are looking for, it's not fun... you never know if you'll come or if at a certain point you dick will say "I've enough!".
pornfiend69
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Posted - Mar 19 2009 : 9:12PM
Kamagra works for me.
I had erectile dysfunction,tried this,worked for me.
It's a cheaper generic version of Viagra.
Drebin
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Posted - Apr 28 2009 : 2:38PM
as mentioned in previous posts theres lots of various drugs, stimulants and other stuff that do the job nicely. if you want to stay harder for longer when masterbating simply using a different technique may be the way to go.
i use the one below if i want to take the time to really enjoy the porn..
FORESKIN TEASER
Sit down and get an erection. Fully retract your foreskin to reveal the glans. If you're right-handed, use 2, 3, or 4 right-hand fingers to move the skin on the base of the penis up and down, as if you were masturbating in the normal way — but *do not* touch the glans (penis head) or move the skin over the glans. Keep the foreskin retracted at all times. You will notice it is very difficult to get an orgasm this way, since there is no glans stimulation. It's meant to be like this; don't worry. After 5-10 minutes, you will get close to orgasm. Do not start moving the foreskin over the glans; keep moving the skin on the base only. When you reach the "point of no return," slow down. Keep moving very slowly during this moment. If you do this right, you can "surf" on this wave for 5-10 seconds — a mind-blowing feeling! Afterwards, ejaculation follows as usual.
note: i edited it slightly as it mentioned using your left hand to grab your nipples and shit - that is just lame imo
Source: http://www.jackinworld.com/
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Apr 29 2009 : 11:45AM
It's my experience that mechanical means i.e.cockrings, etc. work better, or at least more uniformly, than do topical creams or medications. Besides the cock ring I've used tying up the ball, just at the base of the cock. It's best to try have have him get an erection first then make sure the balls are fully distended and wrap the rope around the base next to the shaft. As you might expect, don't cut off the blood supply. This works very well if you are into bondage games or if the woman is a domme. Once this has been accomplished, you'd be surprised how much control she can have over the cock, arousing it with very little manual or oral stimulation.
Pagoda
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Posted - Apr 29 2009 : 1:22PM
One thing I forgot to mention. For men that lose their erection during sex, all the stimulation in the world won't help if they're not physically fit. One of the best things a man can do for himself is lose weight and improve his cardio-vascular fitness. Intercourse is a cardio workout, and your heart is going to deliver most of your blood to your major muscle groups. If you're out of shape and winded, you might not get/keep enough blood in your penis to maintain an erection. Regular physical exercise not only increases stamina, but releases endorphins and triggers the production of testosterone. Plus you'll look better and feel more confident, which can only improve your sex life.
Have your doctor rule out and/or identify underlying health conditions. If a medication is the culprit, let your doctor know about this side effect. American doctors are just as reluctant to discuss sex as the average American. This has to change. You must force your doctor to acknowledge that a sexual side-effect is not a trivial thing. It has all kinds of consequences. What if you and your wife want to start a family? What if your marriage is suffering? What if you're becoming clinically depressed by this? If your doctor doesn't bring up the topic, you must do it.
You wouldn't believe how many people come to my shop for help with medical problems. Women that can't orgasm due to anti-depressants, men who can't keep an erection due to prostate problems. When I ask if they've discussed it with their doctor, 9 times out of 10, they say they haven't. The other 10% tell me that the doctor sent them to me. I'm a retail sales clerk! I have no medical qualifications. WTF is wrong with these doctors?
LubeNLuv
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Posted - Apr 29 2009 : 3:48PM
It should be common knowledge, but it isn't.
Almost all Antidepressant's will impact your ability to achieve/maintain an erection and/or orgasm. The number one most effective drug treatment for the opposite problem, premature ejactulation, is to prescribe a mild anti-depressant.
This mainly applies to AD's of the SSRI variety. It is well documented. And if you think you MUST have AD's in the first place, it is also widely known that simply getting yourself into a more active lifestyle, losing some weight, etc can eliminate the need to take AD's in the first place.
So take Pagoda's advice...get in shape. THEN if you still have ED or anorgasmia issues, look into meds. But if you aren't in shape, that's likely the cause of any number of other issues.
eva jordan
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Posted - Mar 9 2010 : 11:49PM
some one can help me where I can buy Kamagra Oral Jelly product in cheapest cost ?
soragesum
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Posted - Mar 16 2010 : 10:27PM
Been wearing cock rings for most my life. Love em! I get so hard it's almost painful... but the good kind of painful. ;)
Also the constant feel around your balls/cock, makes me ready to go 24/7!
 
jensweats
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Posted - Mar 24 2010 : 7:14AM
We have used Trustpharma . com before for Sildenafil and Kamagra. I think they were bought buy another company though. Just go there and look around. If you get pill form, cut them in half at first. Half a pill keeps him hard as a rock for as long as I can stand it. We've also found some condoms with delay cream or something in them that actually worked too. Used in combination with the Viagra he can do you till you turn blue if you want. When you're ready for a mammoth pop shot, pull the condom off, and let it fly.
Jen
Edited by - jensweats on 3/24/2010 7:16:52 AM
BYOB_Kenobi
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Posted - Mar 24 2010 : 11:42AM
Yup, Pagoda hit it on the head.
Your penis/erection is just blood flow (excluding psychological arousal factor).
A good way to imaging it is a pump (heart), a hose (arteries), and a inflatable swimming raft (penis), with another hole/larger-hose (veins) connected to the raft going back to the pump.
A healthy cardiovascular system (and a good working erection) is able to pump enough fresh blood thru the clean and elastic hose (able to dilate and accommodate a large gush of blood) filling the inflatable raft on demand and draining older blood back thru the big hose that goes back to the pump ---> erections are normal.
An unfit CV system: a bad pump or narrowed hoses would have problems pumping blood on-demand to the raft causing major delays or not enough blood to fill the raft.
The cleaner and fitter system is able to accommodate the increase in cardiac output triggered by psychological arousal, ultimately getting fresh oxygenated quantities of blood to the penis.
Dot, dot, dot - The easiest and most effective thing a person can do to ensure a good erection is to keep a fit (heart) and clean (not narrowed or clogged arteries) CV system. Is it any wonder why ED is much higher incidence in older men (many who have more unfit CV systems) or people with diseases that have CV pathology (e.g., diabetes)?
Note: this is just human physiology ignoring the important/necessary psychological component.
Edited by - BYOB_Kenobi on 3/24/2010 11:48:42 AM
gregs1775
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Posted - Apr 29 2010 : 2:08PM
Better living through chemistry.
A little recreational use of viagra will do the trick nicely.
taylor_swift_tasty_feet
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Posted - May 1 2010 : 12:23PM
Viagra works well but if you drink too much with it it will lessen the effect.
gillty
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Posted - Oct 13 2011 : 3:50AM
that's true
however I use the little blue pill to balance it out
a night on red wine and sex is usually a disaster - sex wise
so I find recreational use balances out the red wine effect
amadeo
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Posted - Oct 14 2011 : 4:47AM
generic sildenafil (Viagra) as well as generic tadalafil (Cialis) for me as well. Sometimes I'll give myself a little more overtime before ejaculation with some generic fluoxetine (Prozac) or dapoxetine (Priligy).
Usually can continue for several minutes after ejaculation. Allows me to do the ol' Ron Jeremy old school cum and re-insert. And yeah, all the same not everyone enjoys that move.
:)
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Oct 14 2011 : 6:21PM
Cockstar is a huge seller at my shop. I have customers that could not take Cialis or Viagra who swear by it. They like it because they can drink on it and I guess Cialis has a headache side effect? I guess with Cockstar they don't get that.
amadeo
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Posted - Oct 15 2011 : 7:58AM
Haven't had any headaches (or blue vision, priapism, etc.) with either med, but yeah, it's a known side effect in general. Depends on the person, as with all meds.
:)
StarGrek
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Posted - Oct 22 2011 : 6:56AM
Having read many interesting posts about men's troubling issues..
I would like to testify my personal ... expereiences too...which always worked for me.
First of all, fellow compatriots ;), the healthier and the more fit you are, the better results you ll have. Thats a general rule. Ok I know we are not all Schwartzeneghers but trust me, if you start exercise and keep a decent diet, you will see results immediately.
Now there are a few simple things you can do without using pills or any other medical substances, in order to be durable...
First, it would be very helpful to let your body and mind relax before you start action. Trust me, "rebooting" your system will give you more energy. Try to plan sex after a long resting period. For the same reason a nice warm refreshing shower will do the trick for you. Be careful warm, not cold!
There are many common aphrodisiacs in your kitchen, mostly anti-oxydants, like fruits and vegetables. A glass of Red wine and a piece of dark chocolate can also help. Be careful, dont eat a lot before sex.. but still eat something.
Now, if you plan a special day to perform good, I would advice you to fast from sex for a few days before. And when I mean fasting.. I mean everything.. porn, masturbation, "dirty" thoughts.
There are other tricks as well, that have to do with the sexual positions you use. Some positions can help you sustain a lot more than others... Use your partners physical characteristics for this cause. Explore and experiment ... Another hint also is to use your body well, use a steady fast rhythm and take break when you feel tired.
These are all good, but the most important factor to remain hard is one. Your BRAIN! It doesnt matter if your partner is a fashion model or not. It doesnt matter how fit or capable lover you are. If you really want to have extra ordinary results you have to ... "dope" your self with lots of sexual mood and passion for this particular person you will be with. Dont hesitate to tell your partner what you want her to do to you.. your particular activities or fetishes can keep stimulating for you.
thats all...

Meanwhile... Explore Sexuality!
amadeo
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Posted - Oct 23 2011 : 10:16PM
Whoa! Just finished a rather amusing soapy session at the Poseidon massage parlour with Super P-Force. Sildenafil 100 mg + Dapoxetine 60 mg. Half of that actually as I cut the pill in half. Ready for the second session within like 5 minutes of 1st pop shot.
:):):)
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